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that's the thing bruh, you shouldn't take a extra effort to get girls, if you do then you WILL get hurt eventually.Just wanted to update - got two matches from the speed dating. There were 18 girls there, and at the end you have to select 5 you want to meet, so it's easy to get a "miss" if you don't write down the girl that wrote you down (hard to tell, everyone's polite).
But either way I got two matches and I'm guessing more "liked" me since the people running it said I did "well" and I'm now on their list to call for free tickets if they have last minute openings. Pretty cool!
Again, I can't say enough about this for ugly but extroverted fun and ideally successful guys. 5 minutes isn't long enough to overcome all looks prejudice. But it obviously can beat back some of it. Which is pretty nice.
Gives you better odds than a bar/club where girls won't let you get past the first sentence or online where they just glance at your pic and put you on ignore.
I'm a mental and physical mess right now. I'm not sure if I want to date anyone right now. But I might give one a call. She was nice and reasonably attractive. Dating seems like such a foreign concept now. Last date I had was 2 years ago and before that maybe 10 years.
Alien territory.
I should at least see if I can her to go out for dinner and treat it like a friendly outing. Low pressure. I'll feel like a coward/a**h** if I don't. It's not like I get opportunities thrown at me every day. I'll send her an email maybe tomorrow or day after. I don't have the energy for it now.
That boosted my mood a bit. I have zero prospects in any other arena of dating, but I may have just found my niche that lets me get some success in a very low time commitment fashion. The whole thing was only 2 hours. If I did 2 hours of Tinder or POF, or at a bar or club, I'd have absolutely zero for it.
If they let me keep going I could do this once every few weeks and have a not bad social life.
This takes off an enormous amount of stress for me in my life. At least now I know there's a way I can get girls when I have more energy for it. Kind of blows my mind. I have to tell my sister thanks for bringing me. This gives me more hope for the future.
i'm not busting your bubble man, i'm just afraid of what you might do if this fails, you seem like the kind of dude who kill himself over women.
take it easy man. women are overrated, and pussy smells like dead fish, and their periods is the most disgusting thing i've ever smelled in my life.