Why does it still make me sad seeing my ex with someone else even though we broke up 2 years ago and she cheated?

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If you plan on dating someone to eventually have kids with it's wise to date a girl that has some financial success so you can provide a better life for your kids compared to dating someone that's broke.
i literally said in the post "unless you're having kids" lol
 

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I've tried with 4-5 girls but gave up because they aren't like her.

Well i'm not sure. I think i did love her?

I'm seeing a psychologist tonight i'm never going to look at her social media again, it makes me so sad knowing shes at some guys huse gtting plowed. that used to be me, shed come ove all Telogen Effluvium time we'd watch netflix have sex then watch netflix again.. i miss my old self.. super horny and energetic.. now i got no libido thanks to finasteride.. and that old me no longer exists. She was so fun to smash and fool around with :(
now some other dude is getting his fun.
Do nofap and avoid social media and p**rn, and exercise, and your libido will come back soon

Worked for me and I've lost it many times
 
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Fat and great hair has more sex appeal than bald with muscles if we are talking about the same face but there might be exceptions which I doubt. Skinny and with hair is ideal actually, not skinnyfat but lean skinny.
And I agree that social skills are basically looks if you aren't autistic or mega shy.
I am scared of getting fat. No way I would accept that, grosses me out sooo much
 

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Fat and great hair has more sex appeal than bald with muscles if we are talking about the same face but there might be exceptions which I doubt. Skinny and with hair is ideal actually, not skinnyfat but lean skinny.
And I agree that social skills are basically looks if you aren't autistic or mega shy.
You think the Rock would have MORE sex appeal if he was fat with hair instead of bald and jacked to shreds? Let's compare, shall we?

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And he was fit in the first pic just a bit overweight, not truly fat.. being fat is disgusting fr
Fat and water weight are indistinguishable imo and I'm very surprised ur willing to take oral min given your reaction to fat. But I agree that being fat makes you look like sh*t, even worse than hairloss. Hairloss > Fat
 

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Rhinoplasty is dumb for men, only makes them look worse. Never seen a good one. It only works for females. Men don't really need a small and narrow nose, it doesn't boost attractiveness. Waste of time and money.
Its actually quite opposite,I've only seen few bad ones.That's what women or men who want to feminize themselves do.Most guys usually just fix their bone structure(upper part of the nose).My nose was looking like sh*t,It was already bad but I broke it two times training.I've had it done in my country for free with healthcare.I just got an appointment with Doctor,got diagnosed with horribly deviated septum so I asked them to fix my bump along with septum(they usually do it too).
 

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Its actually quite opposite,I've only seen few bad ones.That's what women or men who want to feminize themselves do.Most guys usually just fix their bone structure(upper part of the nose).My nose was looking like sh*t,It was already bad but I broke it two times training.I've had it done in my country for free with healthcare.I just got an appointment with Doctor,got diagnosed with horribly deviated septum so I asked them to fix my bump along with septum(they usually do it too).
Well in your case it's different cuz you had a bump and injuries on top of it. I'm talking about a nose that just happens to be on the manly/wide side, nothing wrong with it imo.

But then you have the male model David Gandy for example who has a Greek looking nose and he said he used to be insecure about it as a teen and only saw a nose when he looked in the mirror until he grew into his looks, it looks good tbh, gives his look more character.

So in that case I say waiting to become an adult and seeing if your face grows to contain the nose in an aesthetic way is the best way to approach it. Also gotta judge by real pics/how you look in the mirror and not close up distorted selfies.
 

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Fat and water weight are indistinguishable imo and I'm very surprised ur willing to take oral min given your reaction to fat. But I agree that being fat makes you look like sh*t, even worse than hairloss. Hairloss > Fat
Well I have no better option to regrow/thicken my hair sadly cuz I had sides from finasteride and I'm scared to use it again. Not everyone gets water retention and there are natural diuretics to counter it like dandelion root. So I think I'll give it a shot. Worst case scenario I'll lay off it and rock my thin head of hair. Fortunately I won't be bald either because of the transplants.
 

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Well I have no better option to regrow/thicken my hair sadly cuz I had sides from finasteride and I'm scared to use it again. Not everyone gets water retention and there are natural diuretics to counter it like dandelion root. So I think I'll give it a shot. Worst case scenario I'll lay off it and rock my thin head of hair. Fortunately I won't be bald either because of the transplants.
Some people don't experience increased water weight on oral min? That's news to me. Some people have threads on here saying they were prescribed HCTZ (diuretic) by their doctors to reduce the water and if that's being prescribed than the water must be pretty bad. Nothing beats its regrowth power tho
 

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Some people don't experience increased water weight on oral min? That's news to me. Some people have threads on here saying they were prescribed HCTZ (diuretic) by their doctors to reduce the water and if that's being prescribed than the water must be pretty bad. Nothing beats its regrowth power tho
Yeah bro some ppl take it and have no problems. Even less problems than topical. But if I experience it I'll try dandelion root, ppl say that it makes the bloat go away in a few days without side effects. It will just mean one more pill to depend on though.
 

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You think the Rock would have MORE sex appeal if he was fat with hair instead of bald and jacked to shreds? Let's compare, shall we?

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He is not even remotely fat in the first pic.
He looks way better in the first pic because he is like 20 years younger, not a fair comparison.
I don't mean that fat looks good in any way unless you have an insane face it just looks less worse compared to baldness.
 

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He is not even remotely fat in the first pic.
He looks way better in the first pic because he is like 20 years younger, not a fair comparison.
I don't mean that fat looks good in any way unless you have an insane face it just looks less worse compared to baldness.
He looks better bald tbh, just wasn't the most flattering pic. I saw comments from women online and the popular notion is that bald Dwayne Johnson is sexier.

They will take this

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Over this


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Also the obsession with youth is a bit weird, most men peak in attractiveness in their early 30's imo. Women dig the grown man/mature look. Makes them feel protected.
 

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Also the obsession with youth is a bit weird, most men peak in attractiveness in their early 30's imo. Women dig the grown man/mature look. Makes them feel protected.

this only works if you'r tall and can be seen as a grown alpha male

i'm short like bieber look how sh*t he looks get what i mean i can't even look cute anymore
i miss my ex i mis whhen i was with her and my hair was great i looked good and was horny i feel so sad .that chapter is over.
 

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this only works if you'r tall and can be seen as a grown alpha male

i'm short like bieber look how sh*t he looks get what i mean i can't even look cute anymore
i miss my ex i mis whhen i was with her and my hair was great i looked good and was horny i feel so sad .that chapter is over.
Bieber's problem isn't his height, his face is just on the feminine side, it looks so feminine that you can't even imagine how a stubble would look on him.
 

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Also the obsession with youth is a bit weird, most men peak in attractiveness in their early 30's imo. Women dig the grown man/mature look. Makes them feel protected.
Men are indeed at their most attractive in their thirties. Justin Bieber has never been my thing, I think his feminine pretty boy looks will mostly appeal to very young teenage girls. Just like boy bands are intended for young girls and not for women. Most women prefer men to boys. It’s nothing to do with muscles or being an alpha male, but rather with a more mature, experienced look.
(Discussing Justin Bieber on a hair loss forum - another boring day at the home office I guess)
 

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Men are indeed at their most attractive in their thirties. Justin Bieber has never been my thing, I think his feminine pretty boy looks will mostly appeal to very young teenage girls. Just like boy bands are intended for young girls and not for women. Most women prefer men to boys. It’s nothing to do with muscles or being an alpha male, but rather with a more mature, experienced look.
(Discussing Justin Bieber on a hair loss forum - another boring day at the home office I guess)
Lmfaoo. Yeah, makes a lot of sense. And there are only a few things a man can do to look more masculine, but a lot of it is also just genetics and natural aging. Botox makes men look worse because we are supposed to have a rugged element.

After a certain age being with really young girls might be seen as creepy and society and the law enforcements might not perceive it well btw.
 
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