A Lesson To All Hair Loss Sufferers

[doubleindemnity]

So you met 30 women and it has gone wrong every time? The ONLY reason why that could be is your hair loss right? Besides your hair loss you have no other flaws that could ruin your success? Flaws that you could actually work on?

I call you a cry baby because:

- you act like a victim of our big bad meanie society.
- you feel sorry for yourself
- you say that women immediately shut you out as a romantic partner (a lie) and claim that that is reality.
- bald men do not get children? I am glad to hear! That means I cannot inherit baldness from anyone! Oh wait...

You say your situation is just reality and a result of our society, but it is your own choice. Sure being bald makes it harder, but people have done more difficult things than getting a great partner despite having a balding head. You think they would have achieved that with your mindset?

People always prefer 'I am good, the world is just fucked up' over 'the world is good, maybe I am just fucked up' Being fucked up is actually something you can work on but yeah working on yourself is uncomfortable and can be unpleasant. Much easier to just withdraw and wallow.

'The inferior man blames others, the superior man blames himself'

This is more self righteous poppycock, in my opinion. What flaws could I work on? Please give me examples. I love working on myself. Please don't be like TC and say "get taller".

Women are really excited to meet me, but lose enthusiasm within a few minutes of saying hello.

-I'm not a victim. It's my own fault that I lost my hair and I have to deal with it. Society is the way that it is and will stay that way. I didn't try dating when I was younger and still had hair/combover and that's all my fault. Moreover, society blames bald people for their own baldness.
-I don't feel sorry for myself. It's my own fault. I do partly blame people like TC who gave incorrect and downright dangerous information online. But, once again, it was my fault for reading it and heeding it.
-That has happened several times. How can you be more of an expert on my experiences than myself?
-Society is different nowadays to the way that it was years ago. How can you even make that fourth point without taking this into account?

 

[Roberto_72]

I’ve met/ banged/ had relationships with guys on every level of the “looks” scale,

So are you saying you have banged:

- a 1/10 (5 foot tall, rotten teeth, obese)
and
- a 10/10 (6’5” professional model from Iceland)?

Just to understand your concept of “every level”.

 

[BalderBaldyBald]

I’ve met/ banged/ had relationships with guys on every level of the “looks” scale

Erratum : YOU have been BANGED by (a lot of apparently) guys on every level of the "looks" scale.

PS : Not sure this is a good thing to brag about, but hey, who am i to judge

 

[INT]

This is more self righteous poppycock, in my opinion. What flaws could I work on? Please give me examples. I love working on myself. Please don't be like TC and say "get taller".

Women are really excited to meet me, but lose enthusiasm within a few minutes of saying hello.

-I'm not a victim. It's my own fault that I lost my hair and I have to deal with it. Society is the way that it is and will stay that way. I didn't try dating when I was younger and still had hair/combover and that's all my fault. Moreover, society blames bald people for their own baldness.
-I don't feel sorry for myself. It's my own fault. I do partly blame people like TC who gave incorrect and downright dangerous information online. But, once again, it was my fault for reading it and heeding it.
-That has happened several times. How can you be more of an expert on my experiences than myself?
-Society is different nowadays to the way that it was years ago. How can you even make that fourth point without taking this into account?

I do not know so I do not know where your personal blind spots are but if you say that women at first see excited to meet you but lose enthusiasm after a few minuts it is clear that you do something wrong in between.

It is not your own fault that you are balding by the way... It is your own fault that you decide to give such a toxic meaning to balding. I understand that it suck, but blaming that for the sole reason on having not enough success with women is toxic.

 

[blackg]

brb gonna go pick up chicks at the club with my cooking skills

Hahaha classic commentary.

 

[blackg]

I was questioned by a member about the length of my penis. I had to tell the truth even if the truth is too much to bare. I spent my Saturday out in the sun and went to the sea. And while I was there lying on he sun I thought to myself ....

I need to masturbate.

 

[jasonstatham]

Erratum : YOU have been BANGED by (a lot of apparently) guys on every level of the "looks" scale.

PS : Not sure this is a good thing to brag about, but hey, who am i to judge

Its a troll account from the OP. A women would never say: "I banged ..".

To listen to a women what she thinks about dating is like asking a Penguin about politics. It doesnt make sense. A women will never admit what she really thinks. Maybe under her female friends with much alcohol into it.
For example, most women will tell you size does not matter but at the same time, insult men about dick size. If it wouldnt truly matter, why they use it for insulting? The same with balding. Like the fake pickup guys on youtube, hitting the streets and ask women does being bald matter. You cant get more blue pill than that. Like they would tell you openly they dont like it. Dont listen to what a women does, but watch carefuly her actions.

 

[Jenn77]

Erratum : YOU have been BANGED by (a lot of apparently) guys on every level of the "looks" scale.

PS : Not sure this is a good thing to brag about, but hey, who am i to judge

My point wasn’t that I used to be a bit on the easy side. I was just trying to convey that the guys I hung out with wasn’t decided by looks. And it sure as hell wasn’t based on the amount of hair on their head.

 

[Jenn77]

So are you saying you have banged:

- a 1/10 (5 foot tall, rotten teeth, obese)
and
- a 10/10 (6’5” professional model from Iceland)?

Just to understand your concept of “every level”.

I take your point- “every level” was too broad.

 

[Cue Bald]

I’ve been reading a lot of the posts about finding gfs and just wanted to say, as a female, that it all boils down to personality. I’ve met/ banged/ had relationships with guys on every level of the “looks” scale, and the ones that lasted had NOTHING to do with looks. I stopped seeing some real good looking guys because their personality was as interesting as watching paint dry. Keep your head up & realize what’s important- you’ll get what you’re looking for!

so be honest, would you rather have sex with an ugly bald man who had a good personality and plenty of money, or would you rather have sex with the handsome Norwood 1 with a good looking face? I've known girls who say personality is what mattered the most, yet funnily enough every single one of them had a good looking boyfriend and treated ugly men as if they were invisible (even openly mocking us on facebook)

i've posted this many times but the guy i knew who got the most p00nany by far (early 20's) was a pretty blonde haired guy with a feminine face (but a good muscular body). he looked like tadzio from death in venice. his personality was bad, he was a bit dim witted, talked to girls alot about a geeky hobby that they couldn't care less about and even treated girls bad (insulting them and kissing other girls in the club infront of his current GF, for example), yet they still flocked to him.
if i started going on about say overclocking to a girl they would tell me to be quiet, yet with him they just stared into his face while he talked about multipliers and watercooling.

 

[Roberto_72]

tadzio from death in venice.

Who has lost everything except for hair

 

[Jenn77]

so be honest, would you rather have sex with an ugly bald man who had a good personality and plenty of money, or would you rather have sex with the handsome Norwood 1 with a good looking face? I've known girls who say personality is what mattered the most, yet funnily enough every single one of them had a good looking boyfriend and treated ugly men as if they were invisible (even openly mocking us on facebook)

i've posted this many times but the guy i knew who got the most p00nany by far (early 20's) was a pretty blonde haired guy with a feminine face (but a good muscular body). he looked like tadzio from death in venice. his personality was bad, he was a bit dim witted, talked to girls alot about a geeky hobby that they couldn't care less about and even treated girls bad (insulting them and kissing other girls in the club infront of his current GF, for example), yet they still flocked to him.
if i started going on about say overclocking to a girl they would tell me to be quiet, yet with him they just stared into his face while he talked about multipliers and watercooling.

so be honest, would you rather have sex with an ugly bald man who had a good personality and plenty of money, or would you rather have sex with the handsome Norwood 1 with a good looking face? I've known girls who say personality is what mattered the most, yet funnily enough every single one of them had a good looking boyfriend and treated ugly men as if they were invisible (even openly mocking us on facebook)

i've posted this many times but the guy i knew who got the most p00nany by far (early 20's) was a pretty blonde haired guy with a feminine face (but a good muscular body). he looked like tadzio from death in venice. his personality was bad, he was a bit dim witted, talked to girls alot about a geeky hobby that they couldn't care less about and even treated girls bad (insulting them and kissing other girls in the club infront of his current GF, for example), yet they still flocked to him.
if i started going on about say overclocking to a girl they would tell me to be quiet, yet with him they just stared into his face while he talked about multipliers and watercooling.

I can’t speak to or claim to understand the choices of other people. I can only speak to my preferences, and I stand by what I said. These women you wrote about have a harsh reality coming their way. You described them as idiotic, nasty doormats- is that the kind of woman you’d even want?

 

[MorningGlory]

If you used to get 10s who wants to date land whales just because of a condition you have no control over?

You’re looking at this the wrong way. Thinking the route to happiness is f*****g a different “ten” every month for life is where you’re going wrong. Pleasure and happiness are not synonyms. At some point you need to settle.

 

[MorningGlory]

brb gonna go pick up chicks at the club with my cooking skills

Do you think life is a music video?

 

[blackg]

I’ve been reading a lot of the posts about finding gfs and just wanted to say, as a female, that it all boils down to personality. I’ve met/ banged/ had relationships with guys on every level of the “looks” scale, and the ones that lasted had NOTHING to do with looks. I stopped seeing some real good looking guys because their personality was as interesting as watching paint dry. Keep your head up & realize what’s important- you’ll get what you’re looking for!

Thanks for telling me this. I have very little personality and my looks are fading fast.
You sound like an honest woman and I can appreciate that.

 

[doubleindemnity]

I do not know so I do not know where your personal blind spots are but if you say that women at first see excited to meet you but lose enthusiasm after a few minuts it is clear that you do something wrong in between.

It is not your own fault that you are balding by the way... It is your own fault that you decide to give such a toxic meaning to balding. I understand that it suck, but blaming that for the sole reason on having not enough success with women is toxic.

I was fine losing my hair at first. But when I discovered the truth about it I became disgusted. It is the most toxic thing that can happen to a man. I mean that they are very excited texting me and rarely cancel, but are underwhelmed and subdued as soon as we greet each other. Usually, we meet at a public place and walk to the planned venue. What happens on the way? She gets a chance to look at my head from the back and see my crown loss. Even if I am wrong about my assessment of her losing interest, please tell me what I could do to have a chance.

 

[MorningGlory]

I was fine losing my hair at first. But when I discovered the truth about it I became disgusted. It is the most toxic thing that can happen to a man. I mean that they are very excited texting me and rarely cancel, but are underwhelmed and subdued as soon as we greet each other. Usually, we meet at a public place and walk to the planned venue. What happens on the way? She gets a chance to look at my head from the back and see my crown loss. Even if I am wrong about my assessment of her losing interest, please tell me what I could do to have a chance.

Aren’t you a NW5? Why would merely the crown be an issue, unless you catfish with your POF/Tinder profile?

 

[Roberto_72]

I was fine losing my hair at first. But when I discovered the truth about it I became disgusted. It is the most toxic thing that can happen to a man. I mean that they are very excited texting me and rarely cancel, but are underwhelmed and subdued as soon as we greet each other. Usually, we meet at a public place and walk to the planned venue. What happens on the way? She gets a chance to look at my head from the back and see my crown loss. Even if I am wrong about my assessment of her losing interest, please tell me what I could do to have a chance.

It is also true that women have more varied tastes than we men.
When we men see a women with a nice body and a pretty face, we all tend to like her.
Different women tend to like different types of men.
I swear I have been totally shunned by some women only to be told by another one, some days after, that she thought I was handsome.

So, if some woman rejects you based on ugly hair, just wait a bit, you’ll find a crazy girl who may like you.

 

[doubleindemnity]

It is also true that women have more varied tastes than we men.
When we men see a women with a nice body and a pretty face, we all tend to like her.
Different women tend to like different types of men.
I swear I have been totally shunned by some women only to be told by another one, some days after, that she thought I was handsome.

So, if some woman rejects you based on ugly hair, just wait a bit, you’ll find a crazy girl who may like you.

Women do not have more varied tastes. That's a different topic. But anyway, I have had maybe 4 women out of more than 30 that were ok with me. Of course, I messed up half of those opportunities and and the other half are out of my life now. I don't have enough years in my life to keep going like this and find the right woman. I messed up a great opportunity earlier this year and, in all likelihood, I won't have another until next year. If I mess that one up then, the following year, I'd be too old to date the women who are a good match with me.

What is your Norwood anyway? NW6 men are never called handsome, as far as I know. Perhaps rugged or well built or attractive, but not handsome.

 

[MorningGlory]

I messed up half of those opportunities

So now we get to it. Your regret is the real problem here. Well, I can empathise there. But please stop blaming all your problems on hair.