Women Critiquing The "nice Guy" Of Online Dating

[blackg]

My girlfriend often tells me that I was not a nice guy when she met me, but that now (that she tamed me a little) I was nicer.

And she can be quite a handful herself. And yet I picked her out of 4 girls while I knew that she'd be the least submissive of them all.

Looking back on our relationship so far, it's now clear to me that no one (male or female) wants a submissive partner deep down.

Of course you'll hate it when you have a disagreement or when you have to negotiate with your partner, and it can go on for a long time, but that feeling when you finally reach a solution or a compromise is invaluable.

Nice guys constantly tell girls that they're no threat "I'll be anything you want me to be! I will never upset you!" No one respects that kind of person, again, male or female.

If the girl finds you attractive, she might give you a pass even though you're (too) nice, but she'll quickly get bored of you. Because you offer her no challenge, you're predictable and you have no standards.

And the girl finds you unattractive, you could either be the nicest guy in the world or the toughest bad boy, she won't give a sh*t either way, even simply talking to you will be a nuisance to her.

Which is what I often don't understand with those girls' rants about online dating. If it's on Tinder and the guys truly annoys you, just use that f*****g unmatch button and poof, the guy disappears forever. It seems they also want to manufacture drama because they're bored.

Then they can proceed with writing a blog post basically saying "look, I'm a victim! Now give me attention and feel sorry for me please!" That trend just won't die.

I agree with all you said apart from the last two paragraphs.

 

[Rudiger]

Surprised how nobody pointed out how this one is f*****g gold

 

[JeanLucBB]

I agree with all you said apart from the last two paragraphs.

What is wrong with the last two? Accurate and funny as f***. A chick friend told me she will match guys when she already knows she wouldn't meet up with them and isn't interested. They are such attention seeking drama queens that they even want guys they don't even like to kiss their feet and provide them material to complain about.

 

[blackg]

What is wrong with the last two? Accurate and funny as f***. A chick friend told me she will match guys when she already knows she wouldn't meet up with them and isn't interested. They are such attention seeking drama queens that they even want guys they don't even like to kiss their feet and provide them material to complain about.

Oh yes they are ALL attention seeking drama queens.
I can't engage in this without feeling embarrassed.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Oh yes they are ALL attention seeking drama queens.
I can't engage in this without feeling embarrassed.

What is wrong with generalisations? Of course I don't think this is the case with EVERY single woman on the planet but that hardly matters, it's just something that is extremely common.

Nothing I have said is a criticism of women as a whole or their choices or actions either, I have no problem with slootism or attention seeking women looking to leech off others and create drama, it's just a common personal experience with them and what I see elsewhere.

 

[Stanx22]

Also lol zircon, what i was referring to earlier, another f*****g riceburner

Wtf is the explanation for this!? Lol

Just have hair!? Looks theory destroyed? Prostitution!? Lmao

I look better than this weird f****r when i had hair, id even go so far as maybe saying i still look better just f*****g lol

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Just lol is it all about having hair!?

Shes a legit 7-8 what the actual f***

She doesn't look happy.

 

[blackg]

What is wrong with generalisations? Of course I don't think this is the case with EVERY single woman on the planet but that hardly matters, it's just something that is extremely common.

Nothing I have said is a criticism of women as a whole or their choices or actions either, I have no problem with slootism or attention seeking women looking to leech off others and create drama, it's just a common personal experience with them and what I see elsewhere.

Again, I think you seem to attract a certain type of character, regardless of gender.

 

[blackg]

That’s a 7-8 for you? lol

It really is just about them looking young, isn’t it.

I think she is a f*****g hottie, Zircon.
I'd give her a solid 9.5.
Does she look that young?
I can't tell exactly as I'm only using my phone and the beers have kicked in.

 

[JeanLucBB]

That’s a 7-8 for you? lol

It really is just about them looking young, isn’t it.

She looks better in some pics than others (like most people). Definitely a 7.

 

[blackg]

She looks better in some pics than others (like most people). Definitely a 7.

Definitely a 9.5 for me, mate.

 

[blackg]

She doesn't look happy.

She looks sexy, my Egyptian friend!

 

[blackg]

That girl looks like the funky weird kind that white chads would skip over in their tinder decks. Good body tho.

Also, the azn guy seems to be balding..
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Well I wouldn't skip her ***, Zircon. She'd be my number one potential hook-up.
You have terrible taste and so do your fellow "chads."

 

[blackg]

Exo, can you follow this guys insta and document the inevitable downfall of his relationship when he gets into the high norwoods? Would be an impact classic.

Stop being a bitter and twisted dirtbag.

 

[blackg]

She has Ethno Appeal.

Ethno? Eastern European?

 

[Stanx22]

She looks sexy, my Egyptian friend!

Agree.

 

[Rudiger]

That girls at least a 7 but personally an 8, pictures from a swimming pool, no make up, no blemishes, great skin and nice facial shape (bit of the crazy eyes though). Body is potentially top tier.

Sexy as f*** would elbow aside vitiligo beta balding azn boyfriend at the bar/10

 

[blackg]

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She’s like those Asian women that western guys find super attractive but men of their own ethnicity don’t like at all.

Ahhhhh... Okay.

 

[blackg]

That girls at least a 7 but personally an 8, pictures from a swimming pool, no make up, no blemishes, great skin and nice facial shape (bit of the crazy eyes though). Body is potentially top tier.

Sexy as f*** would elbow aside vitiligo beta balding azn boyfriend at the bar/10

Those "crazy eyes" are what make her the new woman of my dreams.
Plus, that *** in the black one piece swimsuit needs a weekend of blackg corruption.

I approve!

 

[blackg]

I can’t stand her horse face and she’s too pale for me. I hate to humblebrag but I’ve passed up opportunities to meet girls not very dissimilar from this. Not what I have in mind when I think 7-8.

She has way more appeal, to me, then a boring copy and paste, brown/ orange, peroxided "10".

 

[blackg]

There are real generational differences and differences between countries/cultures/socioeconomic statuses. I think it makes sense for him to talk more specifically about French girls in their twenties or something like that.

Ummm... he's Australian.