DoctorHouse
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Johnson, I still have this feeling you might be underestimating your looks. Did your last date comment on your looks?
Anecdotal Evidence For Regional Variation In Online Dating Difficulty
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Shook clearly doesn't believe people can be successful on tinder/bumble without making it your full time job or without evidence, check up on the last page.. he wants field reports and actual evidence.
Not really worth story telling per say, I went on a lunch date last week and ended up pounding her brains out within an hour of meeting. Things like this do happen, or is shookwun the only guy on the forums who does this?
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BH, so far it looks like you and Shook are the only ones with this type of "quickie" success. Maybe Johnson might be another one. I forgot to ask, did any of you have any drinks before this happened?
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Yep, things like these happen all the time
to Chads.
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She had a glass of wine with her lunch, I didn't eat, had two double jacks on the rocks.
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I'm not Chad. I was just kind of aggressive with her, when I first saw her we hugged and I pulled her tight and when I let go I let my hand rub across the small of her back. When we sat down I didn't sit across from her, I sat right beside her and was just very touchy, she was responsive to it and would put her hand on my leg or shoulder.. things like that. I didn't expect anything to happen, but as we left she was telling me about her new place and asked me if I would like to see it. She was literally 3 minutes away from where we met.
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I don't remember Zircon mentioning it happened after one hour. I can't remember if Fred said that either. Most women don't give it up to a total stranger in one hour unless they are an escort who gets paid to do that. Hairblues, would you?
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Shook's isn't calling people liars. I think he understands that some people here will skimp on details for whatever reason.
I think what he's saying is that it takes a lot more to get a girl naked than to get a girl to swipe right.
The combination of skills and talents needed to get a girl nsked isn't simply more important in his view, rather, it's the only important variable period.
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I know a guy with average height and slightly above average looks who fucks a new average girl about every 2 weeks. From either Tinder or POF.
About half of the time he just picks them up for a 'drive' and fucks them without spending a dime on them.
Other times they just go for drinks and he then fucks them. A few times with above average girls he's got a hotel with them (as second date).
Now they are 5's and 6's (probably with some sneaky 4's).
But yeah I'd say he spends hours everyday on tinder/pof. But he's certainly no chad.
About half of the time he just picks them up for a 'drive' and fucks them without spending a dime on them.
Other times they just go for drinks and he then fucks them. A few times with above average girls he's got a hotel with them (as second date).
Now they are 5's and 6's (probably with some sneaky 4's).
But yeah I'd say he spends hours everyday on tinder/pof. But he's certainly no chad.
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You are a Chad prospect.
Think of yourself as being like a rookie NHL player, a former first round pick who did great in junior.
You have all the talent needed to succeed, you just need to put it together.
If you show up at practice, and you don't get too many concussions and knee injuries, the 40-goal seasons will be routine for you.
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My ex girlfriend who I met on tinder, we talked for maybe a week before we met. Exchanging pictures on snap chat, lots of dirty talk. She drove to my house the first time we met, but she wanted to go for a walk in the park just to make sure I looked like my pictures etc.. we hooked up and dated exclusively for 4 months. This thing of hooking up on first dates isn't unicorn theory, it happens.
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We've accidently created a Chad by telling him how good looking he is.
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Nope, but does anyone mention looks.
I've actually never said i'm ugly - I just said I felt ugly because I've lost a fair amount of hair. Realistically i'm probably a 6 out of 10 in the face, but I tan, workout, and wear good clothes so I do ok.
The times that I've got laid a lot were the times that I put the man hours in. Literally spending 3 hrs a night swiping and messaging tons of women, having conversations, and asking them out. Conversion rate from dates to sex is around 50%.
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For you it will always happen. You are 6ft 3. That alone is a huge plus. You are in great shape and you have blue eyes and a chiseled face. What more can any guy ask for. The hair is not going to be a deal breaker when you have all that going for you. You don't realize that most of us don't have that going on. You are the unicorn.
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I was referring earlier to the fact that liking someone is not a direct indicator of anything side from her liking your picture. There is nothing else to it, and is mental masturbation at it's finest. When we go through the loops of messaging, obtaining there number, and going on dates then we can establish that there is merit to her liking, and that is there a possibility of an outcome. Call me old fashioned, but I have a barrage of experience dealing with women online, and to my experience messaging, and liking a picture has minimal meaning. I can fish for these compliments and gestures through Instagram, and Facebook if the the idea of a like is that paramount.
Going on a date is a sign that a women has general interest, and is open to the idea of something happening. All though, speaking over the phone and texting with a personal contact is also a sign that progress is being made. The final outcome, and latter is all that matters.
Every city will have varying outcomes from each demographic, even results for that matter. As you mentioned moving from different cities you had better response, and interest rates. I can respect the fact that you actually went on dates, but the outcome has seemed to stayed relatively the same @David_MPN.
I believe we must factor each city differently as you noted already. Similar to that of my own, I had a massive increase in success rates when i traveled five hours outside of Fort Mcmurray to Edmonton.
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It's not exclusive to hook up, and get laid on a dating application.
In fact, it's almost a guarantee lay if you in cooperate the idea of meeting up for drinks at night, and are not half autistic. Looks do favor to your advantage, and will largely contribute to the outcome. But we cannot dismiss the idea of being fun, and outgoing being a large motive to what she favors next.
Aesthetics will always reign supreme, judging by your awkward encounter with minimal interests. it was still enough to justify your success behind closed doors.
How aesthetic you are also determines how likely she is to also keep in contact. We also must factor in that women are being mass contacted by many other men, and the likely hood of her forgetting about you in her inbox is a possibility. i.e obtaining digits on a monday, and then waiting until Friday to message and arrange a meet up. That initial spark could already be gone, depending on how big of an impact you left on her. Which again is almost entirely based on your aesthetics, but secondary measures such as calling, and daily texting can help reinforce you towards being a dominating force.
Coffee will lead to nothing in most cases.
My intentions are not to bring others down, rather the raise the bar on peoples expectations.
Going on a date is a sign that a women has general interest, and is open to the idea of something happening. All though, speaking over the phone and texting with a personal contact is also a sign that progress is being made. The final outcome, and latter is all that matters.
Every city will have varying outcomes from each demographic, even results for that matter. As you mentioned moving from different cities you had better response, and interest rates. I can respect the fact that you actually went on dates, but the outcome has seemed to stayed relatively the same @David_MPN.
I believe we must factor each city differently as you noted already. Similar to that of my own, I had a massive increase in success rates when i traveled five hours outside of Fort Mcmurray to Edmonton.
@Baldhurts
It's not exclusive to hook up, and get laid on a dating application.
In fact, it's almost a guarantee lay if you in cooperate the idea of meeting up for drinks at night, and are not half autistic. Looks do favor to your advantage, and will largely contribute to the outcome. But we cannot dismiss the idea of being fun, and outgoing being a large motive to what she favors next.
Aesthetics will always reign supreme, judging by your awkward encounter with minimal interests. it was still enough to justify your success behind closed doors.
How aesthetic you are also determines how likely she is to also keep in contact. We also must factor in that women are being mass contacted by many other men, and the likely hood of her forgetting about you in her inbox is a possibility. i.e obtaining digits on a monday, and then waiting until Friday to message and arrange a meet up. That initial spark could already be gone, depending on how big of an impact you left on her. Which again is almost entirely based on your aesthetics, but secondary measures such as calling, and daily texting can help reinforce you towards being a dominating force.
Coffee will lead to nothing in most cases.
My intentions are not to bring others down, rather the raise the bar on peoples expectations.
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As I already mentioned, it's not a matter of believing through documentation, but seeing credible evidence, and value towards each and every expectation.
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I misread your post. I just wanted to give my experiences on the app. I sent photos and texts last night to DH from a recent encounter. As iv said before, I'm not slayer or Chad, but my responses from women seem to be positive. Even on nights out in the summer experiences were positive. I have layed very low throughout the fall and most of this winter and not interacted much with women, mostly because of going through things like feeling inadequate from being layed off and feeling no purpose. I agree with what you are saying.
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What I might do as an experiment is take a train to Washington DC and/or NYC (cheap, fast) and swipe like a mad man to see if there is a bigger city effect.
I'm not sure if I should speak to some of these contacts I've got in LA and maybe arrange Skype dates. I go to LA a few times a year and could up that if I wanted to.
I called a girl I saw a week ago prior to going out of town. I asked how she was, etc. She said she'd be up for going out later this week. We'll see though. She might just never call back lol.
I'm not sure if I should speak to some of these contacts I've got in LA and maybe arrange Skype dates. I go to LA a few times a year and could up that if I wanted to.
I called a girl I saw a week ago prior to going out of town. I asked how she was, etc. She said she'd be up for going out later this week. We'll see though. She might just never call back lol.