Can You Believe She Seriously Said This?!?!

Rudiger

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Erm no, most of you guys are delusional x

The only saving grace of baldness is that if anything, we're more realistic than the average person.

Ignorance probably is bliss, most men (or women) do not evaluate and re-evaluate their social standing anywhere near the level that we do. If anything the most depressing members of this forum are delusional in the way that they negatively attribute everything down to their hair, to extremities.

I'm a sceptical person as are many on this forum, and that works for me, I'd rather question things and often be wrong, than accept everything and feel that I'm always right.

This perception of ourselves as bald guys extends to many aspects of life, I hate my recession and diffuse thinning, but every cloud has a silver lining, and it's made me much more aware of the world I live in, a much more caring and empathetic person than when I was a good looking 18 year old and assumed "life is easy".

It's not easy, you are capable of constantly setting yourself up for huge downfalls, most people are delusional and do this.
 

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So I get back from getting my hair transplant and my sister sees me and says "I can't believe the vanity".

Like seriously? I could feel the blood boil inside me. If only she knew how much losing hair can mess with someone's self esteem, confidence and frame of mind. Maybe she should try losing her f*****g hair and see what she does about it.

Why didn't you tell her what I highlighted?

If people hassle me about wanting hair I tell them "Shave yours off!" or You're just saying that 'cause it isn't you".

You have to get into their face.
 

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This.

And somehow I tend to forget about it because/thanks to my hair transplant.

As someone said here, I was all rainbows and unicorns recently. And how could I not be? I love my life at the moment.

And then the 'Mister Clean' incident at my workplace happened, while a few days before, I was telling my girlfriend: "My colleagues, they're very nice, good people!"

It's moments like these that remind me why my vision of the world was so dark a few years ago (before and even after my hair transplant for some time).

But that's a good wake-up call, I may move in with my girlfriend soon, I might get married, but you can be sure that plan B (being able to say 'f*** it' and move out very quickly) will be ready to be executed at any time.

Ignorance was bliss, now we know too much, about looks, society, women, how you cannot trust anyone but yourself. Most people will always tell themselves that everything will always be alright because "Hey, you shouldn't be so negative! My wife will never hurt me like that, she would never leave me because of my hair loss, you're crazy!"

Without going through hair loss, I would think like this too.

I wish I be bluepilled again.
 

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When I see how hurt those ignorant blue-pilled normies end up, this is something I would never wish.

This delusion is the reason some men hang themselves over a divorce. In their heads, it could never ever happen.

Then it happens, their wives turn into a monster and cheats on them with their hunk NW1 boss.

These situation wouldn't even surprise me, but for a lot of blue-pilled men, they're unimaginable.

It's always a huge shock to your system when you refuse to see reality as it is and then get it thrown in your face out of the blue.

Had I listened to @Wolf Pack and how he said that people were most likely joking about my hair behind my back, I wouldn't have been so shocked by my colleague's joke.

And sometimes, like the stoic you are, you try to prepare for the worst scenarios imaginable, and then you get: "I aborted your baby, I don't love you anymore and I don't ever want to see you again."

Either you choose the blue-pill way and you live in bliss for a few years before getting a ton of bricks on your head, or you become red pill and acknowledge that life is unfair and unforgiving.

Let your guard down at your own risk.

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thank you fred.

we at hairlosstalk would truly be lost without your wisdom and leadership

you are our king and we are your followers
 
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Rudiger

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I meant that you guys are delusional in believing you're somehow 'evolving', making great strides towards becoming more moral, a better human being. You're just as ethically flaky as the rest of humanity h.I. As is our resident GP, Doctor House. 'Will to power', that's all it is. But yes, I completely agree that baldness often makes a person more realistic. I have nothing but contempt for 'Blue Pills'.

Even the most "ethically flaky" people have something to work on, but to be honest from reading some of your posts I don't know why I'm entertaining your opinion.

If someone else were to say I'm ethically flawed then I'd accept it fine, but with your general judgment, just nah brah.
 

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You shouldn't be offended. Everyone is. And I'm certainly not exempting myself from that pronouncement. Suit yourself. Agree to disagree? :)

I'm not offended I just question the logic. Surely the most ethically fucked people have something to work on, your theory that it's impossible to change is condemnable. And don't think that just because you can admit you're morally fucked, this gives you some license to judge others. You know nothing about me, while I can question myself ethically at times, I know for sure your opinion should hold little weight, and the other thing I know for sure is that there is always the possibility of improvement.

I never said I'm making "great strides for humanity" or whatever, simply that every person is a work in progress.
 

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Maybe where you come from. And where would that be?

In my country, 1/3 of the population doesn't even get his high school diploma.

Again, explain why I'm delusional.

A master's degree puts you in the top five or ten percent. However, many interesting people don't get masters degree because they instead pursue other goals.

As someone with a PhD, my view is your masters only has value if your thesis is actually interesting. I know that a lot of institutions will give out the degree for mediocre theses too, in which case I'm not impressed.

I suspect that what you wrote is worthwhile.
 

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high school diploma is worthless thing I ever had

I literally will exchange diploma for 10 DHT-resistant follicles on my temples
 

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Fred, why is it despite your great accomplishments you haven't earned the respect of your colleagues to the point that they make fun of you?

This is why I sort of enjoy being feared. Never being made fun of, people move out of my way, and it's only with MEN. Women approach in social settings etc.
 

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Bet none of y'all speak Irish :p

Having a college degree, even a masters, means f*** all here anymore without knowing what it was in.
 

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I don't particularly give much value to people who went to university (I see them all day long). What is more rare is someone with a goal!
I have a thing for sheriff (maybe because of Coen brothers! Fargo and No Country for Old Men (Tommy Lee Jones was fantastic sheriff on it)!

That's the great thing about that career. No day is ever the same. A lot of different things to specialize in.
 

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Actually movies say a lot about someone. Seriously, there are few things that can make me reject someone I am attracted to, bad movie taste and shoes like that (see below) are part of it.
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I think of you as being a beautiful woman because of your avatar lol. You probably don't look like Penelope Cruz ;)

I am actually afraid to talk about my true taste and interest in movies or books with people, it's very "uncool" to read into things deeply the way I tend to. I remember we discussed A Clockwork Orange on this forum before for example, I would never discuss things in that depth in real life.
 
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