Where Is The Female Red Pill Movement?

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Hey redpill?

Are you a new member or are you an old poster with a new username?

PM if its private.

A bonafide, hand-on-heart, may-God-strike-me-down-if-I'm-lying brand spanking new user.

Having said that, I do find my username a bit naff - I always seem to go for generic names that lack character.
 

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@redpilled my point was in case it was missed is that you made generalization about the biological differences between men and women in how they feel/think/process information risk they take how they react to difficult situations pressure etc..and this is what effects women succeeding or not succeeding versus men.
I do agree with you to an extent.
BUT I think those general characteristics that are 'male' vs 'female' are also spectrum within each individual.
Like Keensy has the theory that men and women are heterosexual to full gay on a scale of 1 - 6.
I think these characteristics that are more common in male brain vs female brain are probably on a spectrum where the majority of men and women lay at some 'point' in the of masculine or feminine brain in our feelings, thought process and risk taking.
Now this could be why some women excel at certain things while other women struggle.
and this could be why some men excel at things and others dont.

How this relates to my comment earlier is I notice the 'emotions' and 'its not fair' dramatic reaction to this whole MGTOW movement seems very 'bitchy' to me in a very similar way as the modern day extreme feminists.
It just seems like its men who feel emasculated by society and women blaming the reason they cant excel or succeed or get it tighter is because they are victims.
THE very thing you accuse the feminist women of believing on their end.
You cant see the hypocrisy.

I wrote CLEARLY in my post--you can complain you can enact policy and vote etc...but your reaction to the criticism of your view point is very much about your 'feelings'...similar to the women you are saying may not do well in their some fields of profession due to their 'feelings' about things instead of rational thinking.
There is nothing WRONG with how you react but to me it does seem feminine.
Alpha has nothing to do with looks it's to do with how you react to things and handle things.
Stoic men who handles sh*t-yes preferable in my opinion to 'this' 17 pages of your feelings.
Because end of the day most of this is about your 'feels'.
You are not my man so I don't care or judge you for it but I am also saying it seems like the ver 'feminine' traits you think make women different then men.
 
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I wish I was more masculine.

As it stands, I look very masculine, but when it comes to a lot of typical masculine traits I just fall short.

I'm not into cars, cant do diy, don't earn a ton of money, I'm overly sensitive, prefer female company, don't know how to survive in the wild, likes approval from peers, and I don't have moustache ;)

The only things that are manly about me is that I have muscles and I'm good at sports.
 

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@hairblues you are just trying to get him to doubt his very well put together argument about the pay gap and other feminist bs lol

There was hardly any feelings besides annoyance and anger at yetti and zircon anyways, which is natural in a debate

Like lol it doesnt matter if he is being bitchy or whatever, he has a million good points to make

Also yes, predictable shaming on your part. "You arent a real man if you arent feminist!"
 

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I wish I was more masculine.

As it stands, I look very masculine, but when it comes to a lot of typical masculine traits I just fall short.

I'm not into cars, cant do diy, don't earn a ton of money, I'm overly sensitive, prefer female company, don't know how to survive in the wild, likes approval from peers, and I don't have moustache ;)

The only things that are manly about me is that I have muscles and I'm good at sports.
Yep same here. Im more feminine than lots of women lol. So hairblues argument just makes me chuckle

I hate female hypocrisy and superficiality and idk just their general demeanour is annoying as f*** a lot of the time
 

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@hairblues you are just trying to get him to doubt his very well put together argument about the pay gap and other feminist bs lol

There was hardly any feelings besides annoyance and anger at yetti and zircon anyways, which is natural in a debate

Like lol it doesnt matter if he is being bitchy or whatever, he has a million good points to make

Also yes, predictable shaming on your part. "You arent a real man if you arent feminist!"

No I don't realy believe in the pay gap.
Not NOW more like 20 -30 years ago.

I said in my posts he makes some good points

I am pointing out his apparent bitchiness which that is how I perceive him to be to be honest--as an example of that yes there are some general differences in men and women but I tend to find some of th men (not all) who really bite into they MGTOW movement kind of feminine in the way the conduct themselves...same way some feminists to me seem masculine.

Where did I say this ("You aren't a real man if you aren't feminist!") you have me quoted as saying which I never said this...and shame on you for misrepresenting that as if you are quoting me directly.

For your information i dont like the 'male' feminists either.

Shame @Exodus2011 you have to put words in my mouth I never said or ever suggested to defend a new poster just because you agree with him.
You can agree with him but you should not make things up that I never said or wrote.
 

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Yep same here. Im more feminine than lots of women lol. So hairblues argument just makes me chuckle

I hate female hypocrisy and superficiality and idk just their general demeanor is annoying as f*** a lot of the time

I am pointing out HIS hypocrisy.

Go back and read it a few times and stop reacting emotionally and you will process my actual sentences.
 

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No I don't realy believe in the pay gap.
Not NOW more like 20 -30 years ago.

I said in my posts he makes some good points

I am pointing out his apparent bitchiness which that is how I perceive him to be to be honest--as an example of that yes there are some general differences in men and women but I tend to find some of th men (not all) who really bite into they MGTOW movement kind of feminine in the way the conduct themselves...same way some feminists to me seem masculine.

Where did I say this ("You aren't a real man if you aren't feminist!") you have me quoted as saying which I never said this...and shame on you for misrepresenting that as if you are quoting me directly.
Its not a quote its just a thought process, what i can see you saying in your head

Anyways lol at your judgments of him. The argument is what matters. See? Typical female bs right there. More focused on the person than the actual content
 

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I wish I was more masculine.

As it stands, I look very masculine, but when it comes to a lot of typical masculine traits I just fall short.

I'm not into cars, cant do diy, don't earn a ton of money, I'm overly sensitive, prefer female company, don't know how to survive in the wild, likes approval from peers, and I don't have moustache ;)

The only things that are manly about me is that I have muscles and I'm good at sports.

You liking cars or not is not masculine traits I am talking about how people process emotions and how male and female are mostly different in this manner.
 

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Its not a quote its just a thought process, what i can see you saying in your head

Anyways lol at your judgments of him. The argument is what matters. See? Typical female bs right there. More focused on the person than the actual content

No
I am focused on the fact you put a sentence in a 'quote' I never actually said.

I addressed the rest of your content line by line

Obviously you dont read my posts you quickly scan for what to be outraged over.

so be it.
 

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You liking cars or not is not masculine traits I am talking about how people process emotions and how male and female are mostly different in this manner.
My post was a general musing on masculinity rather than a response to your post.

Men and women are supposed to like certain things.

Men: sports, cars, technology et cetera
Women: fashion, cooking, dancing et cetera

I know these are old fashioned but I think you can still surprise people if you aren't into these things, especially for men.

If you are a man and say you don't drive or watch sports then people look at you aghast
 

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My post was a general musing on masculinity rather than a response to your post.

Men and women are supposed to like certain things.

Men: sports, cars, technology et cetera
Women: fashion, cooking, dancing et cetera

I know these are old fashioned but I think you can still surprise people if you aren't into these things, especially for men.

If you are a man and say you don't drive or watch sports then people look at you aghast

I do think there is validity to those trends but I personally don't consider it masculine/feminine to have those interests.

I know some women who don't get into clothes hair or makeup much (my sister actually) and I know straight men who are getting manicures and their clothes are tailored to perfection.

I do see a trend though in art department at work.

More men are heading towards the graphics lie 3d max kind of programs etc where more women are heading into traditional scenic artistry (painting sets and backdrops) then lets say 20 years ago.

On the other hand a lot more women are into the cool special effects stuff then in past and more female property. masters then in past.
(lol i had to spell out property because it kept correcting to propecia)

more straight men in hair and make up etc.
 

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I do think there is validity to those trends but I personally don't consider it masculine/feminine to have those interests.

I know some women who don't get into clothes hair or makeup much (my sister actually) and I know straight men who are getting manicures and their clothes are tailored to perfection.

I do see a trend though in art department at work.

More men are heading towards the graphics lie 3d max kind of programs etc where more women are heading into traditional scenic artistry (painting sets and backdrops) then lets say 20 years ago.

On the other hand a lot more women are into the cool special effects stuff then in past and more female property. masters then in past.
(lol i had to spell out property because it kept correcting to propecia)

more straight men in hair and make up etc.
You do live in very unique and feminine/metrosexual environment don't you? Didn't you say you are in Manhattan?
 

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You do live in very unique and feminine/metrosexual environment don't you? Didn't you say you are in Manhattan?

I am in NYC I don't want to say where exact I get paranoid LOL.

My life is kind of unique and It is like someone can piece it togehter who knows me..part of me does not care but practicality I am sure I would if i got busted.
 

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I am in NYC I don't want to say where exact I get paranoid LOL.

My life is kind of unique and It is like someone can piece it togehter who knows me..part of me does not care but practicality I am sure I would if i got busted.
Its fine and I respect your privacy.

As a whole I think people are overly careful with this site. I mean its pretty niche, normal folk don't browse the impact of baldness forum when they have free time. The odds of them seeing our image or our content is tiny.
 
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