Suicide

[RaginDemon]

Hi walker8476!
I am all for the suicide thing if hair's gone and i understand you completely.
But how would you feel if in 5, 8, 10 years time you'll be able to have it all back. New treatments are coming you see and commiting suicide now translates into stupid lack of patience.
So not even that is an option i'm afraid.

I am confident a near perfect fix will be available to the public in the next 10-15 yrs.

 

[IBM]

girls in his 20's wont date balding boys. That's one of the problems of balding. If you're engaged then you have less problems than a single guy.

And besides for many lack of hair means lack of personality because short or no hair wont fit.

 

[RaginDemon]

girls in his 20's wont date balding boys. That's one of the problems of balding. If you're engaged then you have less problems than a single guy.

And besides for many lack of hair means lack of personality because short or no hair wont fit.

thats kind of true. Most girls in that early 20's do tend to be more shallow.

however When you reach your mid 30's, you wont be interested in girls in early 20's anyways.

 

[hair today gone tomorrow]

girls in his 20's wont date balding boys. That's one of the problems of balding. If you're engaged then you have less problems than a single guy.

And besides for many lack of hair means lack of personality because short or no hair wont fit.

thats kind of true. Most girls in that early 20's do tend to be more shallow.

however When you reach your mid 30's, you wont be interested in girls in early 20's anyways.

speak for yourself...lol

 

[IBM]

girls in his 20's wont date balding boys. That's one of the problems of balding. If you're engaged then you have less problems than a single guy.

And besides for many lack of hair means lack of personality because short or no hair wont fit.

thats kind of true. Most girls in that early 20's do tend to be more shallow.

however When you reach your mid 30's, you wont be interested in girls in early 20's anyways.

It depends. Love is not bounded by age, race or religion.

 

[person]

Totally agree.

 

[Pondle]

But there is a phenomenon called "assortive mating". Humans mate assortively, not randomly.

 

[person]

But there is a phenomenon called "assortive mating". Humans mate assortively, not randomly.

Yeah but there is also 'negative assortative mating.'

 

[Pondle]

But there is a phenomenon called "assortive mating". Humans mate assortively, not randomly.

Yeah but there is also 'negative assortative mating.'

Doesn't happen as much as the former, though. People tend to marry individuals of the same race, religion and social class, or even of similar height and build or other characteristic.

 

[person]

But there is a phenomenon called "assortive mating". Humans mate assortively, not randomly.

Yeah but there is also 'negative assortative mating.'

Doesn't happen as much as the former, though. People tend to marry individuals of the same race, religion and social class, or even of similar height and build or other characteristic.

Well the psychologist Winch argued that couples will be happy if they each have complementary needs. For example, id a domineering person marries someone who is submissive, this may also both of them to fufil their needs. Sorry to digress but where is the source for the study where someone administered lower doses of Propecia to participants? I have seen you upload the table on numerous occasions without source.

 

[Pondle]

Well the psychologist Winch argued that couples will be happy if they each have complementary needs. For example, id a domineering person marries someone who is submissive, this may also both of them to fufil their needs. Sorry to digress but where is the source for the study where someone administered lower doses of Propecia to participants? I have seen you upload the table on numerous occasions without source.

Studies over several decades have revealed a strong tendency for people to select mates who are similar to themselves with respect to a variety of demographic characteristics (Atkinson & Glass 1985, Glenn 1982, Labov & Jacobs 1986, Rockwell 1976, Tucker & Mitchell-Kernan 1990, and Vera, Berardo, & Berardo 1985). But clearly mate selection is a very complex field of sexual and social psychology.

As for the Propecia dosage study, it's a Merck paper. Bryan Shelton originally uploaded it.

 

[RaginDemon]

I for sure wont date girls in their early 20's when I am in my mid/late 30's

well this IS a to each of his/her topic I agree.

 

[Guest]

I for sure wont date girls in their early 20's when I am in my mid/late 30's

well this IS a to each of his/her topic I agree.

Yeah, me too. Who would date old chicks if he can have young ones too?

 

[Bald Dave]

Taug, your avator scares me!

 

[stampede]

I for sure wont date girls in their early 20's when I am in my mid/late 30's

well this IS a to each of his/her topic I agree.

Yeah, me too. Who would date old chicks if he can have young ones too?

Those who know how good older women are in bed 8)

 

[Hope4hairRedux]

Just thought id bump this.

Im not seroiusly considering suicide..But still. I will admit that I sometimes have recurring suicidal thoughts. My face becomes uglier and uglier, and sometimes i dont think i can take it.

My face seems to become more and more bloated and bulbous as my hair loss continues.

Other than a short buzz cut I feel so ugly the whole time. Ive lost confidence in myself. I have low self esteem and I am weak right now. I seroiusly feel there is a difference between accepting something and being confident..I feel that i have to a point accepted my hair loss..The idea of going bald isnt so scary any more..ive begun to adapt and accept the fate of nature. But even so, even though i have accepted it to an extent, I still feel I am loosing my looks massivly. I think hair loss suits guys with smaller heads generally. White people tend to have more bulbuus heads so when we go bald we look nasty and bulblous like hogs. Bald oriental people dont look to bad generally - i feel this is due to their head shapes and look, same with black guys and mostraces, they can get away with it to an extent. Us white people are stuffed though.

As UM says, hair loss is the source of his dispair. It is the same with me. Before my hair loss I was young and free, confident and full of energy. Now I am going bald i feel like horrid ogre. I dont like people to look at me because I feel so ugly i dont want to stain their sight.

Have any people here actually ever seroiusly considered it?

I dont think i ever will..but i can understand it..People say tis selfish etc but i dont think it is really, its your life.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Where's this thread been all my life? The op is just a kid and being as such he is at a point in his life where he is very vulnerable to the status quo and the media driven culture and all of those voices that scorn anything that isn't young and cool. He can't fit himself with hairloss into that world because they have made it perfectly clear that he doesn't belong. I have said before that if it weren't for my daughter, I would have comitted suicide. I see the way people react to the way I look and it kills me a little inside everytime. If enough people look at you like your a freak, doesn't that make you a freak...or at the very least feel like one? It is a cruel world and us baldies as well as the fatties and cripples and retards and all of us other freaks are in a prime position to experience that cruelty first hand.

 

[qball01]

Where's this thread been all my life? The op is just a kid and being as such he is at a point in his life where he is very vulnerable to the status quo and the media driven culture and all of those voices that scorn anything that isn't young and cool. He can't fit himself with hairloss into that world because they have made it perfectly clear that he doesn't belong. I have said before that if it weren't for my daughter, I would have comitted suicide. I see the way people react to the way I look and it kills me a little inside everytime. If enough people look at you like your a freak, doesn't that make you a freak...or at the very least feel like one? It is a cruel world and us baldies as well as the fatties and cripples and retards and all of us other freaks are in a prime position to experience that cruelty first hand.

my god..you suck so much at being a man that its pitiful, and it has nothing to do with your hair.

The reason you piss me off the most is because by constantly painting yourself to be some freak who people laugh at and scorn due solely to baldness...you're inherently saying that ALL BALD MEN in this world are considered inferior and destined to live second rate lives...and that just simply isn't the case. CAN YOU NOT ADMIT that there is a chance that most of this prejudice you supposedly face is made up in your mind as a means to cover up your own failures as a man, which have nothing to do with hair loss?

I'm not even trying to get all psychological, but its f*****g true! Being a failure due to hair loss is convenient for you at this point, because you don't have to face the fact that maybe things aren't so good for you because of YOURSELF and not because of a genetic trait that affects MILLLLLLIONS of men, many of which are able to live great lives in spite of it. Stop trying to make it seem like all bald people are second rate just because YOU suck and happen to be bald....

my apologies for being so harsh, but cmn...its enough already.

 

[Cassin]

run its course...........