Being Ugly. It Will Destroy One's Life

[shookwun]

The guy is delusional.
Ex , one date from online dating which was successful and lead to a relationship

She went on other dates before me, but liked me the most.

It's simple, either the girl likes you or not, none of this game fuckery.

lol at one dating leading into a relationship. I suppose thats the nature of the beast when you hit your thirties, because time is a ticking time bomb for most these ladies anyhow.

How the f*** does one date lead into a relationship is beyond me, reminds me of the type of sh*t I used to experience when I lived out west in population zero. Meet a women, settle down right away.

When you live in a big city, bearings, and guards tend to be higher. Because quite frankly id rather be single then be in a relationship, that I shouldn't of got myself into. it's very difficult to find someone you are both attracted to, as well as connect with.

 

[shookwun]

Makes sense, for me I almost never go on an actual "date" unless they are amazing and can tell from app discussion that we'd click and have common interests/outlook. I'm 23 and the whole "dating" thing makes me laugh honestly, anyone who needs to go on actual dates to get sex has no game to begin with but its probably an age thing.

Also going on 20 dates seems like you're doing something wrong, why are you going on dates with women you aren't attracted to or there is no connection with when you're talking to them on an app? And honestly if they're going on a date with you its clearly not a looks issue, it IS a game issue otherwise they wouldn't have gone out with you in the first place based on photos.

Lol going on dates you are not seriously into is a waste of f*****g time. if you horny, establish your goals right then and there. No point wasting eachothers time, and spending time and resources for a chick you are not into.

Something I learned. Normie-james = Quick nut

Hot dimes = Dates

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

Man-w****s ^^ don't u want true love??

 

[shookwun]

Man-w****s ^^ don't u want true love??

Of course.

it's difficult to find a women you are both attracted to, and into personality wise. So many times it's one or the other.


I am tired of fat chubbies who have grande personalities, and then meeting hotties with sub-par personalities.

NEED BOTH. it's much easier to have 1 night stands then it is to devote the energy in dates, and to find someone worth staying with.

Dudes with no options will settle for the first bird that comes there way, but when you been around the scene... it will take a legit women to lock you down. I aint giving up my weekends of partying for some normie-jane that I need to drink everytime before I see.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Man-w****s ^^ don't u want true love??

I want an artsy bae like Pas who is into arthouse film and interesting music but also interesting kinks and is a Trump fan and makes good memes. Unfortunately these don't exist in the real world.

"it's much easier to have 1 night stands then it is to devote the energy in dates, and to find someone worth staying with. "
" I aint giving up my weekends of partying for some normie-jane that I need to drink everytime before I see her."

This so much. I could have procured 2 roots in the time it took to go on a boring date and wouldn't have to waste my money on b****s dinner.

There's this 17 year old girl I'm talking to and she's funny and sweet and all but she's insane and clingy and constantly goes on about her depression now that I fucked her and complains if I don't read her snap in 5 minutes. How could anyone put up with this for more than a month?

True love would be amazing though if it was actually attainable without cope. Most people only find true love because most people are generic low IQ dumbasses so it is easy to connect with other low IQ generic dumbasses.

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

I'm tired of crazies brahs. I was out for dinner with my family and I get a call from some girl I've been casually seeing. I don't answer. She texts me "K night". That's clingy af. She does is sh*t all the time. I go days without responding to text, not only from girls, but from friends too. Guess I'm just a horrible communicator.

I agree. Not worth putting in th resources into a chick I'm only interested in sex with. If norm Jane won't put out first "date" I just forget her.

Oh and what's even more funny is said crazy chick above will tag on Facebook the guys giving her attention or put how great the new guy she's seeing is on her Snapchat. YET she blows my sh*t up begging for my attention. Sucks to be those dudes.

 

[Susanoo]

^warning signs of a stage 5 clinger

donotwant/10

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

«it's much easier to have 1 night stands then it is to devote the energy in dates, and to find someone worth staying with. »
«There's this 17 year old girl I'm talking to and she's funny and sweet and all but she's insane and clingy and constantly goes on about her depression now that I fucked her and complains if I don't read her snap in 5 minutes. »
«I get a call from some girl I've been casually seeing. I don't answer. She texts me "K night". That's clingy af. She does is sh*t all the time. I go days without responding to text, not only from girls, but from friends too»

 

[Saurabhaj]

Girls don't want months and months. If it takes months and months you've already fucked things. Twenty minutes to a month. Usually a few days. Beyond that and you're largely off their mind.

I forgot to mention the situation..
I was talking about finding girl from friend circle or college group or some class group or in company.

 

[JeanLucBB]

I forgot to mention the situation..
I was talking about finding girl from friend circle or college group or some class group or in company.

From friends circle or in a work environment I can definitely see it, I never got anything out of uni and don't really know the situation because I only showed up for exams or rare mandatory attendance classes.

 

[davesmith420]

You Chad Thundercocks need to teach me your ways.

I get told I'm good looking (realistically I'm probably like a 6 to a 7 on a good day) but my game is weak.

 

[davesmith420]

I had a Chad moment recently.

I went on a date with a girl last month; the date was well and she invited me back to her place where we made out. I ended up ghosted her for reasons (e.g., lack of a real job, drug habits, etc.). I lurked her Twitter (I don't follow her) and she tweeted something to the lines of "When you go on a date with a really cute guy and he ghosts you *random emojis*." Feels good man.

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

You Chad Thundercocks need to teach me your ways.

I get told I'm good looking (realistically I'm probably like a 6 to a 7 on a good day) but my game is weak.

I'm extremely low-inhib. I'll legit f*** almost anything that isn't over 150 lbs.

Just don't give a f*** mayne.

 

[barfacan]

low inhib? or just no standards. there's a diff, beta boyo.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I had a Chad moment recently.

I went on a date with a girl last month; the date was well and she invited me back to her place where we made out. I ended up ghosted her for reasons (e.g., lack of a real job, drug habits, etc.). I lurked her Twitter (I don't follow her) and she tweeted something to the lines of "When you go on a date with a really cute guy and he ghosts you *random emojis*." Feels good man.

Some people just don't have any killer instinct with women.

My house mate is decent looking but he wont make a move on a woman so he only ever hooks up with a woman if they give him blatant cues to do so.

 

[Feelsbadman]

That's a sad story op.
Right in the feels.

 

[Oknow]

lol at one dating leading into a relationship. I suppose thats the nature of the beast when you hit your thirties, because time is a ticking time bomb for most these ladies anyhow.

How the f*** does one date lead into a relationship is beyond me, reminds me of the type of sh*t I used to experience when I lived out west in population zero. Meet a women, settle down right away.

When you live in a big city, bearings, and guards tend to be higher. Because quite frankly id rather be single then be in a relationship, that I shouldn't of got myself into. it's very difficult to find someone you are both attracted to, as well as connect with.

It didn't happen straight away, we saw each other for a while but she was straightforward and not playing tonnes of games like some of the other c**** I've had to interact with.

I actually had a great time dating her, don't regret it only wish I had worked harder at maintaining it given what I know now.

 

[Oknow]

That's a sad story op.
Right in the feels.

Yeah I feel very sad for him too. Love and society can be cruel. In some ways can relate to him.

 

[Oknow]

I had a Chad moment recently.

I went on a date with a girl last month; the date was well and she invited me back to her place where we made out. I ended up ghosted her for reasons (e.g., lack of a real job, drug habits, etc.). I lurked her Twitter (I don't follow her) and she tweeted something to the lines of "When you go on a date with a really cute guy and he ghosts you *random emojis*." Feels good man.

You are an idiot, opportunities like that are so far between for most men. I bet the OP would love to be in that situation.