When you're in your 30's, you're finished

[Norwoodcel]

Unless you're very very good looking in which case online dating works.. then you're finished in your 30s. You'll never have it as good as your early 20s when your school and university "social circles" were still intact.

Every single one of my peers i knew from school is either still with their sweetheart that they got together with early on in life or they are INCEL and maybe having short relationships with very very low tier single mums. It's kind of sad because they're all bluepilled and i see them attention seeking on facebook. They have their relationship status as "Single" and they have it shown. I keep mine hidden. They also regularly post up meme images about relationships and finding the right girl blablabla.

Where the hell do you meet women these days? Unless you get lucky and strike up a relationship at your workplace.. The bars are mostly sausagefests

Technically i'm not "incel" because i could go on Tinder.. match with some fatties and simp like crazy to get a meet and probably get to bang.. But the -3 rule stands.. you'll never match with your looksmatch because they only go 3 points above. I'm a 6/10 so only 3/10's will match me.

I cannot even make a friend with a fellow baldcel at the bar.. A few months ago i befriended a guy who's in his early 40s, a baldcel and embarrassingly wears a baseball cap indoors. He seems to have a "social circle" with his pool club he meets regularly to play pool in tournaments and whatnot.. he never invited me.. he just uses me when he's got no one to have a pint with he will invite me to the pub. Anyway playing pool doesn't look that great, i've seen his facebook photos.. they're all full of men all coping in a pub together.

 

[Feelsbadman]

feel like we are the same person i could of wrote the same thing I got no idea man it's over i'm reaching 30 and just gotta ccept it

i had a gf with a 6/10 a few years ago i was so happy everyday and felt better in life ,, more motivated and everything

sex and intimacy is a basic human need
you need to to have it to function at optimal levels

but now i can't even get a 6/10 al li get on tinder are fatties single mums and trannies

just have to try and accept it.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Unless you're very very good looking in which case online dating works.. then you're finished in your 30s. You'll never have it as good as your early 20s when your school and university "social circles" were still intact.

Every single one of my peers i knew from school is either still with their sweetheart that they got together with early on in life or they are INCEL and maybe having short relationships with very very low tier single mums. It's kind of sad because they're all bluepilled and i see them attention seeking on facebook. They have their relationship status as "Single" and they have it shown. I keep mine hidden. They also regularly post up meme images about relationships and finding the right girl blablabla.

Where the hell do you meet women these days? Unless you get lucky and strike up a relationship at your workplace.. The bars are mostly sausagefests

Technically i'm not "incel" because i could go on Tinder.. match with some fatties and simp like crazy to get a meet and probably get to bang.. But the -3 rule stands.. you'll never match with your looksmatch because they only go 3 points above. I'm a 6/10 so only 3/10's will match me.

I cannot even make a friend with a fellow baldcel at the bar.. A few months ago i befriended a guy who's in his early 40s, a baldcel and embarrassingly wears a baseball cap indoors. He seems to have a "social circle" with his pool club he meets regularly to play pool in tournaments and whatnot.. he never invited me.. he just uses me when he's got no one to have a pint with he will invite me to the pub. Anyway playing pool doesn't look that great, i've seen his facebook photos.. they're all full of men all coping in a pub together.

What do you do for work? In your 30s money matters a LOT more.

 

[Norwoodcel]

What do you do for work? In your 30s money matters a LOT more.

How? If I earn a few k more still the girls at the bar gravitate towards me? I'm already well dressed..

Will women swipe me more on tinder? Nope

 

[Diffused_confidence]

How? If I earn a few k more still the girls at the bar gravitate towards me? I'm already well dressed..

Will women swipe me more on tinder? Nope

You need to imply wealth in your photos. If you are rich you buy things, hang out with rich people at rich places and take rich photos. Most online profiles include occupation. Tinder doesn't but other dating apps do. Use those. I always assumed tinder was for young people anyway which is why I wouldn't bother at 31.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Unless you're very very good looking in which case online dating works..

Pretty much true. After a date last evening I matched and flirted with 2 girls on my way home. Then I woke up and had 2 more matches and 1 of them messaged me first.

The date wasn't great, but if I had no options, I would probably still have that chick in my mind and end up messaging her again. Now I don't even care.

I don't worry about all of that anymore because I will keep going on dates throughout my 30's effortlessly.

 

[doubleindemnity]

You need to imply wealth in your photos. If you are rich you buy things, hang out with rich people at rich places and take rich photos. Most online profiles include occupation. Tinder doesn't but other dating apps do. Use those. I always assumed tinder was for young people anyway which is why I wouldn't bother at 31.

The funny thing is that most rich people who are not super rich live basic lives and save. They might drive a Honda or a Toyota for example. In the modern world with its high cost of living compared with 30 years ago, if you are not a multimillionaire business person you get wealthy as an employee by saving a lot.

And money doesn't matter and I agree with OP. The age at which a guy loses his hair, not 30,however, is the turning point.

 

[Pacho]

kinda makes me me happy i married in my late tweenties, people use to sh*t on married couples with children in media (potraying them as boring) but the truth you cannot just keep living in your thirties like you did in your tweenties

so i think you are only finished if you cant adapt to your new age and expect everything to stay as it was in your tweenties and late teens

 

[Oknow]

Unless you're very very good looking in which case online dating works.. then you're finished in your 30s. You'll never have it as good as your early 20s when your school and university "social circles" were still intact.

Every single one of my peers i knew from school is either still with their sweetheart that they got together with early on in life or they are INCEL and maybe having short relationships with very very low tier single mums. It's kind of sad because they're all bluepilled and i see them attention seeking on facebook. They have their relationship status as "Single" and they have it shown. I keep mine hidden. They also regularly post up meme images about relationships and finding the right girl blablabla.

Where the hell do you meet women these days? Unless you get lucky and strike up a relationship at your workplace.. The bars are mostly sausagefests

Technically i'm not "incel" because i could go on Tinder.. match with some fatties and simp like crazy to get a meet and probably get to bang.. But the -3 rule stands.. you'll never match with your looksmatch because they only go 3 points above. I'm a 6/10 so only 3/10's will match me.

I cannot even make a friend with a fellow baldcel at the bar.. A few months ago i befriended a guy who's in his early 40s, a baldcel and embarrassingly wears a baseball cap indoors. He seems to have a "social circle" with his pool club he meets regularly to play pool in tournaments and whatnot.. he never invited me.. he just uses me when he's got no one to have a pint with he will invite me to the pub. Anyway playing pool doesn't look that great, i've seen his facebook photos.. they're all full of men all coping in a pub together.

LOL

 

[Oknow]

Unless you're very very good looking in which case online dating works.. then you're finished in your 30s. You'll never have it as good as your early 20s when your school and university "social circles" were still intact.

Every single one of my peers i knew from school is either still with their sweetheart that they got together with early on in life or they are INCEL and maybe having short relationships with very very low tier single mums. It's kind of sad because they're all bluepilled and i see them attention seeking on facebook. They have their relationship status as "Single" and they have it shown. I keep mine hidden. They also regularly post up meme images about relationships and finding the right girl blablabla.

Where the hell do you meet women these days? Unless you get lucky and strike up a relationship at your workplace.. The bars are mostly sausagefests

Technically i'm not "incel" because i could go on Tinder.. match with some fatties and simp like crazy to get a meet and probably get to bang.. But the -3 rule stands.. you'll never match with your looksmatch because they only go 3 points above. I'm a 6/10 so only 3/10's will match me.

I cannot even make a friend with a fellow baldcel at the bar.. A few months ago i befriended a guy who's in his early 40s, a baldcel and embarrassingly wears a baseball cap indoors. He seems to have a "social circle" with his pool club he meets regularly to play pool in tournaments and whatnot.. he never invited me.. he just uses me when he's got no one to have a pint with he will invite me to the pub. Anyway playing pool doesn't look that great, i've seen his facebook photos.. they're all full of men all coping in a pub together.

you have such a loser mindset

I’m 35, last two women I slept with were 28, and 30

I am now talking to a 27 year old.

I am a lot more active dating wise now then I ever was in my 20s

 

[doubleindemnity]

you have such a loser mindset

I’m 35, last two women I slept with were 28, and 30

I am now talking to a 27 year old.

Added caveat. You are above average in height and hair loss status. You are exactly the 'very good looking people' that the post was talking about. He may have a loser mindset and you may have a winner mindset but that's not why you're a winner and he's a loser. Do you see that even the lines like 'slept with' or 'talking to' in your post show privilege? Bald losers don't get that.

 

[Feelsbadman]

you have such a loser mindset

I’m 35, last two women I slept with were 28, and 30

I am now talking to a 27 year old.

I am a lot more active dating wise now then I ever was in my 20s

are you good looking?

 

[Oknow]

Added caveat. You are above average in height and hair loss status. You are exactly the 'very good looking people' that the post was talking about. He may have a loser mindset and you may have a winner mindset but that's not why you're a winner and he's a loser. Do you see that even the lines like 'slept with' or 'talking to' in your post show privilege? Bald losers don't get that.

Height and hair does not automatically get women, if that was the case, I would have had twice as much success in my 20s when I had a better set of hair and same height

I actually went through a 5 year drought in my 20s when I didn’t get a single date

it’s creating opportunities and taking them that does

 

[Feelsbadman]

Height and hair does not automatically get women, if that was the case, I would have had twice as much success in my 20s when I had a better set of hair and same height

it’s creating opportunities and taking them that does

What % of men over 30> are above average height, have hair and in shape?
exactly.

 

[Oknow]

are you good looking?

no

very average

 

[Oknow]

What % of men over 30> are above average height, have hair and in shape?
exactly.

lots

Many have some hair loss , which I do

 

[doubleindemnity]

Height and hair does not automatically get women, if that was the case, I would have had twice as much success in my 20s when I had a better set of hair and same height

I actually went through a 5 year drought in my 20s when I didn’t get a single date

it’s creating opportunities and taking them that does

With hair and height, you can work your way to success with the stuff like dressing well, interacting well, being in shape etc. Those options aren't available for a bald guy. Remember also that the rich get richer. Bald guys' skills there inevitably decay away while average guys' skills improve because they are able to practice them. The gap between bald and average becomes larger.

And for the last time if a guy is above average in height, above average in hair loss and average everywhere else then he must be mathematically above average. That's where I would put you.

 

[Oknow]

With hair and height, you can work your way to success with the stuff like dressing well, interacting well, being in shape etc. Those options aren't available for a bald guy. Remember also that the rich get richer. Bald guys' skills there inevitably decay away while average guys' skills improve because they are able to practice them. The gap between bald and average becomes larger.

And for the last time if a guy is above average in height, above average in hair loss and average everywhere else then he must be mathematically above average. That's where I would put you.

I see lots of bald guys with women when out and about

You’ve also had some success recently

just sounds like endless excuses

 

[Feelsbadman]

lots

Many have some hair loss , which I do

Lots
lmao

statistically it's very small actually

 

[Oknow]

Lots
lmao

statistically it's very small actually

go out and about

lots of bald guys with women