What are your standards for a girlfriend?

[Oknow]

way to go!

i feel sorry for you and i hope that wont happen anymore...
if it does, you better f*** them up...

Sometimes I just go on dates for the banter, because I’m bored.

The last girl I was seeing, had an incredible night on the first date to the point the girl was like

‘I did not expect it to be this good, I was expecting you to be boring based on our chat on the app’

Rocked up, and was totally different to her expectations, we ended up partying hard on the first date, went to 3 bars. She initially thought I was going to bore her to death talking about Star Wars. We connected over our love for music. I wasn’t even thinking about sex, I just wanted to have fun.

The guys on here don’t understand it yet, but your vibe plays a major factor with how successful you are.

Go into a date outcome oriented and not relaxed, chances of getting pussy decreases significantly. More to it than physical attraction - they need to feel comfortable and relaxed around you too. They want to feel as though they are hanging out with someone cool and sexy.

 

[I wont lose this]

- don't be fat
- good chemistry with me
- no major mental problem / personality disorder / bad family / raped by her father etc
- haven't slept with a lot of guys


That's literally it
and still no gf

When you yourself show to be that deranged, that's such a high standard, pal.

 

[Oknow]

When you yourself show to be that deranged, that's such a high standard, pal.

sums this forum up, guys wanting a certain type of woman that is of higher value than them

CC @DoctorHouse

 

[Feelsbadman]

When you yourself show to be that deranged, that's such a high standard, pal.

difference is i go to therapy and work on myself
no need to put others down.

 

[I wont lose this]

difference is i go to therapy and work on myself
no need to put others down.

I ain't putting you down. It's just that, judging from what I've seen so far, you don't seem to be that stable. Everyone has their problems, why does it even need to be a standard? It makes me sick to my stomach to read certain things here

 

[Feelsbadman]

I ain't putting you down. It's just that, judging from what I've seen so far, you don't seem to be that stable. Everyone has their problems, why does it even need to be a standard? It makes me sick to my stomach to read certain things here

strange post.
Would you have a relationship with a mentally ill person?
and before you say thats double standards a women can hold the same standards towards me thats their choice.

 

[I wont lose this]

strange post.
Would you have a relationship with a mentally ill person?
and before you say thats double standards a women can hold the same standards towards me thats their choice.

By mentally ill you mean literally insane? Because I can't say by a single date whether the person has bpd, anxiety or whatever thing they have. And if they do, I ain't jumping off the boat that fast

 

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sums this forum up, guys wanting a certain type of woman that is of higher value than them

CC @DoctorHouse

Sums it up for everybody else except you.

 

[Oknow]

Weather we like it or not certain level of mental instability can deeply affect a relationship.

For example, I have a female friend who doesn't mind crying on the street nearly screaming and vomiting because she smoked too much weed last night trying to get over her fight with her bf.
I was supportive because I am a friend but I thought in my mind what this poor guy must go through with her as his gf. Some females will feel like their burden is YOURS.

I have mine, maybe worse in some way. But I keep it to myself as much as possible.

yeah it’s true to be honest, women can sense when a guy is mentally not stable without them telling. It’s not attractive.

Women love men who are comfortable in their own skin

 

[Feelsbadman]

By mentally ill you mean literally insane? Because I can't say by a single date whether the person has bpd, anxiety or whatever thing they have. And if they do, I ain't jumping off the boat that fast

You wouldnt jump off at the first sign they have a severe mental illness?

i find that surprising maybe youve never actually experienced what its like to date someome like that and the ramifications

 

[Feelsbadman]

yeah it’s true to be honest, women can sense when a guy is mentally not stable without them telling. It’s not attractive.

Women love men who are comfortable in their own skin

Retard alert.
Studies show women are attracted to dark triad sociopathic men.

 

[Oknow]

Retard alert.
Studies show women are attracted to dark triad sociopathic men.

They like positive, fun, confident men who they are physically attracted too

At least from my experiences

 

[Feelsbadman]

They like positive, fun, confident men who they are physically attracted too

At least from my experiences

they like good looking men

 

[Oknow]

they like good looking men

yes , guys they find good looking, which is subjective

And before you go on about chads. Chads are not the only people in relationships, so many very average couples in them too. See them everywhere in the UK.

 

[Feelsbadman]

yes , guys they find good looking, which is subjective

And before you go on about chads. Chads are not the only people in relationships, so many very average couples in them too. See them everywhere in the UK.

we have been through this so many times. Just because someone is in a relationship means f*** all.

 

[Oknow]

we have been through this so many times. Just because someone is in a relationship means f*** all.

you have never seen what I look like but I’m average and I can get women

if I can, you can too

 

[Feelsbadman]

you have never seen what I look like but I’m average and I can get women

if I can, you can too

Youve never met me in person but I can dunk a basketball in a full size NBA basketball net

if I can, you can too

 

[Oknow]

Youve never met me in person but I can dunk a basketball in a full size NBA basketball net

if I can, you can too

lol
Stop being silly
Dunking a basketball and dating is comparing apples and oranges

men and women have been f*****g for centuries, go out and look around, most couples are average, even when the dude has hair

 

[Butterbean Head]

I like saggy women.

Stretched baggy pouches from a few sprogs.

One milker is larger than the other.

Discoloured marks on they're arses and cottage cheese legs.

Why?

Perhaps because I used to always see Mater in a pair of black leggings with a protruding bottom when ironing and when in the bath as she used to have a habit of not locking the bathroom door, thus I used to see her hairy tarantula face floating on the surface..........

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

When you yourself show to be that deranged, that's such a high standard, pal.

To be fair life trauma can be very hard to work out if you are in relationship, some people just are not up to be with someone who's behaviour is abnormal due to traumatic events