I'm not quite sure how you reached this conclusion (or any other conclusions regarding DHT being so important), but I have 3 reasons why you are wrong.
First, this:
http://jama.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=1105045
"Changes in fat-free mass in response to graded testosterone doses did not differ in men in whom DHT was suppressed by dutasteride from those treated with placebo, indicating that
conversion of testosterone to DHT is not essential for mediating its anabolic effects on muscle."
Men had their DHT essentially blasted away with dutasteride for 5 months and were given testosterone in different amounts and had their muscle growth measured against men on placebo (instead of dutasteride). There was NO difference in muscle growth between men with normal DHT levels versus men with 5% as much DHT. It really doesn't get more clear than that. To boot, there were no difference between the groups in sexual side effects either, further supporting the fact that DHT has nothing to do with that either.
Second, are you familiar with pseudohermaphroditism? Men with this condition are born with a 5AR deficiency, and they live their entire lives with little to no DHT. Other than the obvious under developed seual organs, they live full, normal lives with virtually no other telltale medical problems. Certainly nothing involving muscles or brain development In fact, these men aren't even diagnosed with the condition until they hit puberty because it causes no other symptoms. You argue how important DHT is to the brain, yet the time where the brain is developing most rapidly in a human's life is during childhood, where their DHT levels are at almost nothing! You mean to suggest DHT suddenly becomes crucial for the human brain only after puberty?
Third and final reason is women. Women live life with less than a tenth as much DHT as men. Again, you think DHT is important to so many tissues, why do women not fall apart from the lack of it? Yes, they do have smaller muscles then men, but the reason for this is testosterone. When women juice with T, we all know how muscular they can get.