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Waste of time trying to convince them dude...trust me.
Guys were talking about a cartoon, next well be debating if April O,Neil would truly love Megatron.
Waste of time trying to convince them dude...trust me.
Guys were talking about a cartoon, next well be debating if April O,Neil would truly love Megatron.
Guys were talking about a cartoon, next well be debating if April O,Neil would truly love Megatron.
Check out Breaking Bad. Could as well have been called breaking bald. Walt has no hair most of the series, neither does Mike or Hank. Jesse's hair is also very short.
Check out Breaking Bad. Could as well have been called breaking bald. Walt has no hair most of the series, neither does Mike or Hank. Jesse's hair is also very short.
I mentioned BB in my OP. There are some directors who are not anti-Bald. Their shows do not portray baldites in a bad light.
However, there are also directors who propagate the anti-bald prejudice. They will have one bald guy in the show, and that bald dude will be portrayed as pathetic.
Take House of Cards. There is only one major non-black character who is bald (he is young). And he is portrayed as a weak minded divorced drug addict.
Its not worth arguing, you cant win because the cards are stacked against you, you cant lose because no one ever wants to look at the other deck. You sometimes have to just agree to disagree in life.There is a cartoon about a hunchback and face was disformed he had hair but obviously noone mentions the cartoons or films or what ever when they are potrayed in that way but with hair...all i know is that cartoon would probably be brought up if he was bald and the same stuff would be said...obviously excuses will be made why this film is diffferent and dont count maybe...but i know for a fact he would be brought up if he was bald.
of course, women and even men will be attracted to youthful and energetic looking people regardless of how dumb they may be. They look young and sharp and pleasant to see.For the rest of my natural life the men and women endowed with full heads of hair will be perceived as most attractive. Hair was and still remains the personification of youth and virility. This stigma was entrenched in our genetic memory banks long before our own hair loss experiences occurred.
For the rest of my natural life the men and women endowed with full heads of hair will be perceived as most attractive. Hair was and still remains the personification of youth and virility. This stigma was entrenched in our genetic memory banks long before our own hair loss experiences occurred.
of course, women and even men will be attracted to youthful and energetic looking people regardless of how dumb they may be. They look young and sharp and pleasant to see.
Its not that a stigma against bald guys was created its a genetic thing built in. I am sure its been enhanced with the rate of communication in the world today but really it is what it is. There are women who find a shaved head sexy on the "right guy" but there are chubby chasing men out there to. Its not the norm more than a fetish personally.
again, not the norm, more in the fetish category.Dude the "stigma" you on about what was in our memory banks before our loss was never in mine...meaning i never looked at a bald guy and thought old (unless he happened to be old) or whatever maybe cause i grew up knowing a bald relative and watching badass bald characters on tv or it wasnt "drilled" into my mind growing up...i dont know all i know is before my hairloss baldness was just another look to me and still is.
again, not the norm, more in the fetish category.
I know growing up my pops hated losing his hair.
All through highschool my buddies teased me because it was WELL noticable I was going to go bald one day.
Sorry but I through my personal experience think the majority of people will see baldness in a negative light.
You yourself said you were teased growing up for your hair (among other things) no?
No one is sparring with you friend. Try to remember you are sharing with a severely balding and empathizing guy. Albeit you may see it different, take it or leave it from someone like me who's been afflicted w/ Androgenetic Alopecia for over 2 decades; the STIGMA is REAL. The degree that it adversely impacts our mental/emotional state is naturally varying. All the best.
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And it is programmed in our genetic memory. Why do you think most women prefer men devoid of hair challenges. If they are honest most will conclude that it's because they finds this look more appealing. Next ask her why is that? I almost guarantee you that her answer will sound very close to almost every man's answer, balding or not.
Your answer confounds me, in particular your last sentence, but I appreciate it all the same. I too despise the bully mentality. Sadly whether at home, in school, in the work place there's always someone exercising violence (passive/aggressive) in order to over compensate for their own personal weaknesses real or imagined. It is an intolerable form of masochism. In the end the bully beats himself down. Thanx for sharing.