Things to improve in your apprence

[s.a.f]

No it does trust me....

Take it from some one who has never gone to the gym more than twice a week regularly.

I was doing that regularly back in 2010 and I looked in great shape, even when I was wearing long shirt girls could just tell I had a good body because my shoulders were slightly bigger and lot more defined as were my biceps, triceps and chest muscles.

Nowodays I been out of the gym for over a year and the girls notice, less definition, less size, girls feel my skinny waist in the club and you can tell they get turned off...

It's visibly very easy for any girl to tell and she'll prefer the guy to be more muscly unless she has some kind of weird skinnyman fetish uke:

I'm going to agree with HPM on this one! :freaked:

Looks are 90% important from the neck up. Good face and an average (or even slightly less than average) body will always beat great body and average (or slightly less tha) face.
Plenty of male models have average non muscley bodies.

 

[slipy]

Girls like guys with some muscle and any guy who denies this is only deluding himself... it's how we're naturally supposed to look!

No it doesn't compensate fully for a NW1 of course not, but like a girl with a hot body and sexy cleavage, it's impossible for any girl not to find it attractive and unless you've got a f****ing ugly face naturally you will still get lots of attention despite your baldness.

what? do you even know there are 3 bodytypes? some people are skinny ectomorphs. are you saying thats unnatural?

I say this as a naturally skinnyman myself, it's not a good look, slightly better than being an obese dude, but only slightly!

maybe you're having this mindset due to people filling you with complexes about skinny build. i know this from my own experience.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

A skinny bald guy is like a kid who did chimoterhapy

 

[slipy]

fo shoo. but i know it would fit my personality more than the big bald goon look. not that i could attain that kind of physique anyway.

without hair your still ugly anyway

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

fo shoo. but i know it would fit my personality more than the big bald goon look. not that i could attain that kind of physique anyway.

without hair your still ugly anyway

You don't have to be a big goon and believe you can't unless you train like a beast, you just need enough muscles to look normal, something like Bruce wilis.

 

[slipy]

Bruce Willis doesn't look to me as someone who works out religiously on regular basis. it's just that he has enough body fat to not look scrawny and frail.
as for me i've always had 0 body fat and eating only keeps me alive without making me gain any weight.

 

[slipy]

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak- ... 6258_n.jpg

take a look at bald guy in this pic.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

Bruce Willis doesn't look to me as someone who works out religiously on regular basis. it's just that he has enough body fat to not look scrawny and frail.
as for me i've always had 0 body fat and eating only keeps me alive without making me gain any weight.

Then eat more and start training, don't be a wuss, there are many skinny people that just don't care, but for a bald guy it's way worse, believe me. Being more muscler can't turn you to be attractive but it can turn you to look less idiotic, maybe even decent to some girls. I still think the major thing that can make baldness less paintfull is height, the lucky ones between us that are 1.75 and more will look much better then the shorter ones, a short bald guy is a complete turn off as he looks like a little kid after chimo

 

[slipy]

funny how sometimes i get so stupid and lose my perspective, whinning here about being too skinny and balding as if i don't have worse problems. i should be greatefull for those moments i actually feel ok physichaly and don't suffer. i don't think i will be starting training anytime soon due to my health conditions. too much stuff to deal with.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

funny how sometimes i get so stupid and lose my perspective, whinning here about being too skinny and balding as if i don't have worse problems. i should be greatefull for those moments i actually feel ok physichaly and don't suffer. i don't think i will be starting training anytime soon due to my health conditions. too much stuff to deal with.

So what if your healthy, most of us are, it still paintfull to be bald in your early 20, seeing all those teenage looking guys get woman easily while you can't, seeing the hypocritical world, even a girl that I liked and thought to be different going to the pretty boy with the hair and the blue eyes. You can be only the "friend" at max. The world is cruel, I prefer cancer and a full hair, at least people will love me.

 

[s.a.f]

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs291.ash1/21864_339473153833_173469443833_4695966_6616258_n.jpg

take a look at bald guy in this pic.

??? Would be good if you explained your point? :dunno:

3 of those guys would look like 5hite whatever their build would be..

 

[slipy]

funny how sometimes i get so stupid and lose my perspective, whinning here about being too skinny and balding as if i don't have worse problems. i should be greatefull for those moments i actually feel ok physichaly and don't suffer. i don't think i will be starting training anytime soon due to my health conditions. too much stuff to deal with.

So what if your healthy, most of us are, it still paintfull to be bald in your early 20, seeing all those teenage looking guys get woman easily while you can't, seeing the hypocritical world, even a girl that I liked and thought to be different going to the pretty boy with the hair and the blue eyes. You can be only the "friend" at max. The world is cruel, I prefer cancer and a full hair, at least people will love me.

oh i agree. i personally think being bald is just as bad as having painful but non lethal health problems(not cancer though). it's just that i have both and it feels like it's too much.

i was rather referring to skinnyness not being as bad as baldness and health problems.

 

[slipy]

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs291.ash1/21864_339473153833_173469443833_4695966_6616258_n.jpg

take a look at bald guy in this pic.

??? Would be good if you explained your point? :dunno:

3 of those guys would look like 5hite whatever their build would be..

my question would be does the bald guy appear just skinny or abnormally skinny to you? cuz i basically have his build. except im shorter :sobbing:

 

[slipy]

sorry for tripple post but


everyone's so judgemental and fixated on looks. If the guy is not a pretty boy or very handsome then by default he's ugly and ''looks like sh*t''? i used to be a pretty boy but this is sickening. i honestlly wouldn't notice or think someone is ugly unless the person was like 1 or 2/10.

 

[Jockson]

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs291.ash1/21864_339473153833_173469443833_4695966_6616258_n.jpg

take a look at bald guy in this pic.

??? Would be good if you explained your point? :dunno:

3 of those guys would look like 5hite whatever their build would be..

my question would be does the bald guy appear just skinny or abnormally skinny to you? cuz i basically have his build. except im shorter :sobbing:

Not abnormally skinny IMO, he just has a small-ish frame. His chest and shoulders are kinda narrow compared to his hips. I'm like that too, or at least used to be but I'm 6'3 tall.

I disagree with people saying man's body makes little difference. It can especially make a difference for a balding guy. Shaving your head makes it appear larger in proportion to your body. This is why a guy with already good build and naturally broad shoulders is much more likely to suit a bald look. For those not blessed with such genetics, working on your arms, shoulders, chest and back can make a huge difference in proportions and that applies to short guys as well IMO. Just to be clear, not talking about that steroid look here, just more size and definition.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

funny how sometimes i get so stupid and lose my perspective, whinning here about being too skinny and balding as if i don't have worse problems. i should be greatefull for those moments i actually feel ok physichaly and don't suffer. i don't think i will be starting training anytime soon due to my health conditions. too much stuff to deal with.

So what if your healthy, most of us are, it still paintfull to be bald in your early 20, seeing all those teenage looking guys get woman easily while you can't, seeing the hypocritical world, even a girl that I liked and thought to be different going to the pretty boy with the hair and the blue eyes. You can be only the "friend" at max. The world is cruel, I prefer cancer and a full hair, at least people will love me.

oh i agree. i personally think being bald is just as bad as having painful but non lethal health problems(not cancer though). it's just that i have both and it feels like it's too much.

i was rather referring to skinnyness not being as bad as baldness and health problems.

This stupid hairloss effecting my all life, doing sh*t on the driving tests and can't focus, can't function properly in work, the girl I liked hugging some pretty boy douchbeg, he dosent have any charecter but he looks good thats enough for most girls appearently, girls talk with me but they see me as just a friend and not as someone they attract too, being the friend and seeing the girl attracted to other guys is twice more paintfull, makes you feel like nothing. I dress well, Im at my best but still I cant compete with them.

 

[s.a.f]

This stupid hairloss effecting my all life, doing sh*t on the driving tests and can't focus, can't function properly in work, the girl I liked hugging some pretty boy douchbeg, he dosent have any charecter but he looks good thats enough for most girls appearently, girls talk with me but they see me as just a friend and not as someone they attract too, being the friend and seeing the girl attracted to other guys is twice more paintfull, makes you feel like nothing. I dress well, Im at my best but still I cant compete with them.

Even if thats true is your current outlook going to help?

Even with hairloss you looked 'average' in you pics. Certainly in a better position than a NW1 with a less than average face.
Certainly I did'nt see any reason why you cant pull.

Sadly we cant all be pretty boys and we cant all get the girl we want the most.

 

[HairPieceMan]

lol @ compete with them aka men with hair

 

[slipy]

This stupid hairloss effecting my all life, doing sh*t on the driving tests and can't focus, can't function properly in work, the girl I liked hugging some pretty boy douchbeg, he dosent have any charecter but he looks good thats enough for most girls appearently, girls talk with me but they see me as just a friend and not as someone they attract too, being the friend and seeing the girl attracted to other guys is twice more paintfull, makes you feel like nothing. I dress well, Im at my best but still I cant compete with them.

this surprises me a bit.
i'd think you'd be more tolerant towards guys who wear wig's and stuff knowing how badly this is affecting yourself.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

This stupid hairloss effecting my all life, doing sh*t on the driving tests and can't focus, can't function properly in work, the girl I liked hugging some pretty boy douchbeg, he dosent have any charecter but he looks good thats enough for most girls appearently, girls talk with me but they see me as just a friend and not as someone they attract too, being the friend and seeing the girl attracted to other guys is twice more paintfull, makes you feel like nothing. I dress well, Im at my best but still I cant compete with them.

this surprises me a bit.
i'd think you'd be more tolerant towards guys who wear wig's and stuff knowing how badly this is affecting yourself.

No, I hate them cuz they are lying fucks that needs reality check.