So the clubing scene is out of options?

[Beingbaldsucks]

Yesterday I was in a club and it was terrible, every woman I sew backed off when I was near her. So being bald means pretty much that you can get womans only with personality what makes clubs and bars to be usless, even if we get laid we need to work hard for it and have a really huge personality.so it sucks, I'm 20 so the people around me with hair and I can't match them with womans

 

[ghg]

I haven't noticed that, but obviously I don't go for the best looking girls... my own insecurities are my biggest obstacles when hitting in bars or clubs. I have to admit that I wouldn't get the best looking girls even if I had a full NW1 so... I mean come on, I'm 5'7" with below average face but a decent body. The body doesn't take me anywhere when my face and hair don't meet the standards. It's harsh but it's true. And yeah, I'm not 20 anymore so I can imagine how hard it must be for someone who is...

 

[Ori83]

I know it will go right throw you ghg but im as objective as it gets when telling you that you look really good (even in that prisonbreak photo there) you have strong facial features, blue eyes, good head shape and good overall proportion (ears size and whatnot), i know that being nw3+ sucks but in your case i say *with!!!* baldness your still at very least a 7.

for the op; im not sure about the bar/pubs (i dont go out anymore) but at the club its a throat-cutting for a bald young lad, specially when hair is so worshiped these days with all those funny haircuts and hair styles.. hair is crucial in this o'so superficial environment, if you cant handle rejection very well i say stay away from these places...

 

[Captain Obvious]

I've learned that the worst mistake a balding man can make at a bar/club is going alone. Being the bald guy is bad enough, but being the bald loner is the kiss of death. It's definitely not the same for good looking guys with hair because they have a mysterious-loner vibe. But baldies just have a sad-loner vibe.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

One womman totally flirted with me then I asked her out to a bar and she said she dosent feel good, then me and my friends sew her with another guy (full hair off course) in a bar near us, and she didn't even flirted with him before. What a stupid b**ch I want to slap her in the face.

 

[Primo]

I agree with what Ori said, it's a superficial cut throat environment and if you don't handle rejection well you should stay away because it happens to everyone there ( even NW1s)

The more awkward and nervous you appear in those places, the more you will repel women, hence the loner at the bar scenario.

I'm only a NW3 so I don't know what it's like for slick guys in the club scene but I guess you have to heavily style yourself and compensate with all kinds of sh*t, I do already with the way I dress..

Still I pulled some hot 20year old with a banging body in London the other day!! She had the choice of all these other young uni boys in the club with perfect NW1s, but went for me instead :woot: guess she digs the mature 25yo type, didn't see that one coming!

In general though, stick to the over 21 bars and clubs, slightly less superficial and more forgiving places and try and make sure you go to the club with a couple of girls, (friends or acquaintances) doesn't matter what your Norwood status is, this will shoot up your value!

 

[virtuality]

Well, I don't know what you are talking about :whistle:

TBH, I don't go clubbing anymore but it's more about my age and not that I don't want to. If I go clubbing, I kinds feel out of place.

If I was younger, I'd be hitting the clubs every weekend unk:

 

[kejan]

Agree with a few posts.

If you are low on confidence or handle rejection poorly then trying to get a girl in a club is maybe not the best place to start. Tons of tanked up people are all in there and many with the same agenda e.g to find a girl or guy. You need to have something about you too. I'm sures some bald guys do well in clubs, I know a baldie who is always pulling in clubs but he has the gift of the gab. He is funny, outspoke and quick with comebacks.

I've never been good at small-talk in clubs. The music is too loud. It's too crowded and too many people. Many people are drunk and a lot of the time, well where I live - the club is the last place you go after bars/pubs to try and pull.

I much prefer bars personally. It was always easier for me to speak to women in a bar - less crowded (most of the time), music is not loud and if you are sitting in an open bar you can get chatting to the person next to you.

 

[IrishFella]

I agree with what Ori said, it's a superficial cut throat environment and if you don't handle rejection well you should stay away because it happens to everyone there ( even NW1s)

The more awkward and nervous you appear in those places, the more you will repel women, hence the loner at the bar scenario.

I'm only a NW3 so I don't know what it's like for slick guys in the club scene but I guess you have to heavily style yourself and compensate with all kinds of sh*t, I do already with the way I dress..

Still I pulled some hot 20year old with a banging body in London the other day!! She had the choice of all these other young uni boys in the club with perfect NW1s, but went for me instead :woot: guess she digs the mature 25yo type, didn't see that one coming!

In general though, stick to the over 21 bars and clubs, slightly less superficial and more forgiving places and try and make sure you go to the club with a couple of girls, (friends or acquaintances) doesn't matter what your Norwood status is, this will shoot up your value!

I can tell your a fan of Adam Lyons et al.

 

[seb]

Bald men shouldn't go out,full stop.They should stay at home in a darkened room,where they are safe from the perils of this world.

 

[seb]

Sorry,I will rephrase that,and state,bald men should be forced to stay in,lest they ruin peoples night out with their hideous,offensive dome.

 

[Man in Space]

Seb you are in rare form today even by your standards!

I was in some clubs the other night, the first time for about 6 years. I literally cant imagine a worse place on earth. Crap music, drugged up fools, expensive drinks, venal women, ape like men, confined space, hell on earth.

Ive never liked clubs, i can remember in my younger days going clubbing abroad and having a woman on a podium grabbing me then rubbing her arse then groin in my face, pretty sure in her head she felt that was sassy and sexy like beyonce, I felt I was being dry humped by my dog.

 

[seb]

I haven't been out socialising for over 3years,nor do I intend to...its is bad enough seeing people when they are sober,let alone when they are drink/drugged up.

 

[seb]

Nightclubs are for the young and hairy.

 

[Man in Space]

Drunk and drugged up peoply are undeniably irritating. I do believe It says something about the reality of life that we feel such a desperate need to escape it.

 

[Man in Space]

Thanks but I certainly dont consider myself that, to an actual intellectual i would very much be a pseudo-intellectual, I dont understand anyone thing in real depth but Im naturally curious about almost everything. One of the first things we say as children is 'why' and to be honest I dont think ill ever get past that question!

Yeah, we all indulge in distractions, Drinks, Drugs, Books, Films, Games, music etc are definately all those. Im certainly not judging anyone who drinks or does drugs btw, each to their own, ive had my problems with drink.

As regards escapism, If you were to be able to float above the planet and take the roof off all the buildings i think you would see an awful lot of people self medicating to escape the reality of their situation. The majority wouldnt be emigrating to a nicer climate and living naturally, they would mainly be penned up taking there mind off their situation. That is a shame, as the earth is paradise, yet so many feel it is something we must escape from, rather than feeling like it is something we must explore.

Like in clubs, lets all get off our tits and try to find someone to bang and when you do its just meat on meat, cold and heartless. That to me is escaping because to find something deeper we have to explore ourselves and other people.

 

[Ori83]

ssoooo anything fun = escape?... :thumbdown2:

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

Night clubs and bars are not for the unliky ones, let's put it like this, this a ruthless cold world that judging people like a peace of meat, in clubs you can't even have a conversation, the music is too loud and you just dance with a hot skank then shag her in the bathroom. Bald people will only get woman's trough Personality,sensitivity, and conversations. The woman we can get can look good but they have to smarter,less superficial,and good personality. Thats why I'm in love with one that is beauty and also all of the things I stated. And she showed attraction to me, only that I ruined with with something bad I told her, now I'm trying to fix it.

 

[s.a.f]

Like in clubs, lets all get off our tits and try to find someone to bang and when you do its just meat on meat, cold and heartless. That to me is escaping because to find something deeper we have to explore ourselves and other people.

This is how many human beings are. Maybe things are getting worse with the decline of society but look around you. Yes there are respectable people out there but it seems a huge proportion of society these days are nothing more than shaved apes.
This type of behaviour is nothing new. Dont believe what you see in the movies that things used to be all romance and chivilry - good old fashioned courtship. Young people have always acted like this.

 

[Man in Space]

ssoooo anything fun = escape?... :thumbdown2:

Think your taking me too literally Ori everyones gotta do something. However Buddhists might not disagree with what you say though they wouldnt quite phrase it that way... The book of Buddha talks of just how most of peoples wants and needs are false, caused in part by there unawareness of the transcience of time...
Part of the reason i dont subscribe to Buddhism actually, im aware of the transcience of life, but Id rather not dwell on it!

This is how many human beings are. Maybe things are getting worse with the decline of society but look around you. Yes there are respectable people out there but it seems a huge proportion of society these days are nothing more than shaved apes.
This type of behaviour is nothing new. Dont believe what you see in the movies that things used to be all romance and chivilry - good old fashioned courtship. Young people have always acted like this.

I certainly dont believe what I see in the movies and I personally believe this is the best time in the history of humanity to be alive. I still think its a shame philosopihically that a lot of people would rather escape their minds rather than broaden them but its not killing me or anything! I can still go to Quiznos and tuck in.