When you're in your 30's, you're finished

Feelsbadman

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go out and about

lots of bald guys with women

i don't see many bald guys with women
the only bald guys i see with women look like they are marrid (beta providers) or they have very ugly / fat women as partners
sometimes i see guys who are bald with decent women but they are often tall / jacked and have a good face

do you see differently?
 

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I see lots of bald guys with women when out and about

You’ve also had some success recently

just sounds like endless excuses
Even if I end up having a good year, I will never, just like any bald guy, be able to post like you do with your 'talking to' and 'slept with'. That kind of life isn't possible for a bald guy. That's privilege for people who do not have aggressive hair loss. Like I said, if a bald guy did exactly what you do ie get in shape, work on mindset, sign up to dating services, dress well, be successful in his career etc. then he would fail completely. His results would be different to yours. If we can agree on that then what else can we conclude besides concluding that being above average in hair is pretty much everything?
 

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Even if I end up having a good year, I will never, just like any bald guy, be able to post like you do with your 'talking to' and 'slept with'. That kind of life isn't possible for a bald guy. That's privilege for people who do not have aggressive hair loss. Like I said, if a bald guy did exactly what you do ie get in shape, work on mindset, sign up to dating services, dress well, be successful in his career etc. then he would fail completely. His results would be different to yours. If we can agree on that then what else can we conclude besides concluding that being above average in hair is pretty much everything?
Well said
just sick and tired of this crap like balding and being ugly and short doesn't matter and you just go to have a "good mindset'sick and tired of this f*****g sh*t.
 

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Even if I end up having a good year, I will never, just like any bald guy, be able to post like you do with your 'talking to' and 'slept with'. That kind of life isn't possible for a bald guy. That's privilege for people who do not have aggressive hair loss. Like I said, if a bald guy did exactly what you do ie get in shape, work on mindset, sign up to dating services, dress well, be successful in his career etc. then he would fail completely. His results would be different to yours. If we can agree on that then what else can we conclude besides concluding that being above average in hair is pretty much everything?

well why don’t you forget about playing the field and just focus on finding someone to settle down with
 

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well why don’t you forget about playing the field and just focus on finding someone to settle down with
That's what I have been doing for years. Same as @Feelsbadman. Like I explained before, this takes years for a baldie. 5-10 years. When you go on a date every week, a bald guy at his best will be at one every 2 months. When 1 out of 5 first meetings go well for you, it's 1 out of 20 for a baldie. Add this up and it's 5-10 years. Can you really blame bald guys complaining like we do when they're around 4 years in?
 

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That's what I have been doing for years. Same as @Feelsbadman. Like I explained before, this takes years for a baldie. 5-10 years. When you go on a date every week, a bald guy at his best will be at one every 2 months. When 1 out of 5 first meetings go well for you, it's 1 out of 20 for a baldie. Add this up and it's 5-10 years. Can you really blame bald guys complaining like we do when they're around 4 years in?

well it sounds like women are interested, but are passing up those opportunities
 

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That's what I have been doing for years. Same as @Feelsbadman. Like I explained before, this takes years for a baldie. 5-10 years. When you go on a date every week, a bald guy at his best will be at one every 2 months. When 1 out of 5 first meetings go well for you, it's 1 out of 20 for a baldie. Add this up and it's 5-10 years. Can you really blame bald guys complaining like we do when they're around 4 years in?
@doubleindemnity you seem very well educated and interesting - even maybe a little eccentric, which can be a very cool trait. You just need to find someone on your wavelength and you’ll click, keep looking for them. Appreciate you have your views, but please bear in mind that being bald does not make anyone a ‘loser’, seriously. I have hair and have never looked at bald men as anything other than a man with a shaved head. I work in a male dominated environment, a mix of bald and non bald, many of the bald men are enjoying a very successful life and some not so much, the same can be said for those with hair, some are thriving, some are not.

@Feelsbadman you had a girlfriend, who had lots of sex with you, which means she was attracted to you. You’ve got to get back to that place, cus you were giving off some vibe back then that was bringing you success. Plus I just read you comment about the gym being boring and cringe if you’re over 25. I’m 42 and have been an avid gym goer since I was 20. At 42 I am fit and strong, the gym makes me feel better mentally and I have made many friends there. Whether you like it or not, staying in shape really helps in many ways in life. If you hate the gym, try something else active, I go out every weekend and scale hills, sometimes mountains, no one around but nature, feels great. What are your interests?

Also, take a look at the posts from the dude who was NW7 at a young age and posted pics on here a few days back of himself, claiming they were someone else, but then coming clean the pics are actually him. He is living a great life, maybe he can help give you direction.

Anyway, all the best to you both.
 

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@doubleindemnity you seem very well educated and interesting - even maybe a little eccentric, which can be a very cool trait. You just need to find someone on your wavelength and you’ll click, keep looking for them. Appreciate you have your views, but please bear in mind that being bald does not make anyone a ‘loser’, seriously. I have hair and have never looked at bald men as anything other than a man with a shaved head. I work in a male dominated environment, a mix of bald and non bald, many of the bald men are enjoying a very successful life and some not so much, the same can be said for those with hair, some are thriving, some are not.

@Feelsbadman you had a girlfriend, who had lots of sex with you, which means she was attracted to you. You’ve got to get back to that place, cus you were giving off some vibe back then that was bringing you success. Plus I just read you comment about the gym being boring and cringe if you’re over 25. I’m 42 and have been an avid gym goer since I was 20. At 42 I am fit and strong, the gym makes me feel better mentally and I have made many friends there. Whether you like it or not, staying in shape really helps in many ways in life. If you hate the gym, try something else active, I go out every weekend and scale hills, sometimes mountains, no one around but nature, feels great. What are your interests?

Also, take a look at the posts from the dude who was NW7 at a young age and posted pics on here a few days back of himself, claiming they were someone else, but then coming clean the pics are actually him. He is living a great life, maybe he can help give you direction.

Anyway, all the best to you both.
bro i can't go back to that level
 

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i met my last gf off an app, i was suprised she agreed to go out as i've never been out with an attractive gil off an app, she was a 6/10 at besti n person
Huge sl*t but i fell in love with her she evetually cheated on me

i mean what did i expect? this girl had fucked 100 dudes had no self repsect, daddy issues, attention wh*** literlaly everythin you didn't want in a gf

but she was fun and i loved hanging with her and having all this porno fun sex ive never experienced

but that was a long time ago
nothign has come cloe to that its been years and im uglier.
 

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if you got no social circle at 30 i would look into how that happened... the reason for being single could be the same...

btw if you didnt live by sex drugs rock n roll from your teens to your mid 20s, you are already finished^^
 

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if you got no social circle at 30 i would look into how that happened... the reason for being single could be the same...

btw if you didnt live by sex drugs rock n roll from your teens to your mid 20s, you are already finished^^
is it over for me?
 

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i met my last gf off an app, i was suprised she agreed to go out as i've never been out with an attractive gil off an app, she was a 6/10 at besti n person
Huge sl*t but i fell in love with her she evetually cheated on me

i mean what did i expect? this girl had fucked 100 dudes had no self repsect, daddy issues, attention wh*** literlaly everythin you didn't want in a gf

but she was fun and i loved hanging with her and having all this porno fun sex ive never experienced

but that was a long time ago
nothign has come cloe to that its been years and im uglier.
Why do you feel you are uglier? Is it just he hair situation?
 

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if you got no social circle at 30 i would look into how that happened... the reason for being single could be the same...

btw if you didnt live by sex drugs rock n roll from your teens to your mid 20s, you are already finished^^
I lived that life, but maybe for a little too long!
 

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Why do you feel you are uglier? Is it just he hair situation?
Yes hair situation 100%
also i'm naturally very ugly with bad genetics
I feel like i peaked with her / lucked out. As i have no / small social cirlce and was surprisd when an attractive girl matched me on an app then wanted a relationship with me.

I mean what are my chance happening again?

but in hindsight this girl was "trailer trash". Even being an incel like myself i found it hard to date such a slutty girl. Do you think i did the right thing not taking things further with her?

I just doubt ill get that chance ever again. It's been nearly 3 years and the girls ive been with since (few girls) have been terrible compared to her.
 

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You know hw hard it is for me to f*** ugly/fat girls when I used to have an attractive girl who was actually fit and hot its worlds apart.
I fucked myself by being a Chad for a year then going ugly.
 
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