Why does it still make me sad seeing my ex with someone else even though we broke up 2 years ago and she cheated?

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Nah man hookers make it worse,

ive fucked hooker girls

but it's just not same i loved this girl man.. i looked at he social media today and she looked so hot and now she's with someone else i feel miserable about it.
I used to be in a similar situation as you after this hot girl I dated broke up with me. I thought she was the one and that I could never find another girl like her. What helped me get over her was taking steroids and realizing how much muscles improve your looks and how attractive I've become. I realized I could actually get girls that were even hotter than her. The only problem I have is that steroids wreck your hair so I'm doing everything I can to prevent that while also maintaining a great physique. My main point is that you should start dating other girls and it'll help you get over her. Getting in shape helps with that.

Still miss her accent tho :( German accents are hot asf
 

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I used to be in a similar situation as you after this hot girl I dated broke up with me. I thought she was the one and that I could never find another girl like her. What helped me get over her was taking steroids and realizing how much muscles improve your looks and how attractive I've become. I realized I could actually get girls that were even hotter than her. The only problem I have is that steroids wreck your hair so I'm doing everything I can to prevent that while also maintaining a great physique. My main point is that you should start dating other girls and it'll help you get over her. Getting in shape helps with that.

Still miss her accent tho :( German accents are hot asf
That's the thing i already "Looksxmax" i got terrible genetics and average scial skills i doubt ill get a girl like her again
what cycle do you run? i'm tempted to jump on but not sure

i feel so f*****g sad man she's gettng fucked right now and here i am missing her after years. She was sogood man

She squatted, had a fat ***, fat legs, oh man i msis her .
 

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That's the thing i already "Looksxmax" i got terrible genetics and average scial skills i doubt ill get a girl like her again
what cycle do you run? i'm tempted to jump on but not sure

i feel so f*****g sad man she's gettng fucked right now and here i am missing her after years. She was sogood man

She squatted, had a fat ***, fat legs, oh man i msis her .
What did you do to looksmax? Have you tried steroids? My face is alright and my body was good before but when I tried steroids it made me go from cute/good looking to sexy/hot. I recommend you try them because honestly I would rather be bald and big than skinny with hair. And I think social skills are largely determined by how you look but there are exceptions such as comedians. Attractive people appear to be more confident and thus appear to have more social skills and more intelligence.
 

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That's the thing i already "Looksxmax" i got terrible genetics and average scial skills i doubt ill get a girl like her again
what cycle do you run? i'm tempted to jump on but not sure

i feel so f*****g sad man she's gettng fucked right now and here i am missing her after years. She was sogood man

She squatted, had a fat ***, fat legs, oh man i msis her .
How is ur hairline btw? The one thing I appreciate about hairloss tho is that it makes me accept my unattractive facial features way more because hairloss will wreck my attractiveness way more than my facial features ever could. If I'm able to maintain my hairline I will be happy asf with the way I look but before I experienced hairloss I was not happy with the way my face looked like. It also helps that there's plenty of treatment options for hairloss unlike fixing a big nose that you have little control over aside from getting a rhinoplasty. Hairloss is just a bigger problem for me and I don't look at smaller problems the same way and start to appreciate what I have/had. For example, if I get diagnosed with a terminal illness tomorrow, my worrying about my hair goes out the window because something more valuable of mine is threatened (my life).
 

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How is ur hairline btw? The one thing I appreciate about hairloss tho is that it makes me accept my unattractive facial features way more because hairloss will wreck my attractiveness way more than my facial features ever could. If I'm able to maintain my hairline I will be happy asf with the way I look but before I experienced hairloss I was not happy with the way my face looked like. It also helps that there's plenty of treatment options for hairloss unlike fixing a big nose that you have little control over aside from getting a rhinoplasty. Hairloss is just a bigger problem for me and I don't look at smaller problems the same way and start to appreciate what I have/had. For example, if I get diagnosed with a terminal illness tomorrow, my worrying about my hair goes out the window because something more valuable of mine is threatened (my life).
Rhinoplasty is dumb for men, only makes them look worse. Never seen a good one. It only works for females. Men don't really need a small and narrow nose, it doesn't boost attractiveness. Waste of time and money.
 

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Rhinoplasty is dumb for men, only makes them look worse. Never seen a good one. It only works for females. Men don't really need a small and narrow nose, it doesn't boost attractiveness. Waste of time and money.
I have a some-what bulbous nose and before I had hairloss I thought that if I get a rinoplasty I could improve my looks but now I don't mind it since I know I can get girls with a big nose, getting a nose job will only marginally make me more attractive (or destroy my looks if the surgery goes horribly wrong) compared to keeping my hair, and will save me $10k that I can use for a transplant should I need one down the road.

I'm not sure how much a nose job would increase my looks (if at all) but that's what I was most insecure about before but now I'm 10x more insecure about hairloss and my nose doesn't bother me in the slightest. I learned that I need to be grateful for what I have, even for my current hairline, cause I could've been dealt much shittier cards such as men who go bald at my age (25).
 
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How is ur hairline btw? The one thing I appreciate about hairloss tho is that it makes me accept my unattractive facial features way more because hairloss will wreck my attractiveness way more than my facial features ever could. If I'm able to maintain my hairline I will be happy asf with the way I look but before I experienced hairloss I was not happy with the way my face looked like. It also helps that there's plenty of treatment options for hairloss unlike fixing a big nose that you have little control over aside from getting a rhinoplasty. Hairloss is just a bigger problem for me and I don't look at smaller problems the same way and start to appreciate what I have/had. For example, if I get diagnosed with a terminal illness tomorrow, my worrying about my hair goes out the window because something more valuable of mine is threatened (my life).

My hair is not bad but the problem is finasterride has nuked my sex drive
so i don't even feel bothered getting new women anymore lmfao

bt yea man i miss my ex so much she is dating a meahead now whose ugly as f*** NW3 degenerate bodybuilder but man i miss her i miss her so fucing much literally been 2 years.
 

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I have a some-what bulbous nose and before I had hairloss I thought that if I get a rinoplasty I could improve my looks but now I don't mind it since I know I can get girls with a big nose, getting a nose job will only marginally make me more attractive (or destroy my looks if the surgery goes horribly wrong) compared to keeping my hair, and will save me $10k that I can use for a transplant should I need one down the road.

I'm not sure how much a nose job would increase my looks (if at all) but that's what I was most insecure about before but now I'm 10x more insecure about hairloss and my nose doesn't bother me in the slightest. I learned that I need to be grateful for what I have, even for my current hairline, cause I could've been dealt much shittier cards such as men who go bald at my age (25).

also what cycle do u run? im scared about my liver and my face changing from roids srs
 

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My hair is not bad but the problem is finasterride has nuked my sex drive
so i don't even feel bothered getting new women anymore lmfao

bt yea man i miss my ex so much she is dating a meahead now whose ugly as f*** NW3 degenerate bodybuilder but man i miss her i miss her so fucing much literally been 2 years.
I miss my ex the most when I listen to songs that remind me of her :'(
If she's dating a meathead that should be a sign for you that she is into muscles (most girls are) and that muscles > hair.

I ran mild cycles and saw incredible results. I mostly ran legal stuff like SARMS including RAD140 and YK11. Also ran 1-andro which is a prohormone. I ran my first and only steroid cycle (so far) of tried and true Testosterone-E. So far RAD140 is my personal favorite since I experience zero water retention on it and it makes my body look huge and shredded, not much strength gains on it tho and it's prob not the best for your liver but I don't take excessive doses (only 15mg/day). No need to run Test in crazy doses either. A TRT dose will yield you great results in size and strength. You'd be surprised how a little test will improve your body. Running cycles requires a lot of research but I highly recommend trying it cause it could change your life. Never in a million years did I think I could ever get very hot girls to be attracted to me but steroids made that happen. Honestly, if I do go bald, I'd wear a hair system and girls would probably let that slide since my body and face would make up for it. If you were dating a super hot chick with a gorgeous face and killer body, would you stop dating her if she told you that she was actually bald and wears wigs? Most likely not.
 

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I miss my ex the most when I listen to songs that remind me of her :'(
If she's dating a meathead that should be a sign for you that she is into muscles (most girls are) and that muscles > hair.

I ran mild cycles and saw incredible results. I mostly ran legal stuff like SARMS including RAD140 and YK11. Also ran 1-andro which is a prohormone. I ran my first and only steroid cycle (so far) of tried and true Testosterone-E. So far RAD140 is my personal favorite since I experience zero water retention on it and it makes my body look huge and shredded, not much strength gains on it tho and it's prob not the best for your liver but I don't take excessive doses (only 15mg/day). No need to run Test in crazy doses either. A TRT dose will yield you great results in size and strength. You'd be surprised how a little test will improve your body. Running cycles requires a lot of research but I highly recommend trying it cause it could change your life. Never in a million years did I think I could ever get very hot girls to be attracted to me but steroids made that happen. Honestly, if I do go bald, I'd wear a hair system and girls would probably let that slide since my body and face would make up for it. If you were dating a super hot chick with a gorgeous face and killer body, would you stop dating her if she told you that she was actually bald and wears wigs? Most likely not.
Some girl I was following on IG because I found her hot shaved her head and started wearing obvious wigs and she doesn't look the same, I stopped looking at her pics tbh

Anyway I'll never do steroids but I started lifting about 2 months ago and I'm getting a transplant next week so I'll have a good low hairline secured for the rest of my life. My only issue is the density over the rest of my head but hopefully oral minoxidil will take care of that. If not it'll still be fine I think, I noticed that girls mostly check for the front of your head more than anything else, so if I let the front grow out to a considerable length it'll probably give me that full head effect.
 

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Some girl I was following on IG because I found her hot shaved her head and started wearing obvious wigs and she doesn't look the same, I stopped looking at her pics tbh

Anyway I'll never do steroids but I started lifting about 2 months ago and I'm getting a transplant next week so I'll have a good low hairline secured for the rest of my life. My only issue is the density over the rest of my head but hopefully oral minoxidil will take care of that. If not it'll still be fine I think, I noticed that girls mostly check for the front of your head more than anything else, so if I let the front grow out to a considerable length it'll probably give me that full head effect.
Obvious wigs, for ex a purple wig, is definitely a turn off for me but if it looks like natural hair then I'd probably be okay with it.

That's great that you're working out cause some people on here complain about their hairline making them less attractive but they don't even go to the gym to stay in shape. I also grow out my hair to cover my hairline cause it makes me go from a NW1.5 to a NW0. I like the hairstyle too cause it looks better on me and requires less time to style. I would never take oral minoxidil cause the water retention on it is unmatched (10 lbs+) and it would destroy my looks. Good luck on ur transplant and treatments
 

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Obvious wigs, for ex a purple wig, is definitely a turn off for me but if it looks like natural hair then I'd probably be okay with it.

That's great that you're working out cause some people on here complain about their hairline making them less attractive but they don't even go to the gym to stay in shape. I also grow out my hair to cover my hairline cause it makes me go from a NW1.5 to a NW0. I like the hairstyle too cause it looks better on me and requires less time to style. I would never take oral minoxidil cause the water retention on it is unmatched (10 lbs+) and it would destroy my looks. Good luck on ur transplant and treatments
I'm a really slim guy so theoretically a 10-15 lbs gain would be cool tbh, wouldn't mind it. I already do fine with girls tbh but can't shake off the hairline insecurity, luckily it'll be gone soon.
 

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I miss my ex the most when I listen to songs that remind me of her :'(
If she's dating a meathead that should be a sign for you that she is into muscles (most girls are) and that muscles > hair.

I ran mild cycles and saw incredible results. I mostly ran legal stuff like SARMS including RAD140 and YK11. Also ran 1-andro which is a prohormone. I ran my first and only steroid cycle (so far) of tried and true Testosterone-E. So far RAD140 is my personal favorite since I experience zero water retention on it and it makes my body look huge and shredded, not much strength gains on it tho and it's prob not the best for your liver but I don't take excessive doses (only 15mg/day). No need to run Test in crazy doses either. A TRT dose will yield you great results in size and strength. You'd be surprised how a little test will improve your body. Running cycles requires a lot of research but I highly recommend trying it cause it could change your life. Never in a million years did I think I could ever get very hot girls to be attracted to me but steroids made that happen. Honestly, if I do go bald, I'd wear a hair system and girls would probably let that slide since my body and face would make up for it. If you were dating a super hot chick with a gorgeous face and killer body, would you stop dating her if she told you that she was actually bald and wears wigs? Most likely not.
bro shs aint ever coming back.steroids and all.that sh*t wont mean anyhing
 

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You did not love her, you thought she was hot and that made you feel good about yourself.

It can taka a long long time to get over true love but the reason you are not over her is because of your lack of self-worth.
 

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You did not love her, you thought she was hot and that made you feel good about yourself.

It can taka a long long time to get over true love but the reason you are not over her is because of your lack of self-worth.
Told him that too, he needs therapy tbh
 

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Have you dated any one else after you guys broke up?
I've tried with 4-5 girls but gave up because they aren't like her.
You did not love her, you thought she was hot and that made you feel good about yourself.

It can taka a long long time to get over true love but the reason you are not over her is because of your lack of self-worth.
Well i'm not sure. I think i did love her?
Told him that too, he needs therapy tbh
I'm seeing a psychologist tonight i'm never going to look at her social media again, it makes me so sad knowing shes at some guys huse gtting plowed. that used to be me, shed come ove all Telogen Effluvium time we'd watch netflix have sex then watch netflix again.. i miss my old self.. super horny and energetic.. now i got no libido thanks to finasteride.. and that old me no longer exists. She was so fun to smash and fool around with :(
now some other dude is getting his fun.
 

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I would rather be bald and big than skinny with hair. And I think social skills are largely determined by how you look but there are exceptions such as comedians.
Fat and great hair has more sex appeal than bald with muscles if we are talking about the same face but there might be exceptions which I doubt. Skinny and with hair is ideal actually, not skinnyfat but lean skinny.
And I agree that social skills are basically looks if you aren't autistic or mega shy.
 
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