Unconventional Dating Anecdote From This Evening

[EvilLocks]

We are so opposite I would at my advanced age trade 5 years of skin to have my full dense head back/

Youth over all

 

[hairblues]

I think people should know and accept that hot love is not forever. The relationship is going to evolve and it is only normal. Once you settle with someone you got to be aware of that. I hate that people now can not accept passion is not forever and leave for younger people, a flirt or a so called "coup de foudre"... All this illusion about passion and love is what destroyed family model. To me, if you are willing to settle and have a family you should not except passionate love but more like a best friend relationship (and that would be already great!!). Or just don't settle.

I just don't think we are meant to mate for whole lives with one person.

Who you marry in 20s is most likely not going to be the person you would choose in 50s.

I think people 'hang on' way too long and can potentially make one another miserable or unhappy.

I know a lot of people who divorce in later years and remarry or get into new relationships where they are much happier.

I do know some people who stay together happily...My grandparents were still hot for each other really old (which was kind of gross lol but sweet)
I always found him in their 70s his hugging her from behind kissing her neck her giggling like a teenager.
Its rare of course.

 

[hairblues]

I don't think it's "hate hate". It's more like "ok, so the French have contempt for anyone who doesn't speak French fluently, and I don't want to feel like a worthless cockroach, so, screw those guys, no France for me".

I know French have this stereotype and maybe they are like this in their homeland...but I went to private school with quite a few French people and all were really sweet...over years I have met and worked with people from France (mostly men i can think of to be honest later years) who were always really nice to me.

 

[hairblues]

I would Trade 5 years of living existence for my full dense hair back!

Me too.

 

[EvilLocks]

Me too.

It's funny you two should say that when both of you are 50x closer to fullhead than me, and both of you are older
That said, there are not many things I would trade over hair. Perfect health all life and youth are the only things.

 

[hairblues]

If only we could make a pact with the devil!

Well would not want to fry in Hell but then again dont believe in Heaven/Hell

 

[EvilLocks]

I do know some people who stay together happily...My grandparents were still hot for each other really old (which was kind of gross lol but sweet)
I always found him in their 70s his hugging her from behind kissing her neck her giggling like a teenager.
Its rare of course.

That is so sweet But yeah, rare.

 

[hairblues]

It's funny you two should say that when both of you are 50x closer to fullhead than me, and both of you are older
That said, there are not many things I would trade over hair. Perfect health all life and youth are the only things.

I think we just have a different perspective, maybe our life or relationship experiences, with aging and men/women.

Some men it is 'all' to have very young women but even when I was young I was not drawn to these kinds of men..I remember older men who hit on me and really were impressed with my 'youth' feeling a bit 'ugh' about them.

I dated man 10 years older in early 20s BUT my age was actually a hinderance for him..i think it bugged him how young I was in my personality so it was not a great relationship in retrospect. He did not treat me great but i put up with it because I 'loved' him. He cheated on me with older woman (29) and I thought at the time "Yuck, how can he want someone so old and used up when he can have me?" LOL And the truth is because they were same generation and he probably valued what she had to 'say' more than how young I looked. And women are far from used up at 29. But at 21 this was my belief in comparing her to myself.

Most men I know in my life--even just male friends--that are like obsessed wth having a 'young' GF ( i mean more than 5 to 10 years like 15 or 20 years) I don't really find them to be very interesting men to be honest when I speak with them.

I know you all will say it's a 'cope' but I don't lie to you guys.
They ARE in existence but my experience it's not really that great a caliber of guys who in 40s and 50s still want to be with women in 20s or early 30s as if this is end all be all for them in relationships.
And I say same to the women who are like this..I see women in 50s with men who are 35 and I am like "Really girl?" You cant find a decent man in your age range? You got to rob cradle?
It is becoming very common here for women who look really good in 40s and 50s to date men in 30s.

 

[hairblues]

How can you lose your hair and not believe in hell the scam is not that hell does not exist, but that it is some kind of After life thing.

I mean to me heaven would be like hell if you know what i mean

too much fuzzy good will would make me f*****g crazy.

 

[Medina]

I like a man with charming flaws. The Guy posted by @Patrick_Bateman is a 9 but not my style. The Guy you posted is more my style indeed (you know me well now ^^) but still a little too chadish.
My kind of Guy (and musician!) :
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[hairblues]

"Women are far from used up at 29"
Someone here speaks the truth

I know but in my early 20s it seemed so 'old' to me and far off.

When I was 29 I was like 'Oh it's not so bad here, mirror still looking good'.

 

[hairblues]

Seems like we have taken the control of this thread right now!

For real, I am waiting for 5 angry 20-something men to quote me that I am coping with my age post LOL..

 

[hairblues]

Maybe one less, I think I scared Dante away

Uh-oh, what did you do?

 

[EvilLocks]

I dated man 10 years older in early 20s BUT my age was actually a hinderance for him..i think it bugged him how young I was in my personality so it was not a great relationship in retrospect. He did not treat me great but i put up with it because I 'loved' him. He cheated on me with older woman (29) and I thought at the time "Yuck, how can he want someone so old and used up when he can have me?" LOL And the truth is because they were same generation and he probably valued what she had to 'say' more than how young I looked. And women are far from used up at 29. But at 21 this was my belief in comparing her to myself.

That sound really similar to my situation with older guy.
Anyway, I don't know why I'm stressing so much about this. I'm not even 25 yet. Yes, I'm already competing with younger women in the dating market and yes some guys do want as young as possible but it's not ''over'' yet (or is it, @Xander94 ? )
I am going to start dating a bit again (sorry to those of you who really don't care @Dante92 ) and I think quite a few men would desire me frankly. Some will not, maybe because I'm bald and wearing a wig, but I wouldn't want those anyway.

 

[Medina]

You look like Gould?

I have a similar photograph of myself but nah I am old now! I play piano with a beard these days

 

[Dante92]

That sound really similar to my situation with older guy.
Anyway, I don't know why I'm stressing so much about this. I'm not even 25 yet. Yes, I'm already competing with younger women in the dating market and yes some guys do want as young as possible but it's not ''over'' yet (or is it, @Xander94 ? )
I am going to start dating a bit again (sorry to those of you who really don't care @Dante92 ) and I think quite a few men would desire me frankly. Some will not, maybe because I'm bald and wearing a wig, but I wouldn't want those anyway.

Good for you, actually. I wish you luck. The fact that I don't care doesn't mean I'm not happy for you.

 

[Xander94]

That sound really similar to my situation with older guy.
Anyway, I don't know why I'm stressing so much about this. I'm not even 25 yet. Yes, I'm already competing with younger women in the dating market and yes some guys do want as young as possible but it's not ''over'' yet (or is it, @Xander94 ? )
I am going to start dating a bit again (sorry to those of you who really don't care @Dante92 ) and I think quite a few men would desire me frankly. Some will not, maybe because I'm bald and wearing a wig, but I wouldn't want those anyway.

It's all over, but not for you it is for me xD

 

[Xander94]

Good for you, actually. I wish you luck. The fact that I don't care doesn't mean I'm not happy for you.

Can you update your profile picture with the results of your looksmaxing ?

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

That sound really similar to my situation with older guy.
Anyway, I don't know why I'm stressing so much about this. I'm not even 25 yet. Yes, I'm already competing with younger women in the dating market and yes some guys do want as young as possible but it's not ''over'' yet (or is it, @Xander94 ? )
I am going to start dating a bit again (sorry to those of you who really don't care @Dante92 ) and I think quite a few men would desire me frankly. Some will not, maybe because I'm bald and wearing a wig, but I wouldn't want those anyway.

The notion that it's over for women once they're in their 30s is MGTOW cope. In the end the only thing that matters is looking good. From what I've read you got that covered. With good genetics and a healthy lifestyle women can keep sexual market value into their f*****g 60s, much like men with good genetics and healthy lifestyle (and full head of hair).

The reason many girls lose their value in 30s is because they have always lived in an unhealthy way, and in their 30s it catches up to them. Drinking and doing drugs every weekend, eating sh*t, worshipping the sun, these things don't start making you look chitty untill your collagen and metabolism drops in your 30s.

 

[Xander94]

The notion that it's over for women once they're in their 30s is MGTOW cope. In the end the only thing that matters is looking good. From what I've read you got that covered. With good genetics and a healthy lifestyle women can keep sexual market value into their f*****g 60s, much like men with good genetics and healthy lifestyle (and full head of hair).

The reason many girls lose their value in 30s is because they have always lived in an unhealthy way, and in their 30s it catches up to them. Drinking and doing drugs every weekend, eating sh*t, worshipping the sun, these things don't start making you look chitty untill your collagen and metabolism drops in your 30s.