That's freaky. I tried to look into the phenomenon. I could find one published article discussing the possibility of Botox triggering hairline recession and here's what they said:
The aim of this paper is to report a new type of alopecia, which we have seen in women undergoing periodic injections of botulinum toxin type A for forehead wrinkles, and to differentiate it from other types of hair loss. Dermatologists should be aware of the possible occurrence of frontal alopecia after repeated injections of botulinum toxin type A for forehead wrinkles.
Alopecia is never mentioned as a possible side effect of BTXA injections, and its occurrence is difficult to explain. Possible explanations include changes in the levels of molecules that may be involved in regulating the hair cycle, i.e. substance P and calcitonin gene-related peptide and other signaling molecules and receptors [11], and/or decreased neurological stimulation of hair follicle function due to blockage of the function of autosomic fibers [12].
Collection of more cases and histopathological/immunohistochemical studies will be necessary to understand the real prevalence and etiopathogenesis of this entity.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5096242/
My theory in the context of everything in this thread is that this may be due to either (1) A direct Botox toxicity to the hair follicles (botox is a poison after all), or more likely (2) A result of greater mechanical traction applied to the frontal hairline when botox is applied selectively to the front of the forehead but nowhere else.
It is known that isolated forehead wrinkle treatments can cause shifts in the muscle activity of the face and skull as described
here. For our interests, if you paralyze the frontalis (forehead) muscle, but the other galeal muscles are still pulling on it to a similar extent, the frontal aspect will "stretch" more from the fact that the forehead can no longer resist the other muscles. This would cause greater mechanical shear/stress to the hair follicles at the forehead where the muscle has been paralyzed and can no longer maintain positional stability.
All the cases they report were people who had forehead wrinkle treatments which would fit with this.
If this is the case, then patients who have proper migraine Botox treatments should have less problem with this, as migraine treatments provide a more balanced relaxation similar to what's desirable for hair, like this migraine protocol:
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If there is truly significant hair loss risk from this type of migraine Botox protocol, it must be very rare. For example, here's what one popular and highly rated surgeon said about migraine for Botox and hair:
Botox injections are likely not linked to hair loss. Our office performs Botox for migraines and we have not seen any similar reports by patients who have undergone treatment.
https://www.realself.com/question/hair-loss4
I asked my mom who gets Botox for migraines and she says her neurologist has never mentioned it as a potential issue either. So obviously I couldn't say for sure but I think hair loss from a balanced Botox would be likely safe for hair. Unbalanced Botox for wrinkles would likely be riskier for the frontal hairline from a mechanical standpoint, and the mechanical stress theory of hair loss described in this thread could explain frontal loss in isolated forehead Botox injections.
If on the other hand the Botox is directly toxic to the hair, then no Botox anywhere would be safe. But I doubt this as millions of people have had Botox by now and if it was rampantly toxic to hair, someone would have figured it out by now.
I still think this would be a useful therapy for you to consider, and if I was you, I would feel comfortable trying it based on everything I've read. You do have risk factors for increased mechanical hair stress (tendency toward high muscularity, low body fat). While anti-androgens can seem to disrupt this cascade for most men, for some men and women, perhaps the mechanical stress may be more directly damaging to the follicles irrespective of androgenic signalling. Perhaps in those cases where anti-androgens don't disrupt the process significantly enough, relaxing the underlying stress directly may be the only effective approach.