There Truly Does Not Seem To Be Any Reason To Live With Extreme Hair Loss

[blackg]

I don't need other people to be happy, simple as that. No need to have validation from society, not from women, not from anyone really. Doesn't matter if ur short, bald or whatever, i only don't like fat people because they appear lazy and unhealthy. Just do you and fk what others think, ain't that hard is it.

You're obviously very new to this. The whole "I don't need anyone, my happiness is self generating" attitude wears very thin after a while.

And go easy on overweight people. Don't be so easily deceived by an image of "laziness" just because your only exposure to larger people is brief and fleeting.

Do some research.
Nobody chooses to be fat and only the poorly educated would think this.

 

[INT]

I don't need other people to be happy, simple as that. No need to have validation from society, not from women, not from anyone really. Doesn't matter if ur short, bald or whatever, i only don't like fat people because they appear lazy and unhealthy. Just do you and fk what others think, ain't that hard is it.

We got ourselves a badass here guys

 

[Cowboys fan]

Such a couple must have met many years ago, when baldness was a bit more acceptable, or they met when he had hair.

I am actually writing my will.

Dude I now we all have heard the cure is only 5 years away before. But this time I believe it really is closer. Save your donor hair and money for cloning u will have a happy life soon. Have faith billons to be made off the cure its all about money

 

[ScaredOfBalding]

You're obviously very new to this. The whole "I don't need anyone, my happiness is self generating" attitude wears very thin after a while.

And go easy on overweight people. Don't be so easily deceived by an image of "laziness" just because your only exposure to larger people is brief and fleeting.

Do some research.
Nobody chooses to be fat and only the poorly educated would think this.

Ur kidding right?
And I have been having that attitude for a while now and it never failed me.

 

[INT]

And I have been having that attitude for a while now and it never failed me.

haha

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

You're obviously very new to this. The whole "I don't need anyone, my happiness is self generating" attitude wears very thin after a while.

And go easy on overweight people. Don't be so easily deceived by an image of "laziness" just because your only exposure to larger people is brief and fleeting.

Do some research.
Nobody chooses to be fat and only the poorly educated would think this.

No one gets fat without a calory surplus, basic physics.

 

[Wisemiller]

I think the main problem these days is guys unwillingness to have a family at a young age. Guys these days want to go to university, travel the world, mess around with a bunch of girls, etc. and not realize they might have a very quick expiry date. Any medications to fight hairloss are currently nothing more than snake oils. finasteride, minoxidil, lazers, needles, all do nothing for most people. Hair transplants usually look like sh*t and hair systems are only good for first impressions.

There is only one sure way to beat hair loss, and that is to have kids as quick as possible. In this way, you reproduce, and your offspring might be able to cure baldness in the next generation, prolonging the battle and buy time for your genetic line. When I started to realize finasteride doesn't work I got my girlfriend pregnant on purpose a few months ago, and since then I now know I can go bald but with a smile on my face, because I beat natural selection and there isn't anything anyone can do about it now. It was a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. If I would have waited while fighting my hairloss until NW3/4, male pattern baldness would have become technically a lethal disease. I only wish I was more educated in this matter 10 years ago, as I would have settled more a far more quality women rather than fooling around.

 

[Cue Bald]

yeah I wasted my life by not having kids young, I didn't want kids when I was in my early 20's. Now I am 32 I want to have a wife, kids and a house instead of being a saddo living on my own, but as a Norwood 4.5 I can't get any women now. I don't want to settle for fatties (they all have bad attitudes, very selfish in my experience) I'd rather be alone than married to a woman I didn't find attractive, so it looks like that will be my lot in life. I am stable on finasteride and have lots of donor + potential for BHT so instead of buying a nice car, I'm going to get a hair transplant as I look 1000% better with hair.

People say living alone is fine, for me it is fine when you have a job and friends as you are still part of the world. But living alone with no job and not seeing anyone for weeks on end sucks balls in my experience. might as well be in jail

 

[swingline747]

So if you're a man, you study, work hard, stay healthy and eventually become a top earner. But then what? Where does the meaning and challenge come from? What are you working towards? To me, the correct answer is to have a family and raise children who will make a positive contribution to the world. But baldness prevents you from being able to have a family and that's why, based on this argument, there does not seem to be any reason to live.

You can get a wife if youre bald. Its having fun up to that point thats tough.

 

[couldntthinkofaname]

So if you're a man, you study, work hard, stay healthy and eventually become a top earner. But then what? Where does the meaning and challenge come from? What are you working towards? To me, the correct answer is to have a family and raise children who will make a positive contribution to the world. But baldness prevents you from being able to have a family and that's why, based on this argument, there does not seem to be any reason to live.

feel similar

quarterlife crisis right there


even with hair i would have trouble keeping an positive attitude (the first time you got confronted with ageing, realising youth is over, childhood dreams have finally to be burried, monotonous working lifestyle, relationship problems, bills etc) but hairloss is just the iceing on the cake


you just dont have this feeling of security anymore that even if things would go to sh*t you can still do something else because you are young and somehow acceptable looking.

 

[blackg]

No one gets fat without a calory surplus, basic physics.

Yeah but there are a few biological factors at play.

 

[couldntthinkofaname]

Ur kidding right?
And I have been having that attitude
for a while now and it never failed me.

The clearest message that we get from this 75-year study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. Period."

Not how much is in your 401(k). Not how many conferences you spoke at--or keynoted. Not how many blog posts you wrote or how many followers you had or how many tech companies you worked for or how much power you wielded there or how much you vested at each.

No, the biggest predictor of your happiness and fulfillment overall in life is, basically, love

The data is also very clear that those who feel lonely are more likely to see their physical health decline earlier and die younger.

Because the data is clear that, in the end, you could have all the money you've ever wanted, a successful career, and be in good physical health, but without loving relationships, you won't be happy"

https://www.inc.com/melanie-curtin/...says-to-prioritize-this-one-t.html?cid=hmsub2



not judging here and i dont know you so if its really that way props to you but if you say sth like this

I don't need other people to be happy, simple as that. No need to have validation from society, not from women, not from anyone really

it always sounds borderline bitter and reminds of the story from the fox and the grapes. truth is humans are social beings and social connections including love are crucial for health and personal happiness.

people tend to deny this under certain circumstances bc its obviously hard to accept that your personal happiness is somehow depended from other people, especially when you got trouble in this field and/or have bad experiences in the past - eg we know from studies that people who got bullied in their childhood are more likely to show avoidant behavior and to are less likely to socialise which is very selfharming even if these people might pretend or think they dont need socialising/deep relationships.


social pain caused by rejection can even be seem in brainscans. its a physical reaction which dont go by pretending its not there. you can burry it, camouflage it but it still will be there

https://www.consultant360.com/exclusives/emotional-pain-empathy-linked-physical-discomfort

 

[ScaredOfBalding]

https://www.inc.com/melanie-curtin/...says-to-prioritize-this-one-t.html?cid=hmsub2



not judging here and i dont know you so if its really that way props to you but if you say sth like this



it always sounds borderline bitter and reminds of the story from the fox and the grapes. truth is humans are social beings and social connections including love are crucial for health and personal happiness.

people tend to deny this under certain circumstances bc its obviously hard to accept that your personal happiness is somehow depended from other people, especially when you got trouble in this field and/or have bad experiences in the past - eg we know from studies that people who got bullied in their childhood are more likely to show avoidant behavior and to are less likely to socialise which is very selfharming even if these people might pretend or think they dont need socialising/deep relationships.


social pain caused by rejection can even be seem in brainscans. its a physical reaction which dont go by pretending its not there. you can burry it, camouflage it but it still will be there

https://www.consultant360.com/exclusives/emotional-pain-empathy-linked-physical-discomfort

Yes sure good relationships are important. But balding will not impact ur relations with ur bros... if ur bros drop u because u are balding u never were mates after all. As for girls, i just don't care what they think of me. In fact I will probably be shaving my head soon because already tired of rogaine. Looking to build some muscle and get some tan and we'll see. If i don't like the look i can always go back for finasteride+ minoxidil+ maybe hair transplant but I doubt it. And in 20 years they can probably grow back unlimited hairs.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Yes sure good relationships are important. But balding will not impact ur relations with ur bros... if ur bros drop u because u are balding u never were mates after all. As for girls, i just don't care what they think of me. In fact I will probably be shaving my head soon because already tired of rogaine. Looking to build some muscle and get some tan and we'll see. If i don't like the look i can always go back for finasteride+ minoxidil+ maybe hair transplant but I doubt it. And in 20 years they can probably grow back unlimited hairs.

The shaved head and muscle look does not work. Ask all of the people on here who have tried it.

So you'll fail with the women and try to loomsmax or careercel or something in order to get married. Through all of that, you'll have less time and energy for your bros and eventually will lose them too. Hair loss won't leave any part of your life intact.

 

[ScaredOfBalding]

The shaved head and muscle look does not work. Ask all of the people on here who have tried it.

So you'll fail with the women and try to loomsmax or careercel or something in order to get married. Through all of that, you'll have less time and energy for your bros and eventually will lose them too. Hair loss won't leave any part of your life intact.

There are literally millions of guys losing hair that are not whining on this forum. How about that hu?

 

[couldntthinkofaname]

Yes sure good relationships are important. But balding will not impact ur relations with ur bros... if ur bros drop u because u are balding u never were mates after all. As for girls, i just don't care what they think of me. In fact I will probably be shaving my head soon because already tired of rogaine. Looking to build some muscle and get some tan and we'll see. If i don't like the look i can always go back for finasteride+ minoxidil+ maybe hair transplant but I doubt it. And in 20 years they can probably grow back unlimited hairs.

yes ofc bro...i thought you were talking about social relationship in general

ofc you can have a good social life as a bald person..who claims sth else should seek psychological help

 

[couldntthinkofaname]

The shaved head and muscle look does not work. Ask all of the people on here who have tried it.

So you'll fail with the women and try to loomsmax or careercel or something in order to get married. Through all of that, you'll have less time and energy for your bros and eventually will lose them too. Hair loss won't leave any part of your life intact.

the main problem here is:

we get married and start a family too late nowadays imho

in an ideal case you have a family and wife before you start balding in your 30s end 20s...this sh*t should be settled before your physical decays kick in...so you can concentrate on sth else then your looks

 

[blackg]

There are literally millions of guys losing hair that are not whining on this forum. How about that hu?

They are most likely all seeking therapy.

 

[ScaredOfBalding]

They are most likely all seeking therapy.

Pure cope.

 

[INT]

It keeps on baffling me that coping here is seen as something negative. Learning to live with your current reality is a lot healthier than refusing to accept it.