What Would You Do If Your Hair Problems Were Solved?

[Assemblage23]

I think my hair loss problems aren't actually solved, but they are definetely fixed. Thanks to a decent hair transplant and my good hair characteristics.

I knew from the start that reaching fullhead(in the eyes of normies) status would not exactly match my expectations and that making plans was absurd.

The first stupid expectation I had was that a nice hairline would have to turn me into the f*****g terminator of pussy-pulling. All that money all that frustration were to be invested into the pursuit of the best available pussy. I was excited about making that payback happen.

Women:
Back when I was a thinning norwood 3, I was desperately chasing dumb club sl*ts(weekend bouncer), daydreaming about going back to fullhead status, to be able to pump and dump hotter ones.

I thought being a norwood one was the one thing I needed to be able to pull off direct approaches with a decent success rate, and I was probably right. But (not so) deep inside I hated that life of boring dates and having to interract with soon-to-be washed-up party girls with absolutely no soul just to increase my laycount, out of sheer vanity.

I already knew that all this stupid womanizing crap was all compensation for my insecurity as a balding man.

As soon as I felt as a fullhead, I stopped being bothered with getting laid, started dating one girl almost exclusively(don't worry, I'm still a sociopath, but now I'm too lazy to approach and court women now that I'm absolutely no longer insecure about hairloss). I feel completely free and sexually empowered. I feel no need to try to prove myself that I'm not a creepy balding zombie by preying on the lost souls of tinder and nightclubs.

The whole idea was to feel attractive, not to get sex with new partners. You get that at the brothel or in swingers clubs. And my hair transplant gave me that, I actually feel a real difference in the impression I make to women, I get more positive reactiosn and attention undeniably, but I have no use for that newfound edge.

Life in general

This is where reality exceeded my expectations. I always felt the worst thing about hairloss was how it makes idealizing the future impossible. There is nothing left to look forward to, any way you picture a future event as a shell of your ideal self makes it a bad joke. As a result it kills your ambition and how you value your own life.

Now that I can idealize the future again, I got my sense of self-worth and ambition back. Making carreer plans.

I realize how deep this is when I realize that I drive much more carefully and avoid trouble a lot more than two years ago, this hasn't much to do with getting old. Some of my behaviors were borderline suicidal looking back.

Then there are the smaller details, like not being f*****g terrified of being tagged on unflattering facebook photos, or not using concealer anymore.

This really gave me a new start, but not all of those years back. But I've learned some lessons.

 

[JeanLucBB]

I think my hair loss problems aren't actually solved, but they are definetely fixed. Thanks to a decent hair transplant and my good hair characteristics.

I knew from the start that reaching fullhead(in the eyes of normies) status would not exactly match my expectations and that making plans was absurd.

The first stupid expectation I had was that a nice hairline would have to turn me into the f*****g terminator of pussy-pulling. All that money all that frustration were to be invested into the pursuit of the best available pussy. I was excited about making that payback happen.

Women:
Back when I was a thinning norwood 3, I was desperately chasing dumb club sl*ts(weekend bouncer), daydreaming about going back to fullhead status, to be able to pump and dump hotter ones.

I thought being a norwood one was the one thing I needed to be able to pull off direct approaches with a decent success rate, and I was probably right. But (not so) deep inside I hated that life of boring dates and having to interract with soon-to-be washed-up party girls with absolutely no soul just to increase my laycount, out of sheer vanity.

I already knew that all this stupid womanizing crap was all compensation for my insecurity as a balding man.

As soon as I felt as a fullhead, I stopped being bothered with getting laid, started dating one girl almost exclusively(don't worry, I'm still a sociopath, but now I'm too lazy to approach and court women now that I'm absolutely no longer insecure about hairloss). I feel completely free and sexually empowered. I feel no need to try to prove myself that I'm not a creepy balding zombie by preying on the lost souls of tinder and nightclubs.

The whole idea was to feel attractive, not to get sex with new partners. You get that at the brothel or in swingers clubs. And my hair transplant gave me that, I actually feel a real difference in the impression I make to women, I get more positive reactiosn and attention undeniably, but I have no use for that newfound edge.

Life in general

This is where reality exceeded my expectations. I always felt the worst thing about hairloss was how it makes idealizing the future impossible. There is nothing left to look forward to, any way you picture a future event as a shell of your ideal self makes it a bad joke. As a result it kills your ambition and how you value your own life.

Now that I can idealize the future again, I got my sense of self-worth and ambition back. Making carreer plans.

I realize how deep this is when I realize that I drive much more carefully and avoid trouble a lot more than two years ago, this hasn't much to do with getting old. Some of my behaviors were borderline suicidal looking back.

Then there are the smaller details, like not being f*****g terrified of being tagged on unflattering facebook photos, or not using concealer anymore.

This really gave me a new start, but not all of those years back. But I've learned some lessons.

"
As soon as I felt as a fullhead, I stopped being bothered with getting laid, started dating one girl almost exclusively(don't worry, I'm still a sociopath, but now I'm too lazy to approach and court women now that I'm absolutely no longer insecure about hairloss). I feel completely free and sexually empowered. I feel no need to try to prove myself that I'm not a creepy balding zombie by preying on the lost souls of tinder and nightclubs."

100 f*****g percent. A girlfriend for me would be nice though.

"Now that I can idealize the future again, I got my sense of self-worth and ambition back. Making carreer plans."

This too.

So glad I got my transplant at 22 soon after it became apparent I needed one so it couldn't impede on my life for any serious amount of time. f*** every idiot who says young guys shouldn't get transplants.

 

[razzmatazz91]

I think my hair loss problems aren't actually solved, but they are definetely fixed. Thanks to a decent hair transplant and my good hair characteristics.

I knew from the start that reaching fullhead(in the eyes of normies) status would not exactly match my expectations and that making plans was absurd.

The first stupid expectation I had was that a nice hairline would have to turn me into the f*****g terminator of pussy-pulling. All that money all that frustration were to be invested into the pursuit of the best available pussy. I was excited about making that payback happen.

Women:
Back when I was a thinning norwood 3, I was desperately chasing dumb club sl*ts(weekend bouncer), daydreaming about going back to fullhead status, to be able to pump and dump hotter ones.

I thought being a norwood one was the one thing I needed to be able to pull off direct approaches with a decent success rate, and I was probably right. But (not so) deep inside I hated that life of boring dates and having to interract with soon-to-be washed-up party girls with absolutely no soul just to increase my laycount, out of sheer vanity.

I already knew that all this stupid womanizing crap was all compensation for my insecurity as a balding man.

As soon as I felt as a fullhead, I stopped being bothered with getting laid, started dating one girl almost exclusively(don't worry, I'm still a sociopath, but now I'm too lazy to approach and court women now that I'm absolutely no longer insecure about hairloss). I feel completely free and sexually empowered. I feel no need to try to prove myself that I'm not a creepy balding zombie by preying on the lost souls of tinder and nightclubs.

The whole idea was to feel attractive, not to get sex with new partners. You get that at the brothel or in swingers clubs. And my hair transplant gave me that, I actually feel a real difference in the impression I make to women, I get more positive reactiosn and attention undeniably, but I have no use for that newfound edge.

Life in general

This is where reality exceeded my expectations. I always felt the worst thing about hairloss was how it makes idealizing the future impossible. There is nothing left to look forward to, any way you picture a future event as a shell of your ideal self makes it a bad joke. As a result it kills your ambition and how you value your own life.

Now that I can idealize the future again, I got my sense of self-worth and ambition back. Making carreer plans.

I realize how deep this is when I realize that I drive much more carefully and avoid trouble a lot more than two years ago, this hasn't much to do with getting old. Some of my behaviors were borderline suicidal looking back.

Then there are the smaller details, like not being f*****g terrified of being tagged on unflattering facebook photos, or not using concealer anymore.

This really gave me a new start, but not all of those years back. But I've learned some lessons.

A very insightful post.

Been wondering if the problem itself is even "solved" for anyone rather than "fixed". It is a big difference.

On a side note... Are you a real sociopath? I mean you have ASPD?

 

[razzmatazz91]

I did ask afro his IQ once... Anyone know?
I'm no genius either... Measured at 137. Not genius but it is rather high.

I don't think you necessarily process things faster though, you just process better. Besides, once past 120 or so, the disparity among high iq folks is great in terms of what their minds can do better and what they can't.

 

[RegenWaiting]

I'd be doing the exact same things as I'm doing now, the only difference
being I'd be much more confident in social circumstances, and I'd be
the person I'm on the inside, also on the outside.

My looks would
reflect how I am as a person in concerns of style and status.

More people would see me how I see myself, and therefore
I'd be more social than I'm today. But not significantly more though.

 

[Assemblage23]

A very insightful post.

Been wondering if the problem itself is even "solved" for anyone rather than "fixed". It is a big difference.

On a side note... Are you a real sociopath? I mean you have ASPD?

I dont really believe in labels but the wikipedia description sounds realistic, although a bit too evil. It's just a matter of morals and how you perceive rules in general I guess.

 

[razzmatazz91]

No buddy, it is not!

But yeah, you might just be a guy with a little low empathy and lack of concern for people other than a select few. I'm like that too. It's normal. You'll know if you are a sociopath only if it's diagnosed.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I've always been complimented on my memory whether in relation to study or past events. People comment on my laziness and ability to study something in a few hours that may take them days. I'll say academic intelligence with social intelligence is extremely attractive to women - but with the prerequisite of looks.

I'm no genius though but comfortably above average IQ. Likes of Afro are leagues ahead when it comes to being gifted with IQ and there are some members like that in my family. You just know immediately from the way they write/talk/speed of processing information in their mind.

It's good you worked hard in college, hours put in can compensate and even ensure a finish with a top grade. Discipline is something I'm always striving to improve and as well as long term concentration - I'm better than my teen days. It sets you up well for life in certain areas like work ethic and gym - I believe you have this trait.

I doubt that my IQ is as high as you make it sound. I read your posts and it makes me think that you think that my IQ is in the 150+ range -- it's not. I did take an IQ test once for ADHD testing, but they couldn't evaluate me because I "cheated " on the video game portion of the IQ test. There's a simple game meant to measure reaction speed, but I had a large number of anticipatory responses which nullified the test. If I recall correctly, the psychiatric report said that this suggested racing thoughts.

My SAT and GRE scores map onto an IQ of ~142, and the same was true when I took a practice LSAT test. However that is almost certainly an overestimate, as these tests don't include spatial-visual orientation skills, or reaction speed for that matter. I would not be surprised to learn if my IQ for reaction speed is below 100. These tests are focused on mathematics, verbal comprehension, and logical reasoning, which is a subset of IQ, which is itself a subset of g. Social and emotional intelligence, reading people, recognizing music, recognizing scents, recognizing tastes, hand-eye coordination, etc are all things which are part of g but never tested on IQ tests.

I do know some genuine geniuses though. I've met and interacted with Chris Hirata briefly, he has an IQ of ~225 and is thus the smartest person in the world who is doing anything with his life. He's on another level. His writing is overwhelmingly crisp. I'd be afraid to discuss anything with him.

I also knew some very smart people in the undergraduate math and physics program. In any university, the smartest students are almost certainly found in math, physics, and computer science ... and they don't do very well with women for the most part. Women in computer science routinely complain about having multiple stalkers.

But, that said, I think that raw intelligence can turn on women, but it's not as efficient I've seen some men do very well, much better than their appearance, but I think the threshold is ~150+ or so.

 

[UberBaldaten]

Now, in addition to your good looks, I'm envious of your memory and iq.
I had to really work in college

It's a matter of practise. Also depends what college you're in. If you're in math, chemistry etc, good luck getting sh*t done in a day.

 

[UberBaldaten]

I doubt that my IQ is as high as you make it sound. I read your posts and it makes me think that you think that my IQ is in the 150+ range -- it's not. I did take an IQ test once for ADHD testing, but they couldn't evaluate me because I "cheated " on the video game portion of the IQ test. There's a simple game meant to measure reaction speed, but I had a large number of anticipatory responses which nullified the test. If I recall correctly, the psychiatric report said that this suggested racing thoughts.

My SAT and GRE scores map onto an IQ of ~142, and the same was true when I took a practice LSAT test. However that is almost certainly an overestimate, as these tests don't include spatial-visual orientation skills, or reaction speed for that matter. I would not be surprised to learn if my IQ for reaction speed is below 100. These tests are focused on mathematics, verbal comprehension, and logical reasoning, which is a subset of IQ, which is itself a subset of g. Social and emotional intelligence, reading people, recognizing music, recognizing scents, recognizing tastes, hand-eye coordination, etc are all things which are part of g but never tested on IQ tests.

I do know some genuine geniuses though. I've met and interacted with Chris Hirata briefly, he has an IQ of ~225 and is thus the smartest person in the world who is doing anything with his life. He's on another level. His writing is overwhelmingly crisp. I'd be afraid to discuss anything with him.

I also knew some very smart people in the undergraduate math and physics program. In any university, the smartest students are almost certainly found in math, physics, and computer science ... and they don't do very well with women for the most part. Women in computer science routinely complain about having multiple stalkers.

But, that said, I think that raw intelligence can turn on women, but it's not as efficient I've seen some men do very well, much better than their appearance, but I think the threshold is ~150+ or so.

> claim you're not high iq
> make an elaborate analysis of iq

You are spergy, but you still got high iq m8.

>raw intelligence makes women hnng
Just quick wit for banter.

> women complain about stalkers
Man lands on moon. More news at 11.

 

[Stanx22]

That feel when you were a genius back in the day and had a super memory, but now you're a dumb piece of worthless sh*t who can't focus or concentrate or even think in a basic way and you forget everything now because your memory is like sh*t, thanks to brain fog which you got because of depression.

Even intelligence the only positive trait that i possessed once had been taken from me.

I literally worth nothing now.

 

[razzmatazz91]

That feel when you were a genius back in the day and had a super memory, but now you're a dumb piece of worthless sh*t who can't focus or concentrate or even think in a basic way and you forget everything now because your memory is like sh*t, thanks to brain fog which you got because of depression.

Even intelligence the only positive trait that i possessed once had been taken from me.

I literally worth nothing now.

I've got depression. It does nothing to your IQ at all. Sure, I get the brain fog. But that has nothing to do with intelligence. Get your facts right and take a test.

 

[UberBaldaten]

That feel when you were a genius back in the day and had a super memory, but now you're a dumb piece of worthless sh*t who can't focus or concentrate or even think in a basic way and you forget everything now because your memory is like sh*t, thanks to brain fog which you got because of depression.

Even intelligence the only positive trait that i possessed once had been taken from me.

I literally worth nothing now.

Get help. We can't save you. Go train and do something else. Women may not like your bald head but it doesn't stop you from enjoying things in life. You will be happy with or without your hair when you do sh*t you like.

Also go on low dose SSRI IF NEEDED.

 

[IdealForehead]

But, that said, I think that raw intelligence can turn on women, but it's not as efficient I've seen some men do very well, much better than their appearance, but I think the threshold is ~150+ or so.

Just LOL. I guess sort of. I've never had a girl seem turned on or hit on me because of academic awards I've won or the grades I've gotten.

I think intelligence is only attractive to women in a few ways:

- The extent to which you are able to converse and relate on a broad range of topics. This has to do with just coming off as knowledgeable and well rounded in general.

- Your capacity to read body language, visual cues, verbal cues and direct the flow of conversation in a meaningful and witty way. This is what most people term "emotional intelligence".

- The degree to which your intelligence manifests as success in the real world. Ie. A genius with an IQ of 160 sitting in his basement is less attractive than a guy with an IQ of 120 who has gone on to a successful career or who can lead a group project to success.

For my own part I have no idea what my IQ is. I've wondered especially what it would have been in my teens before years of social binge drinking and recreational drug use have likely taken their toll. I'm sure I'm dumber now than I was then. But it's just a passing curiosity.

In my case my face/body are my greatest limitations so that is what I spend most of my time worrying about. I know enough to understand I was lucky mentally but the luck all ran out when my physical aspects came together.

 

[UberBaldaten]

I've got depression. It does nothing to your IQ at all. Sure, I get the brain fog. But that has nothing to do with intelligence. Get your facts right and take a test.

This is wrong. It is known that depression affects various parts of brain and can tank your IQ on tests. Being anxious which releases cortisol can also drop your IQ in the moment for a large amount of percent.

 

[razzmatazz91]

Women may not like your bald head but it doesn't stop you from enjoying things in life.

Food for thought. It may not stop you from enjoying other things, but it will make your overall quality of life rather poor. And so, you won't be able to enjoy things like you used to.

Case in point: I used to love being outdoors. Now that I look ugly, I can't enjoy it as much, and sometimes not at all... Even if I'm all alone.

Being attractive to women is not about women. It is about you.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Just LOL. I guess sort of. I've never had a girl seem turned on or hit on me because of academic awards I've won or the grades I've gotten.

I think intelligence is only attractive to women in a few ways:

- The extent to which you are able to converse and relate on a broad range of topics. This has to do with just coming off as knowledgeable and well rounded in general.

- Your capacity to read body language, visual cues, verbal cues and direct the flow of conversation in a meaningful and witty way. This is what most people term "emotional intelligence".

- The degree to which your intelligence manifests as success in the real world. Ie. A genius with an IQ of 160 sitting in his basement is less attractive than a guy with an IQ of 120 who has gone on to a successful career or who can lead a group project to success.

For my own part I have no idea what my IQ is. I've wondered especially what it would have been in my teens before years of social binge drinking and recreational drug use have likely taken their toll. I'm sure I'm dumber now than I was then. But it's just a passing curiosity.

In my case my face/body are my greatest limitations so that is what I spend most of my time worrying about. I know enough to understand I was lucky mentally but the luck all ran out when my physical aspects came together.

Anyone over with an IQ of over 125 is unlikely to be inhibited by this number. Beyond this the question of what one actually does with it is more important. Same case with women, they're more interested in the application of this and tangible life success than the inner IQ workings that made this possible. Rightly so.

I know plenty of insanely high IQ people particularly in computer science that can't manage money for sh*t, do basic financial sums or apply analytical logic in this area. The ability to apply IQ test related mathematical logic and pattern recognition in an efficient manner doesn't extend to applying this in the real world which is what actually matters to that persons living standards, achievements and overall understanding of the world.

 

[UberBaldaten]

Food for thought. It may not stop you from enjoying other things, but it will make your overall quality of life rather poor. And so, you won't be able to enjoy things like you used to.

Case in point: I used to love being outdoors. Now that I look ugly, I can't enjoy it as much, and sometimes not at all... Even if I'm all alone.

Being attractive to women is not about women. It is about you.

I like being outdoors. I don't give a sh*t when moment takes my attention about my baldhead. I will enjoy alone the beautiful mountain view with or without some b**ch feeling disgusted by my balding head.

It is only when I am near someone that I have subconscious fear of being judged.

Otherwise I agree somewhat with your statement. I like feeling good about my looks.

 

[razzmatazz91]

This is wrong. It is known that depression affects various parts of brain and can tank your IQ on tests. Being anxious which releases cortisol can also drop your IQ in the moment for a large amount of percent.

Nope. This is right. As said by yourself.... It can interfere with your TEST. Note it is the TEST that is affected in the moment, not your true IQ. That remains the same.

Depression is a horrible f*****g curse... And true, it affects parts of your brain responsible for processing and makes you, well, different. But ultimately your IQ is unaffected, though the test may suffer.

 

[UberBaldaten]

Nope. This is right. As said by yourself.... It can interfere with your TEST. Note it is the TEST that is affected in the moment, not your true IQ. That remains the same.

Depression is a horrible f*****g curse... And true, it affects parts of your brain responsible for processing and makes you, well, different. But ultimately your IQ is unaffected, though the test may suffer.

We are trapped in semantics now. Your potential IQ remains unaffacted, as in , remove the depression and it goes back up to normal. Else depressed people wouldn't do dumb sh*t on tests even if they were unintelligent.