Talked to attractive girl about hairloss...

[Failing Follicles]

People laugh at you cos yr head's bald? Do you live in a town populated by retards? I've been balding for years and I've only ever been aware of one person who laughed at my bald head, but as I was f*****g her at the time I don't think she saw it as a turnoff...

Dudemon, what a whining, self-pitying crock of sh*t you've posted. What are you on? Your whole 2 cents (and that's 2 cents more than your post is worth) is based on what, not who, someone is. I've read lots of your posts and you've got a brain, so you can't really be this shallow. It's not what's on your head that's the problem, it's what's in it, so quit makin us all feel like a bunch of victimised losers cos fate made us bald and go out and meet some people who actually like you for who you are. They're the only ones worth knowing.

 

[ali777]

I found the perfect solution to my girl problems :woot:

At the moment, I'm going through the typical decreased libido due to finasteride.

Seriously, for the first time in a very long time I think more about my work than p*ssy. I feel liberated, I can finally concentrate on my work unk:

 

[Heir]

I also think that confidence plays a bigger role than hair when it comes to women. Sure, that fact that we are bald/balding makes it harder to be fully confident, but it's not the end of the world.

I always defined myself with my blonde hair and girls liked it a lot. Some even said in highschool that it was only because of my hair if girls liked me. I never believed that, but it didn't help when I started balding at 21 or 22 years old.

My confidence was crushed because I was trying to hide it and I was always wondering if somebody would say something about it. It fucked me up for 3 years before I decided to say a big f' you to hairloss and shaved my head at 0.

Since then, I do care a bit... because I miss my hair, but I don't care about what people might think because I shoved it in their faces.

I'm now 27 and I never heard a negative thing about my balding. Yes, my friend sometimes say something to laugh of me [with me], but never a girl said a thing about my lack of hair. I've a lot of friends (girls) who are very hot [younger than me (23) and can't be hotter in my mind] and they never made me feel like they cared about my hairloss (au contaire unk: ).

Ok, maybe the fact that it suits me so well help... but who care. Even with hair, not every man has hope with the hotter girl. It's as if big fat women would complain because the hot guys says that weigh matters...

So, it all depends. All I know is that it's not all down the crapper just because of hairloss.

 

[the Last Fight]

Sure women will prefer a guy with nice hair, but they also prefer guys who are tall, etc ... hair and other physical features are only for necessary attraction and sure if you have a great head of hair of girls attraction level might be higher towards you

 

[slowburn]

Sure women will prefer a guy with nice hair, but they also prefer guys who are tall, etc ... hair and other physical features are only for necessary attraction and sure if you have a great head of hair of girls attraction level might be higher towards you

Women like what they like, all have different preferences just like us. I'm losing my hair and I'm chubby, but I prefer fit petite women, brunette or blond, with tan skin and can't really make myself attracted to anything other than what I like. Just because I'm losing my hair and I am out of shape doesn't mean I'm going to start falling for chicks who best resemble water buffalo. Women are the same, some follow wallets, some follow Brad Pitts, others follow status, some follow their heart. Life is all about sifting through the crap to find your pot of gold, so look for whatever it is you like and go for it. Ultimately you'll find what you're looking for and she'll find what she's looking for. You can't make someone like you, sometimes you can, but at the end of the day there is an ideal partner for everyone, you just have to meet them first.