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[Beingbaldsucks]

Yep sad to join your club despite I'm no in the level of whinnying that you are but I pretty much got tired of being a loser, with all the confidence, clothes and whatever I'm still behind every guy with hair and more importenetly the girl that I'm in love with, that just see me as a nice buddy

Behind every guy with hair? Even the ugly ones?
Dude you look fine, get out there have some confidence in yourself and get and meet some women. Your like a girl with small tits who believes that no guy will ever be interested in her because she does'nt have 38 DD's.

Believe me I tried and I talk with girls but they see me only as a nice buddy AKA friend, the girl that I was in love with, we talked alot for hours then I asked her out to a movie and she said she's tired (a nice excuse for NO) then a couple of days after she hugging and kissing some jerk that I know he's a jerk with 0 personality, but he's tall with long hair and blue eyes, she didn't stopped talking with me but I'm just a "friend" for her. That's twice harder that woman dosent take you seariously

 

[s.a.f]

Believe me I tried and I talk with girls but they see me only as a nice buddy AKA friend, the girl that I was in love with, we talked alot for hours then I asked her out to a movie and she said she's tired (a nice excuse for NO) then a couple of days after she hugging and kissing some jerk that I know he's a jerk with 0 personality, but he's tall with long hair and blue eyes, she didn't stopped talking with me but I'm just a "friend" for her. That's twice harder that woman dosent take you seariously

Well thats life, I can give you 3 pieces of advice:

1) Understand that you cant make someone love you if they dont.

2) Be careful how you approach a girl, (this is a mistake I made for soooo long) many guys who are slightly nervous/insecure will try to take an indirect route to getting a girl and this is how you get put in the freindzone. You have to make your feelings clear from the start otherwise she will look at you as some kind of asexual companion. Even if your a good looking guy she wont see you in a sexual way unless you make it clear that you are interested in her that way.

3)There is no 'the one' out there there is no 'Miss right' if you get shot down move onto another, there are enough women to go around. Ironicly this is more than anything likely to make her see you in a different light. If you pine for her after she's knocked you back she'll get a ego boost and never take you seriously but if you move straight on to another woman your kind of saying oh well your easyily replaced and she'll wonder if she made a wrong decision.

either way if the only only other option is joining Seb and HPM your better off as you are now.

 

[HairPieceMan]

safs dating advise is flawed and hilarious at the same time

saf "the problem is not the baldness" - the guy that ignored girls and got hair transplants.

i love how saf is giving dating advise to balding guys, LOVE IT, CLASS.

my advise, she hate u cuase u have hairloss, if u were with toupey she be all over you, you need to make yourself look like the guy she likes, same hair, blue eye, then shaed liek you, she went for other guy because he looks a certain way, you need to copy those characterists, or possibly be rich.

you probably aimed too high, im sure if this nice girl you met was 300 pounds her resistance to you would simply not be there.

same as if you were taller and had all your hair, or your rich or famous.

 

[virtuality]

Everyone who's mentioning they can't tan -- The spray on tan booths actually do look natural if you don't overdo them. Just find the right tone, and the right frequency, so go once every 10 days or so etc. If you can't tan then it's a great way of getting around it, although it can be expensive. I'm not sure about the pricing, I'll be looking into it this summer.

Also as far as body type. Women love the slightly more muscular swimmers build. You want to be lean like a swimmer, but have a little more oomph than a swimmer.

Women are not really concerned about the body...its all about the hair,face,and size of the wallet.

You sir,

Have no idea what you're talking about. Women love a ripped man, why else would the vast majority of superstars and general models have the whole works?

IMHO, most women prefer a mature and a grounded man to a ripped body.

Assuming, with hard work and maturity comes rewards, a hard working person also has reasonable amount of money and he has an advantage over a ripped body.

I don't like the whole notion that women prefer money, it's more about what money represents. If the guy is successful and rich, then he's obviously ahead in the game, but if he's rich for the sake of being rich, then there is no real advantage.

 

[s.a.f]

safs dating advise is flawed and hilarious at the same time

saf "the problem is not the baldness" - the guy that ignored girls and got hair transplants.

i love how saf is giving dating advise to balding guys, LOVE IT, CLASS.

my advise, she hate u cuase u have hairloss, if u were with toupey she be all over you, you need to make yourself look like the guy she likes, same hair, blue eye, then shaed liek you, she went for other guy because he looks a certain way, you need to copy those characterists, or possibly be rich.

you probably aimed too high, im sure if this nice girl you met was 300 pounds her resistance to you would simply not be there.

same as if you were taller and had all your hair, or your rich or famous.

Advice from a 25 yr old virgin who still lives like a child with his mother. :whistle:
You have to turn yourself from a brown eyed bald guy into a blue eyed NW1 - good luck with that!
You should write a book :laugh:

 

[HairPieceMan]

pushing 26 this month ;P

still, at least i didn't ignore girls for 5 years straight.

must have been tough, especially working all the time because your poor
my mum gave me £10K to spend on wigs, BEAT THAT.

she also bought me a car this year

 

[barcafan]

lol a pissing contest over whos mommy gives them more money.

end of the world is near

 

[HairPieceMan]

+ i keep saying women were all over me before

when women see my place they say they are amazed by my money, they call me moneybags etc.

they also assume that me, my dad and mum all work because the place is soo huge usually people downsize and such.

so i can tell women i work anyway, they probally wont believe me if i told them i dont work becuase theyd have to think that both my dad and mum earn £70K a year as accomplished doctors becuase that is the only jobs in the fife area that pay out that high to support a place this size.

also ANY guy can rent a crapartment and work in mcdonalds to pay the landlord, that's normal and not impressive.

i am rich, i am alpha.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

Getting woman by money, wow that must feel like sh*t

 

[s.a.f]

A 5'4" NW6 virgin in a wig who lives with his mum is an alpha male?

I guess we're all alpha then! unk:

 

[s.a.f]

Getting woman by money, wow that must feel like sh*t

He still has'nt managed to get one yet, this is all just in his daydreams.

Angelina Jolie might just come and knock on your door too. :whistle:

 

[s.a.f]

Fife must be a complete 5hitehole if a £250k 4 bedroom semi is the most impressive house there.

 

[s.a.f]

lol a pissing contest over whos mommy gives them more money.

end of the world is near

I've never had to ask my mum for money since I was about 12.

 

[HairPieceMan]

Fife must be a complete 5hitehole if a £250k 4 bedroom semi is the most impressive house there.

its worth £300k and yeah for the area that is probably the 2nd most expensive house on the housing market. (4 bed, 2 recept, massive garden semi)

the 1st most would be £450K 5 bedroom/3reception detached

for the area its defenetly upper middle class, youd need 2 people to earn 70K a year to pay it up?,

professional degree jobs: firemen, policemen, I.T, secondary school teacher in 30s, all earn about 30K a year.

minimal wage people are £10K a year,

the only people that earn £70K a year are accomplished doctors in their 40s or lawyers in 30s+, or project mangers in their 40s etc.

search tspc site you will see housing is between £80-£450K, but few people live in 5 bed/3 recep detached worth £450K.

and yeah one of the girls said one time "your house is 5x the size of the house i grew up in" and said "you are very rich". "are your parents spies?"

 

[Primo]

300K for a 4bed that's hardly something to brag about is it?? The bottom-drawer price speaks volumes about your area :woot:

It's like me boasting about having a 5 bedroom house in some shithole like Hull or Grimsby which I could probably get for the same price as yours .... ooohhh how glamorous! The girls would coming flocking... I think not!... nevermind the fact that your mum still sleeps in the next room :shock:

p.s. apologies to any northerners out there for my comments above, I love humberside really

 

[HairPieceMan]

£300K for a home is ALOT of money.

both people would have to earn £60K a year to pay it up.

being on £60K a year, for both people, is very rare.

and the area isn't sh*t, its not a run down area at all, is a posh area, residential place etc.

why do girls keep saying "your posh" and stuff like that in the past, most people only ever live in flats worth 150K at most.

my home is known as the rich row.

 

[Primo]

This offensive f****ing chump should be banned, better yet culled!

:bravo: :agree:

 

[s.a.f]

I think its plainly obvious that HPM is either a Troll or just the most severely deluded person in Britain.
Every single person on this site knows that a woman would prefer a real man who is independant and earns his own money even if he lives in a flat to a childish mummies boy who thinks he's rich because his mum buys him nice things. His total lack of success with women clearly shows this.

NOBODY on here thinks that he's an Alpha male 'living the dream' and nobody is at all jealous of his lifestyle.

I suggest we just ignore him from now on.

I believe its called Napoleon syndrome. :whistle:

 

[slipy]

Wouldn't hpm be better off just using prostitutes instead of trying to obtain a girlfriend? i just don't see how that would work out for him taking his current lifestyle in consideration. He says he could get women with his money well it'd basically be the same thing.

 

[cuebald]

I feel bad for HPM

he knows that any girl would rather sleep with a handsome NW1 who lives in a bedsit, than a short, wigwearing guy who lives in a mansion. And if a girl does start seeing the rich, short, ugly man, you can bet her eye will be on all the handsome NW1's she sees.

You're just going to have to go for fatties HPM