A Study Regarding The Importance Of Personality

[JohnsonDDG]

I'm putting 0 effort in my post directed at you because you don't seem to read them anyways. I've already explained this to you in this thread and others. Yet you show up with the same stupid bluepill mentality. Why would I waste time writing coherent posts?

Do you really think that I talk about these subjects in this way in real life? And to girls even? I made a long post in another thread in a reply to you, you didn't respond if I remember correct. That's why I'm not spending any time on these posts. It's kind of talking to a wall at this point.

The way you talk right now is exactly what I hate. Now you blame my failures on my personality, so now I'm ugly AND have a shitty personality.

I guess I just need to focus on improving my personality??? That's a nice carrot on a stick. Too bad there's no finish line, maybe I'll spend a few years on this, wasting time being miserable. Then maybe at the end wherever that is there's a girl for me? Spoiler: There isn't, because personality doesn't matter.

Just stop giving advices to people who's problems you can't even comprehend. You're not able to put yourself in their shoes. It's like @Afro_Vacancy said in another post. You are meeting open doors and think you did something special to unlock them. While others are facing locked doors with spikes and mines around them. You're really not able to give advices to these people.

Did you even read the study on my OP? Personality doesn't matter, it's there in black and white. Have you seen the countless tinder experiments? Have you seen this legendary study from OkCupid? I don't know what else to say. This is the last time I'll respond to your bullshit.
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What good does talking about any of this do?

I mean, say we establish that its only looks that matter and the debate ends, what happens next?

If looks are all that matters and they are predetermined then what should these ugly men do?

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

What good does talking about any of this do?

I mean, say we establish that its only looks that matter and the debate ends, what happens next?

If looks are all that matters and they are predetermined then what should these ugly men do?

Not listen to advice from guys like you for starters.

 

[Xander94]

I'm putting 0 effort in my post directed at you because you don't seem to read them anyways. I've already explained this to you in this thread and others. Yet you show up with the same stupid bluepill mentality. Why would I waste time writing coherent posts?

Do you really think that I talk about these subjects in this way in real life? And to girls even? I made a long post in another thread in a reply to you, you didn't respond if I remember correct. That's why I'm not spending any time on these posts. It's kind of talking to a wall at this point.

The way you talk right now is exactly what I hate. Now you blame my failures on my personality, so now I'm ugly AND have a shitty personality.

I guess I just need to focus on improving my personality??? That's a nice carrot on a stick. Too bad there's no finish line, maybe I'll spend a few years on this, wasting time being miserable. Then maybe at the end wherever that is there's a girl for me? Spoiler: There isn't, because personality doesn't matter.

Just stop giving advices to people who's problems you can't even comprehend. You're not able to put yourself in their shoes. It's like @Afro_Vacancy said in another post. You are meeting open doors and think you did something special to unlock them. While others are facing locked doors with spikes and mines around them. You're really not able to give advices to these people.

Did you even read the study on my OP? Personality doesn't matter, it's there in black and white. Have you seen the countless tinder experiments? Have you seen this legendary study from OkCupid? I don't know what else to say. This is the last time I'll respond to your bullshit.
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Holy f*** dude you have ascended as the blackpiller of this forum I give you my crown to continue my legacy xD

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Not listen to advice from guys like you for starters.

Seriously: wheres the end point?

What should ugly men do?

Give up?

 

[Dante92]

I'm putting 0 effort in my post directed at you because you don't seem to read them anyways. I've already explained this to you in this thread and others. Yet you show up with the same stupid bluepill mentality. Why would I waste time writing coherent posts?

Do you really think that I talk about these subjects in this way in real life? And to girls even? I made a long post in another thread in a reply to you, you didn't respond if I remember correct. That's why I'm not spending any time on these posts. It's kind of talking to a wall at this point.

The way you talk right now is exactly what I hate. Now you blame my failures on my personality, so now I'm ugly AND have a shitty personality.

I guess I just need to focus on improving my personality??? That's a nice carrot on a stick. Too bad there's no finish line, maybe I'll spend a few years on this, wasting time being miserable. Then maybe at the end wherever that is there's a girl for me? Spoiler: There isn't, because personality doesn't matter.

Just stop giving advices to people who's problems you can't even comprehend. You're not able to put yourself in their shoes. It's like @Afro_Vacancy said in another post. You are meeting open doors and think you did something special to unlock them. While others are facing locked doors with spikes and mines around them. You're really not able to give advices to these people.

Did you even read the study on my OP? Personality doesn't matter, it's there in black and white. Have you seen the countless tinder experiments? Have you seen this legendary study from OkCupid? I don't know what else to say. This is the last time I'll respond to your bullshit.
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Ah, sweet, sweet undeniable evidence and absoute truth.

Seriously: wheres the end point?

What should ugly men do?

Give up?

 

[Xander94]

Seriously: wheres the end point?

What should ugly men do?

Give up?

Compesate with money and status.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Compesate with money and status.

But I thought money and status doesn't matter and its only looks?

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Seriously: wheres the end point?

What should ugly men do?

Give up?

I think it's good for the ugly guys to realise that life isn't a fairytale. You're not going to end up with a girl just by being nice or being funny. It's not that you said something wrong that made you not hook up with that girl. You aren't "creepy" because you smiled a certain way.

It's already predetermined. The girl either likes how you look or she doesn't. You can't convince her to like you by showing off your epic personality and confidence.

Ugly guys should know that women are increasingly superficial for every year that goes by. And that what they say or how they act isn't put into consideration at all when women are chosing partners.

Ugly guys can definitely max out their worth by having a good job, money, high status, and looksmaxing. But there is a point when you're ugly enough to where all these things don't matter and all you can hope for is a glorified prostitute. For these guys it's better to invest your time and energy into other things.

 

[Dench57]

You're not able to put yourself in their shoes. It's like @Afro_Vacancy said in another post. You are meeting open doors and think you did something special to unlock them. While others are facing locked doors with spikes and mines around them.

beautiful

Paddy B on fire today

 

[Dante92]

Ugly guys can definitely max out their worth by having a good job, money, high status, and looksmaxing. But there is a point when you're ugly enough to where all these things don't matter and all you can hope for is a glorified prostitute. For these guys it's better to invest your time and energy into other things.

Precisely. That's what I did, I considered my chances and realized it was just not worth it.

 

[Dench57]

Precisely. That's what I did, I considered my chances and realized it was just not worth it.

ugh its your personality you vile human being, stop posting these childish spongebob gifs!!!

 

[yetti]

I'm putting 0 effort in my post directed at you because you don't seem to read them anyways. I've already explained this to you in this thread and others. Yet you show up with the same stupid bluepill mentality. Why would I waste time writing coherent posts?

... I don't know what else to say. This is the last time I'll respond to your bullshit.

Temper temper.

If you responded to something I wrote in another thread and I didn't respond then I am genuinely sorry, I probably didn't see it or know it was directed at me.

Yeah I read the study. Some people watched videos and responded to the videos. Hardly something that proves what happens in real life, when people are facing each other. The essence of charm is not to spout some bullshit into a camera, but to be empathetic - understand who you are talking to and respond accordingly, and personally. But anyway I accept that on a first encounter looks are the most important thing, and maybe even the only thing. You respond to this, "WHAT IF YOU'RE REJECTED THE SECOND YOU SAY "HELLO" YOU f*****g DENSE RETARD!". Notwithstanding your accusation of retardation, I would respond that perhaps the plain-looking man should not hit on a girl the second he meets her, then. Try to work out situations where you can get to know people a bit before making the move. The right girl can be charmed over time by the right personality. Every person is not a sex machine tinder slave. There are shy people who are lonely and looking for a campanion.

I don't know... the red pill, the red pill, the red pill. The red pill is a person seeing and understanding cruel reality. OK I'll buy that. But I think when it's used as an absolute, a THIS is impossible with EVERYONE, I know it because I see the red pill... then the red pill is the real cope, the real excuse. People are not robots and not everything is absolute. I see you just wrote this:

"But there is a point when you're ugly enough to where all these things don't matter and all you can hope for is a glorified prostitute. For these guys it's better to invest your time and energy into other things."

And I just disagree. As I said before, walk around any small town in America and it's easy as pie to see 300 pound dudes with females of all shapes and sizes, and the opposite, and plain looking (I wont say ugly) people with other plain looking people, and all kinds of matches. I dont care what you post from Tinder, you just need to walk around the mall on a Sunday and you learn that anyone can get a partner. I dont think anyone should think they are so bad looking that its literally impossible to ever have a partner. It's sad and its untrue because you see people with no teeth and 100 teeth and no hair and hair like my avatar etc etc etc finding someone. More difficult? Sure. Impossible? No way.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Ugly guys can definitely max out their worth by having a good job, money, high status, and looksmaxing. But there is a point when you're ugly enough to where all these things don't matter and all you can hope for is a glorified prostitute. For these guys it's better to invest your time and energy into other things.

Just to clarify: do you believe money, job and status matters when it comes to attraction?

 

[JohnsonDDG]

And I just disagree. As I said before, wal;k around any small town in America and it's easy as pie to see 300 pound dudes with females of all shapes and sizes, and the opposite, and plain looking (I wont say ugly) people with other plain looking people, and all kinds of matches. I dont care what you post from Tinder, you just need to walk around the mall on a Sunday and you learn that anyone can get a partner. I dont think anyone should think they are so bad looking that its literally impossible to ever have a partner. It's sad and its untrue because you see people with no teeth and 100 teeth and no hair and hair like my avatar etc etc etc finding someone. More difficult? Sure. Impossible? No way.

This is the major thing that stops me subscribing to lookism.

In my hometown and seeing all the ugly and average men with partners.

If the theory was correct then those ugly guys would be virgins with no dates and no GFs

 

[Dench57]

The right girl can be charmed over time by the right personality.

@WhitePolarBear

 

[Dante92]

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@WhitePolarBear

Seriously and there are idiots who follow that guy. All fullheads and good-looking, of course. Only they can appreciate the importance of personality for attracting a woman.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Just to clarify: do you believe money, job and status matters when it comes to attraction?

Not attraction, but when it comes to finding a partner, yes.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Not attraction, but when it comes to finding a partner, yes.

So the uglier and average looking people should just focus on work and money.

Well I guess that's the debate over.

No more talking about looks.

 

[yetti]

You can back each other up and talk about people looking at videos and Tinder experiments (lol) but it does not and will not ever explain what you can easily and readily see at the mall, the diner, and everywhere around you in society. Not on this message board or anywhere else that a person has ever discussed "lookism" or "red pill/blue pill" before, but OUT THERE. And what you see is plain looking, obese, all kinds of people with partners. Everywhere. A lot of them smiling, and yes many couples seem to be "looksmatched". A couple of obese people together, a couple of "fuglies" together, sure. Proving, actually proving, in serious numbers, that it is not impossible to get a partner and a relationship no matter what you look like. Holy sh*t go to a diner on any Sunday in medium to small town in America, it's no "America's Top Model" runway show. And ya'll know this. You know, when you're with the same person for years you stop being able to really judge their looks objectively, anyway. So, FWIW I would say, don't be picky with the looks.

What is being argued here, anyway? If the entire point is that if you aren't good looking then you do not inspire instant animal attraction in the opposite sex... well, duh. But if it's that you can't have a partner if you aren't good looking then it's demonstrably false.

 

[yetti]

One can find "evidence" to back up any point of view.

When it comes to turning initial connections into romantic relationships, friendships still yield the best results — 40% of respondents say they were "platonic friends first" before getting romantic, versus 35% who started as a series of formal dates and 24% who got started from a hookup.

That's right: The majority of couples are making their initial connections IRL, as friends, in places where they needn't worry about clever usernames or conversation-sparking photos. Though 59% of Americans see online dating as a great way to meet people, according to the Pew Research Center, the reality is that the old-fashioned approach reigns supreme: Just 10% of respondents said they met through a dating site or app.