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I agree with a lot of what you are saying.
But if all young women are now sl*ts--as most of you seem to believe strongly--then men do not have much choice and would adapt and 'settle' as women settled in past to go against their own nature.
Don't confuse me observing these things and not judging them as condoning either.
Personally I think it is gross when people are hyper sexual with multiple partners in these excessive numbers, I always thought it was gross by my own standards ...But I also grew up in the AIDS generation when we still thought you can get it from kissing for a while when I was in middle school.
SO this perhaps had an impact on my 'ick' factor with people doing these high numbers in sex partners.
To be clear--when you guys say on average women in 20s are f*****g 50 men or more-I believe you do believe this for multiple reasons but its hard for me to wrap my head around.
And I will say it again...I can not recall ANY of my lovers or boyfriends asking me how many loves I had had in past...I do not recall asking any of them either...I am seeing someone now we never discuss #'s. We have here there touched on past relationships and experiences--but #? No. Its never a topic I have had.
I agree that it's not really something people discuss. But I do agree with Fred that you can get an inkling that some people are "altered" by their sexual habits in a negative way. How do such people remain faithful? Not saying they can't, but I definitely would refer to the bar chart above regarding the link between number of sexual partners and success of a marriage. Surely you would agree it's important to know if the person you're with has slept with 0, 10 or 100 people. It is important to me. That number makes a huge difference to their future behaviour.