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[hairblues]

 

[Guzam]

so the logic here seems to be that because you are bald, there is a high chance your male children will have a hard time "competing" with the full head ubermensch

well i hate to break it to you, but statistically most of you are absolutely average in every other regard and your child could have hair like fabio and he would still live a life of wanting. Not tall, not good looking, not an athletic talent, not particularly intelligent, etc. In the tragedies of life, balding is pretty f*****g laughable when you put it into perspective.

To be quite blunt about it, i dont think the miniscule threat of balding is really what holds balding men back from having kids. Narcissism usually is, and luckily most people grow out of the adaptive narcissism that the early adulthood brings on (with good reason at the time, not so good when you're 30+), some dont however and will engage in masterful avoidance rationalizations, the same way people will avoid committing to anything that has finality because if you dont reach finality then the possibilities remain endless even if they are fantastical (bullshit) in nature.

I would suggest you have a kid as a balding c*** who is otherwise fantastically healthy in his 20s or 30s instead of mincing about until you are 40 or 50 and then having a kid with a high risk of autism, because that is actually crippling.

You clearly lack awareness regarding:

The social media age
The front office/automation age
The Hollywood age

Which all can be summed up in the:

Image driven age of early XXI century

And how being bald today, and in the near future, negatively affects your interaction with the world given that image (looks) is increasing in importance by the day, and looking good and young (not necessarily handsome) from a plus is becoming a basic feature to have.

You either are delusional or below NW3

 

[hairblues]

You clearly lack awareness regarding:

The social media age
The front office/automation age
The Hollywood age

Which all can be summed up in the:

Image driven age of early XXI century

And how being bald today, and in the near future, negatively affects your interaction with the world given that image (looks) is increasing in importance by the day, and looking good and young (not necessarily handsome) from a plus is becoming a basic feature to have.

You either are delusional or below NW3

he may not be 20s

 

[plisk]

You clearly lack awareness regarding:

The social media age
The front office/automation age
The Hollywood age

Which all can be summed up in the:

Image driven age of early XXI century

And how being bald today, and in the near future, negatively affects your interaction with the world given that image (looks) is increasing in importance by the day, and looking good and young (not necessarily handsome) from a plus is becoming a basic feature to have.

You either are delusional or below NW3

I'm not delusional you just have aspergers

Yes society is very image driven. Once again, read my post and pay particular attention to the part about these men having children who are otherwise completely average. Not tall, not good looking, not physical standouts. In this case, dont have children at all, even if you have hair like fabio because you cant handle the dread that your offspring wont be able to be part of the 1%. There is always someone better looking, smarter, born into better conditions, more life opportunities.

and yet billions of people continue to have children who grow up, have their personal tragedies, everyones life is a tragedy, yet still manage to find some joy in life, find partners and produce children of their own. This nonsensical idea that all of the sudden in 2017 its just over for anyone but the genetic elite is an idea that is popular with you types from places like sluthate/looksim (yes you are that obvious guzam) but it betrays you lack of actual life experience/exposure, where guess what, 5s are dating 5s, 6s are dating 6s, 7s are etc etc. Water seeks its own level.

Nothing has really changed other than your own awareness about the importance of image in dating. Well that was true in 1950 contrary to popular belief (girls didnt faint from sexual fever over elvis presley because of his economic security ) its true now, men are just made more aware of it, the same way you are more aware of what happened in some other part of the world than you would of just 30 years ago.

just call me bluepill and get it over with

 

[Xander94]

I once took as granted that I was an average looking guy. Average height, brown hair, masculine build.

Now I understand what a privilege is to be average, how I didn't fully capitalize on that.
After high school, some girl friends of mine told me that the girls who liked me were more, way more than I thought. All a man needs is average looks, like that Indian guy you know: some height, some build, hair, no psychopathic tendencies.
This is why 'men have it easier'.


Balding is probably the hardest redpill lookswise.

MEN HAVE IT EASIER

 

[Guzam]

I'm not delusional you just have aspergers

Yes society is very image driven. Once again, read my post and pay particular attention to the part about these men having children who are otherwise completely average. Not tall, not good looking, not physical standouts. In this case, dont have children at all, even if you have hair like fabio because you cant handle the dread that your offspring wont be able to be part of the 1%. There is always someone better looking, smarter, born into better conditions, more life opportunities.

and yet billions of people continue to have children who grow up, have their personal tragedies, everyones life is a tragedy, yet still manage to find some joy in life, find partners and produce children of their own. This nonsensical idea that all of the sudden in 2017 its just over for anyone but the genetic elite is an idea that is popular with you types from places like sluthate/looksim (yes you are that obvious guzam) but it betrays you lack of actual life experience/exposure, where guess what, 5s are dating 5s, 6s are dating 6s, 7s are etc etc. Water seeks its own level.

Nothing has really changed other than your own awareness about the importance of image in dating. Well that was true in 1950 contrary to popular belief (girls didnt faint from sexual fever over elvis presley because of his economic security ) its true now, men are just made more aware of it, the same way you are more aware of what happened in some other part of the world than you would of just 30 years ago.

just call me bluepill and get it over with

The point of this forum is one: we just want to feel normal. Not handsome, not godlike. Normal once again. Hair is part of the equation.

 

[PappinAce]

In this case, dont have children at all, even if you have hair like fabio because you cant handle the dread that your offspring wont be able to be part of the 1%.

while there is some truth to that, hair loss is different because it is indeed a loss. being born into the bottom 99% is fine. being turned into a hideous monster in your mid twenties and having your youth robbed from you? i don't want anyone to go through that. if i somehow knew 100% that my kid would suffer from early male pattern baldness, i would seriously have to reconsider if it's worth bringing that into the world.

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

so the logic here seems to be that because you are bald, there is a high chance your male children will have a hard time "competing" with the full head ubermensch

well i hate to break it to you, but statistically most of you are absolutely average in every other regard and your child could have hair like fabio and he would still live a life of wanting. Not tall, not good looking, not an athletic talent, not particularly intelligent, etc. In the tragedies of life, balding is pretty f*****g laughable when you put it into perspective.

To be quite blunt about it, i dont think the miniscule threat of balding is really what holds balding men back from having kids. Narcissism usually is, and luckily most people grow out of the adaptive narcissism that the early adulthood brings on (with good reason at the time, not so good when you're 30+), some dont however and will engage in masterful avoidance rationalizations, the same way people will avoid committing to anything that has finality because if you dont reach finality then the possibilities remain endless even if they are fantastical (bullshit) in nature.

I would suggest you have a kid as a balding c*** who is otherwise fantastically healthy in his 20s or 30s instead of mincing about until you are 40 or 50 and then having a kid with a high risk of autism, because that is actually crippling.

This post speaks volumes in the grand scheme of things. For one I'm thankful I got the chance to reproduce as a full head before my final NW7 fate. Glad I got kids out of the way early, yea balding sucks majorly but it seems unlike the majority of males on this forum I got the experience of creating life, while as vain as it sounds a lot of dudes on here balding is holding them back from procreating. Which I get, impacting their social life correlating in lack of reproduction opportunity mixed in with not settling for a woman given their genetic misfortunes. I consider myself lucky to have experienced a plethora of woman along with marriage and children all before becoming a bald nobody.

If you even remotely resemble a full head of hair take advantage of it while it last. Before you know it you're 30 years old, single with no kids while most of your peers are settled.

 

[karankaran]

I think Anjali was really sweet but in a total naive way.

I wish I had hair that gets sweaty though. And sticks and smells. And gets wet. And blows in the wind. And can be styled for a party. There was a time when I used to worry about the texture of my hair - and then 'it' started. Now, I just want my rough, curly hair back.

 

[blackg]

i agree. but does society in many ways not reduce you to your bald genes?

Well said, PappinAce. And as we have said before... Most of society really do like simple easy answers.

 

[blackg]

18 years from now balding has to be cured though right.. RIGHT!?

NO!

 

[blackg]

I'm not delusional you just have aspergers

Yes society is very image driven. Once again, read my post and pay particular attention to the part about these men having children who are otherwise completely average. Not tall, not good looking, not physical standouts. In this case, dont have children at all, even if you have hair like fabio because you cant handle the dread that your offspring wont be able to be part of the 1%. There is always someone better looking, smarter, born into better conditions, more life opportunities.

and yet billions of people continue to have children who grow up, have their personal tragedies, everyones life is a tragedy, yet still manage to find some joy in life, find partners and produce children of their own. This nonsensical idea that all of the sudden in 2017 its just over for anyone but the genetic elite is an idea that is popular with you types from places like sluthate/looksim (yes you are that obvious guzam) but it betrays you lack of actual life experience/exposure, where guess what, 5s are dating 5s, 6s are dating 6s, 7s are etc etc. Water seeks its own level.

Nothing has really changed other than your own awareness about the importance of image in dating. Well that was true in 1950 contrary to popular belief (girls didnt faint from sexual fever over elvis presley because of his economic security ) its true now, men are just made more aware of it, the same way you are more aware of what happened in some other part of the world than you would of just 30 years ago.

just call me bluepill and get it over with

f***! That was actually a well put together argument.

 

[blackg]

I consider myself lucky to have experienced a plethora of woman along with marriage and children all before becoming a bald nobody.

Oh f***, take out your body armour!

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

Oh f***, take out your body armour!

That's what this baldness is, a full body armour drowning my ghost of a once former Chad.

 

[Exodus2011]

so the logic here seems to be that because you are bald, there is a high chance your male children will have a hard time "competing" with the full head ubermensch

well i hate to break it to you, but statistically most of you are absolutely average in every other regard and your child could have hair like fabio and he would still live a life of wanting. Not tall, not good looking, not an athletic talent, not particularly intelligent, etc. In the tragedies of life, balding is pretty f*****g laughable when you put it into perspective.

To be quite blunt about it, i dont think the miniscule threat of balding is really what holds balding men back from having kids. Narcissism usually is, and luckily most people grow out of the adaptive narcissism that the early adulthood brings on (with good reason at the time, not so good when you're 30+), some dont however and will engage in masterful avoidance rationalizations, the same way people will avoid committing to anything that has finality because if you dont reach finality then the possibilities remain endless even if they are fantastical (bullshit) in nature.

I would suggest you have a kid as a balding c*** who is otherwise fantastically healthy in his 20s or 30s instead of mincing about until you are 40 or 50 and then having a kid with a high risk of autism, because that is actually crippling.

Narcissism = not wanting to look like a 40 year old pedo at 20

Also lmfao at your average persons "problems". Boo hoo! Im not a millionaire! Boo hoo! I got to work 42 hours and not 40! Boo hoo! I got into an argument with the spouse!

All stupid meaningless sh*t thats easy to change

 

[blackg]

Narcissism = not wanting to look like a 40 year old pedo at 20

Also lmfao at your average persons "problems". Boo hoo! Im not a millionaire! Boo hoo! I got to work 42 hours and not 40! Boo hoo! I got into an argument with the spouse!

All stupid meaningless sh*t thats easy to change

Settle down, exo.

 

[PappinAce]

one of my favorite parts about this post:

"perfect is unattractive. Imperfections like our fantastic bald heads are real! And people respond very well to real. It’s why we like real flowers that wilt, not perfect plastic ones that never change."

she then goes on to list some things that she views as imperfect about hair (having bed head, sweaty hair plastered on your forehead, etc) and uses that as a reason that it's better not to have any. so which is it? if you love imperfections, why don't you love sweaty and messy hair? or do you just throw things away when they aren't perfect?

i would like to know how much time she spends with blow dryers and make up trying to make herself look juuuust purrrfect.

 

[Rudiger]

Settle down, exo.

Oh Jesus, I think you just hit rock bottom douchery.

 

[blackg]

Oh Jesus, I think you just hit rock bottom douchery.

Buy some apples.

 

[Xander94]

Buy some apples.