Baldness Has Revitalized My Sex Life

[Dench57]

But for what purpose? For the benefit of myself, or the benefit of others? I'm enjoying my long fingernails. Why should I cut them? For your benefit? To placate your disgust? To satisfy your needs? To conform to some arbitrary construct of beauty?

It seems "the problem" here isn't my problem, but your problem with "my problem". And that's rooted in the very message I'm offering. That your problem isn't hairloss, it's your problem with hairloss. Just as the problem others have with your hairloss is a cognitive miser of their own problem of assigning value based on the superficial and meaningless ways we appear. It's just easier to judge others (or ourselves) than to have introspection and meditate the deeper problem within the self.

transcendental cope

 

[Dante92]

transcendental cope

Inceptiocope

 

[Virginityrocks]

Or... OR... And I know this may sound completely insane, and goes against everything you believe... But maybe it isn't a cope at all.

 

[yetti]

YOU ARE MORE THAN HAIR. And by accepting this simple and what should be obvious fact for yourself, you imbue this message in every client you greet, every man or woman you meet. You are more than hair. And the sooner you accept this of yourself, the sooner others can begin seeing you for the entirely beautiful and talented human being you are.

People will notice this in you, and you will attract more attention as a result of this newfound comfort than the hair you had ever could. Tell the world with quiet dignity that if you can get over your own hairloss, so too can they.

It's unfortunate that it took hairloss for me to go through this very important process of relearning to be comfortable and love myself for who I am. Not everyone requires it. And not everyone needs to go through it... but you do. Because like it or not, no matter how much you try to hide it, or try to preserve what hair you have left with the magic of the "next big thing" in hairloss prevention, you are a bald man. You may have hair, but you are a bald man underneath it all. Underneath the cosmetics, or the rogaine, or the antiandrogens, or the prosthetics, you are a bald and infinitely beautiful human being. And the sooner you accept this for yourself, the sooner others can begin seeing and respecting you for who you truly are.

Actually the problem is that you opened this thread by preaching to everyone else what they should think and do. That never works and never goes well.

 

[Virginityrocks]

Actually the problem is that you opened this thread by preaching to everyone else what they should think and do. That never works and never goes well.

I give with no expectation of results or reward. That is true passion toward what you love. The choice to believe or what not to believe is entirely yours. As it is mine to believe in the betterment of man.

 

[yetti]

I give with no expectation of results or reward. That is true passion toward what you love. The choice to believe or what not to believe is entirely yours. As it is mine to believe in the betterment of man.

i am not sure if you are trolling? but again if you tell people what to do and what to think, as if you are somehow more enlightened, it comes off as silly and arrogant and all you'll get is scorn, which is exactly what happened here. if you truly want to "give", then youd be better off just sharing your own experience, not telling people how they are wrong and you are right.

 

[Rudiger]

The presupposition that one must be "all-knowing" or a "peaceful soul" to educate or inspire others flies in the face of the clear and ignored reality that all people, including our heroes have always been human beings. There are no Gods here. No magic. Simply people. And like the person I am I am inherently flawed, carrying the weight of those who came before me. I have never claimed in my life to be anything less than human, and never in my life will I expect anyone I encounter to be anything more than such. To expect another member of your species to be completely unmoved in the face of aspersion, then to reject the validity of the knowledge he has to provide on the grounds of a failure to meet an unattainable goal, is to assert that Gods must exist. Because what is a God but one who is truly free of the hedonistic animalistic predilections of man?

There was no presupposition that one must assume the stature of being "all-knowing" to inspire others, simply that your petty reaction to criticism is a huge warning sign to me that you are not as secure or as strong as you present yourself.

Not a God, not "all-knowing", but a strong individual, and I don't believe it. And you can tell me it's my choice whether to believe it or not, well LOL nope.

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

But for what purpose? For the benefit of myself, or the benefit of others? I'm enjoying my long fingernails. Why should I cut them? For your benefit? To placate your disgust? To satisfy your needs? To conform to some arbitrary construct of beauty?

It seems "the problem" here isn't my problem, but your problem with "my problem". And that's rooted in the very message I'm offering. That your problem isn't hairloss, it's your problem with hairloss. Just as the problem others have with your hairloss is a cognitive miser of their own problem of assigning value based on the superficial and meaningless ways we appear. It's just easier to judge others (or ourselves) than to have introspection and meditate the deeper problem within the self.

Don't change for them bro. I happen to like your fingernails the way they are, theyre gritty because you're a hard working man, a man who isn't afraid to get his hands dirty. We need more men like you bro.

 

[Guzam]

But for what purpose? For the benefit of myself, or the benefit of others? I'm enjoying my long fingernails. Why should I cut them? For your benefit? To placate your disgust? To satisfy your needs? To conform to some arbitrary construct of beauty?

It seems "the problem" here isn't my problem, but your problem with "my problem". And that's rooted in the very message I'm offering. That your problem isn't hairloss, it's your problem with hairloss. Just as the problem others have with your hairloss is a cognitive miser of their own problem of assigning value based on the superficial and meaningless ways we appear. It's just easier to judge others (or ourselves) than to have introspection and meditate the deeper problem within the self.

This goes beyond good and bad.

You're a bitter subhuman.

 

[GornMyson]

If I go bald it's an incoming train. I just couldn't do it, buzzing my head was a horrific time.

What I will say is during my two manic phases, I really did have a no fox given attitude, really self destructive and used walk around and in the club like I was conor mcgregor , I still had my nw3 combover but women would approach me and look at me completely different to when I was calm and collected. Now men did not like being in my presence at all they could tell I was off kilter. I've never had a women approach me when I haven't been manic.

I still don't understand that btw. Maybe it was because women could see I made other men uncomfortable, I have no idea but there is something in the way you carry yourself.

 

[Virginityrocks]

An interview all men going through male pattern baldness should listen to:

 

[Virginityrocks]

I still don't understand that btw. Maybe it was because women could see I made other men uncomfortable, I have no idea but there is something in the way you carry yourself.

Attitude is sexier than appearance. Sure. It's better to have both. But if the stressors of appearance is having a negative effect on your attitude, choose one. Choose attitude. Because like it or not, one day it won't matter how much hair you have. One day you're going to be old. And no amount of hair will save your sex life. And if you're old, and haven't learned how to be happy, to be humble, and to be comfortable with who you are, you're going to live an incredibly miserable and lonely life of degrees much greater and more meaningful than could possibly be compared to an unsatisfying sex life. You will die as alone as you have lived.

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

Attitude is sexier than appearance. Sure. It's better to have both. But if the stressors of appearance is having a negative affect on your attitude, choose one. Choose attitude. Because like it or not, one day it won't matter how much hair you have. One day you're going on be old. And no amount of hair will save your sex life. And if you're old, and haven't learned how to be happy, to be humble, and to be comfortable with who you are, you're going to live an incredibly miserable and lonely life of degrees much greater and more meaningful than could possibly be compared to an unsatisfying sex life.

Much easier said than done. You seem to be an older bro, so I'm gonna ask you this. Can I still get laid being bald? I don't think I'm a bad looking bro with or without hair, I just can't find that attitude or confidence since hair was part of my identity. I'm losing that, add in external factors of being divorced (I'm 24) raising twins by myself, been laid off twice in the past year. No sense of direction at all man I'm losing it bro. What do I do? I'm deteriorating from all angles, I'll admit hairloss is my last worry yet it's a snowball effect. I'm lost man. What does a bro do?

 

[blackg]

Maybe it was because women could see I made other men uncomfortable.

Making other men uncomfortable is a worrying sign.

 

[rclark]

Same here, looking like a granpa on his deathbed.

Well, at least you don't have a face that looks like a BEAT UP SOCCER/FOOTBALL GOAL. i really am near grandpa's age!

 

[rclark]

can relate to OP's story tho

I buzzed and women still dig into me, that's a photo of me

Spoiler

Wow, you look NOTHING like your avatar, Really!

 

[Virginityrocks]

Much easier said than done. You seem to be an older bro, so I'm gonna ask you this. Can I still get laid being bald? I don't think I'm a bad looking bro with or without hair, I just can't find that attitude or confidence since hair was part of my identity. I'm losing that, add in external factors of being divorced (I'm 24) raising twins by myself, been laid off twice in the past year. No sense of direction at all man I'm losing it bro. What do I do? I'm deteriorating from all angles, I'll admit hairloss is my last worry yet it's a snowball effect. I'm lost man. What does a bro do?

It takes time. And a lot of hard work. There are no easy answers to difficult problems. And anyone who tells you different is trying to sell something. The answers you're looking for are within you, and they can be found by having the courage to bring them to the forefront of your consciousness. Meditate on this. Spend time being true to your core nature. Find the boy that lives within the man.

 

[Aldrich]

You have it all wrong. We just want to keep our hair. There is no external reason or pursuit. There is also no natural purpose of hairloss other than for nature to say that "this man has sh*t genetics, don't breed with him."

 

[JeanLucBB]

There is no "true self". You are just an amorphous collection of traits, habits and physical attributes which the outside world responds to. All of them can be changed to a certain extent. Winners find out what they want and change as a function of that.

+1

You can accept being an ugly bald incel with a sh*t job all you like, you'll still be an ugly bald incel with a sh*t job.

 

[tokoe]

Start a new thread.

Start a new thread.

i dont know how to do that