"why I'll Never Date A Feminist", By Dave Hon

[Medina]

I totally disagree and think it's unfair to attack the writer of the article, it's guys like that who have to deal with feminists the most.

Feminists don't come from the hood. They come from good nerdy educated backgrounds with wonderful parents. They are almost NEVER the victim of anything. Women who were abused for example don't become feminists, quite the opposite actually, many become pornstars.

Good looking men will avoid man-hating SJW's like the plague. Only beta-male nerds interact with them.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

This forum wouldn't exist without that undying staple of humanity: aesthetic = good ; ugly = bad

Also his opinions on women and dating are objectively highly speculative: with that kind of looks, what kind of view could you have of the dating world and how women behave with men?

There's lots of routes ugly guys can go down:

-Black pilled and bitter
-Blue pilled and blindly optimistic
-Ghost mode
-Cling to the first woman who likes them and then marry them
-Gymcelling

 

[blackg]

There's lots of routes ugly guys can go down:

-Black pilled and bitter
-Blue pilled and blindly optimistic
-Ghost mode
-Cling to the first woman who likes them and then marry them
-Gymcelling

Or Fredcel.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

This forum wouldn't exist without that undying staple of humanity: aesthetic = good ; ugly = bad

Also his opinions on women and dating are objectively highly speculative: with that kind of looks, what kind of view could you have of the dating world and how women behave with men?

He has alot of sources on his claims. He could be dating feminist whales, I think we all know there's alot of those. He could also talk to his friends or just go out and look for himself.

If he was goodlooking he wouldn't have those thoughts in the first place, he would be happy with his girlfriends. Girls are in general nicer to hot men, he would not have gone through the same experiences if he was better looking.

It's just wrong to dismiss everything he said just becaise he's one ugly bastard.

 

[hairblues]

He has alot of sources on his claims. He could be dating feminist whales, I think we all know there's alot of those. He could also talk to his friends or just go out and look for himself.

If he was goodlooking he wouldn't have those thoughts in the first place, he would be happy with his girlfriends. Girls are in general nicer to hot men, he would not have gone through the same experiences if he was better looking.

It's just wrong to dismiss everything he said just becaise he's one ugly bastard.

Yeah but if it as a fat ugly female feminist wouldnt you assume she is not having relationships outside of getting used for sex?

BUT for both of them its 'opinion' pieces..they are giving opinions based on facts and studies they each pull...they are not really journalists who have to have an unbiased opinion.

the feminists opinion and this guys opinion are both biased based on their life experiences. I think that is normal in most opinion type journalism.

 

[blackg]

When you guys read this article, do you appreciate the valid points made, or do you see the rantings of a lunatic?

I appreciate the valid points, some very dated though.

 

[blackg]

Yeah but if it as a fat ugly female feminist wouldnt you assume she is not having relationships outside of getting used for sex?

BUT for both of them its 'opinion' pieces..they are giving opinions based on facts and studies they each pull...they are not really journalists who have to have an unbiased opinion.

the feminists opinion and this guys opinion are both biased based on their life experiences. I think that is normal in most opinion type journalism.

Smart post.

 

[RegenWaiting]

He's too ugly to write pieces about dating. Look at him: fat, balding, beady eyed, no facial hair, poor clothes choice. I think the number of women who would eww him come close to 95-99%. He's not 'going to never date a feminist' because of politics; he's not going to date period.

So he's coping by spouting politics which, even if more or less accurate, are nothing else but a cope. He's below the fox and grapes level of coping.

He's the fat, crooked teeth version of the "women who won't date bald men are superficial so I won't date them first huh!! take that superficial women" and then goes to the bathroom, looks at his barren head and cries.

If this piece was written by a normal or good looking guy, that would've been a valuable piece with a great significance.
What this guy writes about dating, is either a dream or a cope.

Personally, I always value an argument by it's content and not by who said it. I even try to transcend and sometimes ignore the way they say it. It's the content that matters to me and which has the true value to it. Like they say, and I stick to it; you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover...

 

[Dante92]

He has alot of sources on his claims. He could be dating feminist whales, I think we all know there's alot of those. He could also talk to his friends or just go out and look for himself.

If he was goodlooking he wouldn't have those thoughts in the first place, he would be happy with his girlfriends. Girls are in general nicer to hot men, he would not have gone through the same experiences if he was better looking.

It's just wrong to dismiss everything he said just becaise he's one ugly bastard.

This forum wouldn't exist without that undying staple of humanity: aesthetic = good ; ugly = bad

Also his opinions on women and dating are objectively highly speculative: with that kind of looks, what kind of view could you have of the dating world and how women behave with men?

Welcome to my life. I've never been taken seriously nor respected. Why should I be loved, respected or treated like a human being? How preposterous! I'm ugly, it's obviously my fault!

 

[yetti]

Welcome to my life. I've never been taken seriously nor respected. Why should I be loved, respected or treated like a human being? How preposterous! I'm ugly, it's obviously my fault!

Dante is it possible that youre better looking than you think you are? ... and I know some in this forum would (and have) argue against this, but I've found that women can be attracted to a very wide range of male looks. A guy who I or most women might find unattractive, if he has a certain type of charm or charisma (and you definitely have some of both) another woman might be completely nuts about him...

 

[yetti]

Just read some of the experiences I talked about here and you'll get a good picture of how ugly I really am.

I have read them... still I ask.

 

[Dench57]

Maybe this is just an American issue because in the UK women are pretty normal

Yeah I always think this. I can't relate to a lot of the stuff about feminazis and "hypergamous b****s" because they don't really seem to exist here. They seem to exist mainly on the internet.

 

[Dante92]

I have read them... still I ask.

No, it's not. Otherwise I wouldn't get rejected, mocked and mistreated this bad.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

You don't deserve it. You have a great personnality, you deserve admiration.

 

[yetti]

No, it's not. Otherwise I wouldn't get rejected, mocked and mistreated this bad.

I think some female out there, someone nice, would be into to you... no matter what you look like.

 

[Dante92]

Lol, that's cute and scary at the same time.

No, that's just plain f*****g scary.

I think some female out there, someone nice, would be into to you... no matter what you look like.

Bullshit cope.

 

[yetti]

I kind of desagree. Even if you are nice, look matters... But some people have such beautiful personnality that it compensate.

I surely didnt say looks dont matter. But there are a lot of people in the world. A whole lot.

 

[yetti]

Bullshit cope.

And I say that repeating "bullshit cope" like a mantra is a "bullshit copout". You cannot say that no woman on the earth could possibly ever be into you. There are blind, maimed, people with every sort of malady and hardship out there, with partners. I'm not saying it's easy... but not possible?

 

[Dante92]

And I say that repeating "bullshit cope" like a mantra is a "bullshit copout". You cannot say that no woman on the earth could possibly ever be into you. There are blind, maimed, people with every sort of malady and hardship out there, with partners. I'm not saying it's easy... but not possible?

I don't care about "ifs" and improbable events, I care about facts and coming to terms with reality and what I can or can't have. Who the f*** cares if an almost nonexistent percentage of women "might" give me a chance. Keep living of hopes and dreams if that makes you happy, the real world is something entirely different, and it sucks.

 

[JeanLucBB]

And I say that repeating "bullshit cope" like a mantra is a "bullshit copout". You cannot say that no woman on the earth could possibly ever be into you. There are blind, maimed, people with every sort of malady and hardship out there, with partners. I'm not saying it's easy... but not possible?

Agree. There are 8-9s who will f*** a guy who is a 3 or a 4 if they are particularly into them. Even if they wouldn't date them, many women will have sex with them simply because they enjoy the control aspect and power imbalance over them.

The only fundamental roadblocks for ugly guys to get a root are post-norwood 3 in 20s, obesity, broke after 30 or genuine disfigurements. Most of these can be overcome by making more money, getting transplants and taking your body, looks and dress sense more seriously.

I've been using Okcupid again a bit more lately and the amount of women substantially above my level of looks willing to have sex with me honestly blows my mind. Even when I send something as retarded as "we should snuggle " I am getting positive responses. In a month or so when my transplant starts to grow and I can cover my temples I will definitely go on a f*** spree.