On personality and attracting women, here is Jeff Bezos and his beautiful wife:
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He's now the world's richest man, but they married in 1993, before Amazon, a year before Amazon was founded.
So, one can get a great woman with a great personality, and compensate for baldness and shortness ... but it takes a tremendously great personality. No, he didn't have Amazon then, but he was a VP at DE Shaw and he had the potential to build an Amazon, something people can gauge subconsciously.
A great personality, a great intelligence, can attract women, but it's not very efficient based on what I see.