The Mentality Of "if He's Not Doing The Chase, He's Not Interested"

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CopeForLife said:
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«I've never been in a relationship! Female forever alone certainly exists!»

Few weeks later: «I’m in a relationship!»

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Wolf Pack said:
I responded according to the thread title and have only briefly glanced the opening post.

It's not about options at all. It's about falling for someone and chemistry. No one is immune from that. I've dated some hot girls and have interest from elsewhere, yet my oneitis never truly changed. Regardless of how hotter, younger, obsessive, better sexually the girls were. I know other guys who have said the same to me. If you've dated hot girls and experienced love, what I said makes more sense. Top tier guys are not immune from creating special memories and falling deeply for someone. That would make them super human. If you're talking about teens, little different but even then.

If you fall for someone, you become invested in them truly, regardless of who you are and how you look.
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So are you implying you're top tier? I'm sorry, but I don't any of us on this board are. I've known plenty of guys who say they date "hot women", only to find out when I see these ultra hotties, they're barely above average. So of course the ones they don't brag about are below average to terrible.

I think what buck said is closer to the norm on here, I'm not buying top tier. No need for site like this.
 
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jeez get a room
 
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Wolf Pack said:
"Now early to mid 20's are a f*****g nightmare, I can't stand them. Princess routine to the max, expect the world, most not good in bed, want to tie you down with kids, are not over f*****g around on you if you're with them, look for attention at any cost (even at the bar, prancing around n looking for other guys attention while they're with you), little girl games, etc, etc, etc."

This comment was interesting. Not been my experience at all. If a girl is attracted to you from the beginning, they don't look for attention elsewhere.
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I found the quote to be true apart from the baby and bad in bed part.

Just because a girl is attracted to you, it doesn't mean she's not immature, doesn't know what she wants and is not thirsty for attention. This is pretty common among my peers. I'm at times guilty for this. It puts more mature guys off I think
 
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EvilLocks said:
I am.
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Are you bonding just the top of your head? I ordered a partial piece but I'm not sure when it's the right time to shave :( I'm really really scared. My final destination should be a full cap. I have another 4 months of finastride to go until I say enough is enough.
 
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samantha3333 said:
Are you bonding just the top of your head? I ordered a partial piece but I'm not sure when it's the right time to shave :( I'm really really scared. My final destination should be a full cap. I have another 4 months of finastride to go until I say enough is enough.
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I'm sorry to hear this, girl. Yes, I shave and bond the top of my head only. The sides are thin too so eventually I'll have to extend the piece down the sides.
Please, do not go full wig until you absolutely have to. Anything is better than full wig, whether it be extensions, a topper or a bonded hair piece. I told Pas about clip-on toppers, have you looked into that? You don't have to shave with a clip-on topper so it could be a first step. Look it up on YT, there are women with videos showing you what to do.
 
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Pasbrillantebrunette said:
We are lucky to have you here. Your system looks very realistic though. Isn't it the best option iyo?
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Extensions are the best option until the hair loss has progressed too far. Then you should be left with two options, and it comes down to preference really:
1. Bonded hair piece
2. Clip-on topper
What is best for you is individual and something you'll have to give some thought. Bonded topper was best for me because I did not want to take it off at the end of the day, and that was always the most important to me.
A clip-on topper is more convenient than a bonded topper in many ways because it's easy to put on and off, and you can do it yourself without problems. A bonded topper requires more work (and money), but the positive news is that it stays on your head.
However I would maybe recommend a clip-on topper as a first step, since you don't have to shave your head. Once you shave that head, there's no going back, really, it becomes a commitment. At least with a clip-on topper you get to try it on your head and see if you ''like'' it first, before you make any commitment.
Like I said, full wig is the last resort, that is for people with absolutely no or at least next to no hair. People with Alopecia or very extensive Androgenic Alopecia. Remember you have to cover your whole head with that thing, your scalp will not breathe at all, it will never look completely natural, it will feel unnatural and hot. We can only pray we never end up there.
 
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Pasbrillantebrunette said:
I have been willing to ask you how was fina going for you ?
I am thinking of getting a system too. My fear is to wait to long and when we make the "transition" to a system it's too obvious. Gradually using extensions and kilos of toppik for now
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Neither spironolactone or finasteride worked. And 8 months ago roughly when I started finasteride, I started to have periods/spotting that would last 14-20 days of the month. Taking these drugs is a true nightmare. I probably stick it out til the 15th month mark but I don't think I'll have any hair left by then
 
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samantha3333 said:
Typed a response but somehow it disappeared.

I found the quote to be true apart from the baby and bad in bed part.

Just because a girl is attracted to you, it doesn't mean she's not immature, doesn't know what she wants and is not thirsty for attention. This is pretty common among my peers. I'm at times guilty for this. It puts more mature guys off I think
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samantha3333 said:
Typed a response but somehow it disappeared.

I found the quote to be true apart from the baby and bad in bed part.

Just because a girl is attracted to you, it doesn't mean she's not immature, doesn't know what she wants and is not thirsty for attention. This is pretty common among my peers. I'm at times guilty for this. It puts more mature guys off I think
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That quote was part of a thread I was responding to. I didn't sub-catagorize the ages, just in general.

Part of the response was to a bad in bed comment, so although I felt it wasn't completely par for the course, I put it in there as agreement, because the %'s are higher in that regard for younger women. But I can see the disagreement completely.

The wanting kids n trying to trap, that one I have to stand by. I've had it too many times. I'm in my mid 30s, so a 26 year old is young to me, n around that age it really starts, sometimes sooner. Although the worst is a early 30s with no kids, but there are far fewer of those (as most have had at least 1 by then, n have at least somewhat quelled the need), so I don't see it as much.

But thanks for the input, the attention thing really is common, I expect it when I date a girl around 25, some of them just can't help it.
 
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Pasbrillantebrunette said:
Lots of girls on their early 30 don't have children, no ?
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There are, but much less in comparison to mid to upper 20s. Also, by early 30s, some of the women who haven't had kids, don't want to, or don't Really want to.

But I don't date women who wants kids in their early to mid 30s anymore for the most part. I don't want anymore, and they want them NOW. I've had all kinds of crazy attempts. I say crazy, not because uncommon, but because who would want a kid with someone who absolutely doesn't. Reason goes out the window sometimes, and in the moment I've seen it all haha. An old trick is ones that have nails, will act like they are putting it in, not with their fingers, but with the nails, trying to compromise the condom. Haha, its crazy.
 
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