Would You Reject Someone Just Because Of Your Hair

[hairblues]

Who would have thought 100 years ago that too much food would be as bad as not enough food?

Its not just too much food its that a lot of people don't like to do physical fitness on top of it and that their is a movement of 'big is beautiful' to make it more esthetically acceptable--and granted some a little bigger looks sexy but not many have the height or the shape to carry that off--and its also (i think) the medications.

I think all the anti depressants and anti anxiety medications among other stuff they give to young kids is not great..
Almost everyone i know who went on anti depressants gained weight so I'm sure its similar in kids.
Paxil i think was the big one that made people gain weight.

 

[cocohot]

Im just curious

Why if you are in mid 20s--did you get so upset over what i am saying to a man who is close to 50 about nightclubs and 22 year olds? That i said about men in late 30s to late 40s that nightclubs not the place to pick up a 20 year old?

Because going bald has made me deathly afraid of aging. It seems like getting older is going to be very like the traumatic experience of watching my hair disappear where it just keeps getting worse and worse until death.

When I see fat middle aged people with no social or sex lives worth talking about I imagine that will be me in 20 years and I find it depressing. It makes me question the point of everything I do.

 

[hairblues]

Because going bald has made me deathly afraid of aging. It seems like getting older is going to be very like the traumatic experience of watching my hair disappear where it just keeps getting worse and worse until death.

When I see fat middle aged people with no social or sex lives worth talking about I imagine that will be me in 20 years and I find it depressing. It makes me question the point of everything I do.

Im very sorry you are hurting over your hair.

I don't really see the connection though from what i said about much older men picking up young women in night clubs. (15 to 30 year difference)

If you are talking about yourself that far in the future we are theoretically talking about children or babies not even out of diapers yet.

 

[rafiles]

OK the summary of this discussion: Foursome with two guys, one of them dressed as woman and a girl screaming

Oh boy!

Oh man!

and the other girl desperately wanting a man in

late 40s

 

[cocohot]

Im very sorry you are hurting over your hair.

I don't really see the connection though from what i said about much older men picking up young women in night clubs. (15 to 30 year difference)

If you are talking about yourself that far in the future we are theoretically talking about children or babies not even out of diapers yet.

Didn't you say you went out with a guy 10 years older when you were 18? When he was 18 and having sex with women his own age you were playing with dolls (probably).

The knowledge that you aren't a spent force sexually will always be important for the ego and for self esteem and image, whether you would want to act on it or not.

 

[hairblues]

Didn't you say you went out with a guy 10 years older when you were 18? When he was 18 and having sex with women his own age you were playing with dolls (probably).

The knowledge that you aren't a spent force sexually will always be important for the ego and for self esteem and image, whether you would want to act on it or not.

Again your being a dick

i was with him for years.
I went to college
he cheated on me when i was in college.
so f*** you
Im done
Good luck in your life journey a**h**.

 

[cocohot]

Again your being a dick

i was with him for years.
I went to college
he cheated on me when i was in college.
so f*** you
Im done
Good luck in your life journey a**h**.

I don't care. And if you didn't like me saying that to you, why did you say it to me? Made it sound like I was creepy

Im very sorry you are hurting over your hair.

I don't really see the connection though from what i said about much older men picking up young women in night clubs. (15 to 30 year difference)

If you are talking about yourself that far in the future we are theoretically talking about children or babies not even out of diapers yet.

Made me sound like a sinister creep. I didn't like it and it came off as hypocritical given your relationship with an older man which is why I brought that up.

 

[hairblues]

I don't care. And if you didn't like me saying that to you, why did you say it to me? Made it sound like I was creepy



Made me sound like a sinister creep. I didn't like it and it came off as hypocritical given your relationship with an older man which is why I brought that up.

no the point was to say focus on the present instead of 20 years from now.

 

[hairblues]

Like i said passive aggressive
your an a**h** who takes cheap shots to insult people because your so f*****g miserable.

 

[cocohot]

no the point was to say focus on the present instead of 20 years from now.

Yeah, need to just switch my brain off and stop worrying. Stay busy. I lashed out there so I'm sorry. Again.

 

[hairblues]

Yeah, need to just switch my brain off and stop worrying. Stay busy. I lashed out there so I'm sorry. Again.

honestly i don't give a f***.

stop tagging me and communicating with me thats how you can show you are sorry.

 

[cocohot]

Like i said passive aggressive
your an a**h** who takes cheap shots to insult people because your so f*****g miserable.

No I'm aggressive-aggressive, I say what I feel and think. No intent to insult the first time, definite intent to insult the second time because your made me sound creepy. I've got to stop forgiving you and giving you the benefit of the doubt. I'll post anything I like.

Miserable? If you don't like it then just do what my signature says. It's right there.

 

[hairblues]

No I'm aggressive-aggressive, I say what I feel and think. No intent to insult the first time, definite intent to insult the second time because your made me sound creepy. I've got to stop forgiving you and giving you the benefit of the doubt. I'll post anything I like.

Miserable? If you don't like it then just do what my signature says.

No one made yu sound creepy
The point was you are worried about hair loss yet thinking 20 years into the future about getting with younger women?
Focus on younger women now.
Forgiving me?
Uhm pretty sure i did not ever apologize to you i offered you a 'sorry' for you hair situation because no one deserves that.
But you are really a shitty human being every time i give you benefit of doubt and share something about myself you try to dig at me with it.
And you make assumptions every time

You are an a**h**. Period.
You are letting your hair loss and your bitterness make you into a hostile a**h**.

 

[cocohot]

No one made yu sound creepy
The point was you are worried about hair loss yet thinking 20 years into the future about getting with younger women?
Focus on younger women now.
Forgiving me?
Uhm pretty sure i did not ever apologize to you i offered you a 'sorry' for you hair situation because no one deserves that.
But you are really a shitty human being every time i give you benefit of doubt and share something about myself you try to dig at me with it.
And you make assumptions every time

You are an a**h**. Period.
You are letting your hair loss and your bitterness make you into a hostile a**h**.

Projection. Why wouldn't I worry about the future, it's going to happen.

 

[hairblues]

Projection.

No
You but your nose into a conversation with me and another poster who is my age.
You made a blatantly insulting comment about my age and posed it as a question in regards to something i said to him that had nothing to do with you.
You then came back and said you were just genuinely curious and had not bad intent.
then i said 'bullshit' about no bad intent
we been going back and forth for pages over your intent.
then you tell me you are in your mid 20s--so of course to me this is 'odd' that you are so upset about a comment made about men in their late 30s to 50s and women who are 20s...why on Earth would a guy in his mid 20s give a sh*t.
You said you are worried about aging and your hair
Im said why worry about 20 years in future we are nt even talking about grown ups in this present day--to say to you you are talking aobu theoretical women not existing young women today.

Basically this all boils down to again you showed you are full of sh*t.
You did not pose your original insulting question out of genuine curiosity--you are either full of sh*t or not right in the mind that at 25 years old you are worried about how women in their 20s are going to respond to you in 15 years from now???

Uhm okay.

 

[blackg]

You're wasting your time, arguing with some users. Don't even bother.

Good advice.

 

[cocohot]

No
You but your nose into a conversation with me and another poster who is my age.
You made a blatantly insulting comment about my age and posed it as a question in regards to something i said to him that had nothing to do with you.
You then came back and said you were just genuinely curious and had not bad intent.
then i said 'bullshit' about no bad intent
we been going back and forth for pages over your intent.
then you tell me you are in your mid 20s--so of course to me this is 'odd' that you are so upset about a comment made about men in their late 30s to 50s and women who are 20s...why on Earth would a guy in his mid 20s give a sh*t.
You said you are worried about aging and your hair
Im said why worry about 20 years in future we are nt even talking about grown ups in this present day--to say to you you are talking aobu theoretical women not existing young women today.

Basically this all boils down to again you showed you are full of sh*t.
You did not pose your original insulting question out of genuine curiosity--you are either full of sh*t or not right in the mind that at 25 years old you are worried about how women in their 20s are going to respond to you in 15 years from now???

Uhm okay.

ok, I said something you found offensive, you said this which I found incredibly offensive:

Im very sorry you are hurting over your hair.

I don't really see the connection though from what i said about much older men picking up young women in night clubs. (15 to 30 year difference)

If you are talking about yourself that far in the future we are theoretically talking about children or babies not even out of diapers yet.

So we're even on that score.

I'm incredibly worried about the future because it's going to happen. Same reason people take out pensions, health insurance and save money, worrying about the future. Totally normal and rational to worry about the future.

I've told you why. I didn't say I was in my mid twenties I said mid to late twenties, age range nothing specific for obvious reasons.

Anyway this argument needs to end as we're annoying everyone else so I'll stop, you can carry on.

 

[hairblues]

ok, I said something you found offensive, you said this which I found incredibly offensive:


So we're even on that score.

I'm incredibly worried about the future because it's going to happen. Same reason people take out pensions, health insurance and save money, worrying about the future. Totally normal and rational to worry about the future.

I've told you why. I didn't say I was in my mid twenties I said mid to late twenties, age range nothing specific for obvious reasons.

Anyway this argument needs to end as we're annoying everyone else so I'll stop, you can carry on.

I would actually LOVE it if you would not comment on any of my future posts here going forward.

3 different occasions you called me out when i was not addressing you but to other people

3 times its been a fight

2 times i let it go

How about you just don't tag me or quote me etc going further on any other posts?

 

[cocohot]

I would actually LOVE it if you would not comment on any of my future posts here going forward.

3 different occasions you called me out when i was not addressing you but to other people

3 times its been a fight

2 times i let it go

How about you just don't tag me or quote me etc going further on any other posts?

You responded to me here, just let it go.

 

[hairblues]

You responded to me here, just let it go.

I mean going forward lets just ignore one another.

On any future postings.