blackg
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I never liked that halfwit.
Consolation From A Girl On Quora (lol)
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The guy was awesome what are you talking about?
blackg
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He was a walking cliche. His speech and mannerisms. He overplayed it.
But I guess the public gets what the public wants.
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Says the guy in love with homeless people
like most of the "my life is over :'( " crowd on here, reading comprehension is not your strong suit clearly.
edit: since you need it spelled out, my comment about narcissism had nothing to do with a 20 year old being concerned with his image, as he very well should be.
It had to do with the masterful rationalizations narcissistic adults use avoid any situation that would necessarily require the subordination of themselves, like parenthood. (if you are over 30 and you still think that your "real life" has yet to begin, get professional help")
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that's what it boils down to really. parenthood means relegating yourself from the main character of your story, to the supporting cast. do you think that male pattern baldness sufferers who feel that their youth was robbed from them, might think it's not fair to have to do that without having lived a fulfilled life of their own?
blackg
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Ummmmmm..
Notcoolanymore
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Personally I don't think guys hit their prime until their late 20's/early 30's. Sure your main party/clubbing years are in your early 20's, but a guy usually starts getting his sh*t together by his late 20's. Usually done with college and getting established in his chosen career. Money is usually better so he has more options for travel, luxuries, higher class women. A guy in his early 30's can still look pretty damn good if he has taken care of himself(and not balding), and still be able to get himself a younger woman(with some, but not too much experience. Who can give a good blowjob, but is willing to learn to give a great one) in her 20's.
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OMG, I am over 30 and I think that my 'real life' is yet to begin. This is ME.
Man, some of you here are better than therapists. My therapist would never say this to my face. I was prescribed a strong medication that knocked me out for 14 hours and then I was a zombie for the rest of the day. I decided not to take the medication and I cried at work because of the withdrawal effects.
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I am 40 and I hope to GOD my "real life" has yet to begin.
Cuz the life I've lived till now has been pretty much sh*t
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i went bald during my senior year of high school. my life was over legit. unlike most of the BDD full heads
also lol at your ad hominem . . . can't even come up with a real argument.
i seriously doubt it has to do with the "submissiveness" of being a parent. where the heck did you sh*t that idea out? believe it or not we just dont wanna have to get with uglier girls
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pretty ironic
First of all, I didn't call you stupid. I said reading comprehension was not your strong suit. You've just proven me correct again. You types are a little too neurotic so you obsessively focus on particular phrases and key words and then knee jerk reply without really thinking about what I was saying. Case in point, you think i am talking about you specifically and girls. (narcissism... again. Try to imagine that not everything everyone says is in relation to your specific situation. Just try it
) Actually If you go back and read the post you had a reaction to, I was talking about men who say they wouldnt have kids because they have male pattern baldnessThis has nothing to do with "chastising" people for caring about their self-image or anything like that. I am saying perpetual peter pans will come up with a great deal of clever sophistry about why they are/should avoid moving onto the next natural stage of their life (whether they want it or not, whether its unfair or anything else, you WILL get older, and you will NEVER recapture your youth, and it DID happen to you, so its rather silly to pretend that somewhere in your late 30s you're going to "re-do" your 20s. At best you'll be a youthful looking 30 something, but thats not the same as being a 20 year old all over again, much as being 20 is not the same as being 12)
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lol thats not narcissism . . . you should learn the definition before you keep spouting it. and you don't even know me . you are trying to judge me by pigeonholing me as a "neurotic type" whatever that means.pretty ironic
First of all, I didn't call you stupid. I said reading comprehension was not your strong suit. You've just proven me correct again. You types are a little too neurotic so you obsessively focus on particular phrases and key words and then knee jerk reply without really thinking about what I was saying. Case in point, you think i am talking about you specifically and girls. (narcissism... again. Try to imagine that not everything everyone says is in relation to your specific situation. Just try it
This has nothing to do with "chastising" people for caring about their self-image or anything like that. I am saying perpetual peter pans will come up with a great deal of clever sophistry about why they are/should avoid moving onto the next natural stage of their life (whether they want it or not, whether its unfair or anything else, you WILL get older, and you will NEVER recapture your youth, and it DID happen to you, so its rather silly to pretend that somewhere in your late 30s you're going to "re-do" your 20s. At best you'll be a youthful looking 30 something, but thats not the same as being a 20 year old all over again, much as being 20 is not the same as being 12)
even among marriage baldness will still obviously hurt a lot. it makes you significantly uglier, so of course this would be the case.
also why are you rambling about reliving youth? i'm 23 and just want to be able to look and feel my age. sounds like this rant was for nameless
anyways i strongly agree one should be careful about having kids while bald. i don't think you should necessarily exclude yourself from having kids but just make sure the wife has good genetics, or you will make someone like me. dad got with mentally ill short asian woman so i got her shitty beta b**ch 5'6 120 pound frame AND baldness from dad's side. not to mention being mentally fucked up from the way my mom raised me.
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@Exodus2011, I gathered from one of your other posts that you have a brother? What's his deal?
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He is a lot more adjusted as far as having a job but he is way more fucked up in other ways
He is diffused nw5 . . But still has an okay frame. He has fucked a bunch of uggos but just recently got with a few fine girls
holy sh*t
I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU
edit: I will stop responding at this point, this needs to end, you dont get it and you won't, so lets just drop it.
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Good for him! What kind of a job does he have? How tall is he?
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Lol you arent even getting that i responded directly to your point
looks like you're the one with sh*t verbal comprehension. Dat projection
I mentioned my situation because it concerns the subject . . . That should have been extremely obvious lmao
Let me say it again:bald men should be careful about having kids
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pretty ironic
First of all, I didn't call you stupid. I said reading comprehension was not your strong suit. You've just proven me correct again. You types are a little too neurotic so you obsessively focus on particular phrases and key words and then knee jerk reply without really thinking about what I was saying. Case in point, you think i am talking about you specifically and girls. (narcissism... again. Try to imagine that not everything everyone says is in relation to your specific situation. Just try it
This has nothing to do with "chastising" people for caring about their self-image or anything like that. I am saying perpetual peter pans will come up with a great deal of clever sophistry about why they are/should avoid moving onto the next natural stage of their life (whether they want it or not, whether its unfair or anything else, you WILL get older, and you will NEVER recapture your youth, and it DID happen to you, so its rather silly to pretend that somewhere in your late 30s you're going to "re-do" your 20s. At best you'll be a youthful looking 30 something, but thats not the same as being a 20 year old all over again, much as being 20 is not the same as being 12)
I have been on this forum for a while and yes some men don't want someone who looks matches them or is less attractive then them and that is just a hard reality..some cant get looks matched and some have erectile dysfunction, some impotent from drugs and or psychological problems.
So you are going to get a variety of opinions on women and their attraction to women based on their own experiences and based also where they live. A few of the darker men seem more into the idea of a blonde goddess this seems to be mostly in European guys vs American guys.
The truth is generally speaking the men who are sexually active seem to be rating women with less severity on the board--so that to me is telling. The need to mate over rides female imperfections in my opinion.
This idea of peter pan--like once they get into 40s and hair loss will be cured and they can recapture their youth--to be honest I am not seeing that on here...There is only one middle aged man that I know of who has fantasies about recaputing his youth with hair growth--but he has admitted to me many times this is just a 'fantasy' and in reality he is looking to just be more attractive to 50 something year old women.
Not everyone wants kids--its not 'narcism' but it is selfish--but also selfish? is having kids when you DONT want them because of fear of mortality or fear of being alone or fear of lack of purpose...so you are throwing narcissism around way too easily...have you ever met someone who is diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder? i mean we are talking Trump persona...hyper focus on self to a degree of obsession...so i don't blame @Exodus2011 to be defensive at the word...I know narcasims is different than a personality disorder---but narcism is not equal with serving self interest or putting your desires over a being who is not even in existence. The child is not even a child its an 'idea' a hypotthis..."Do i want kids?" No--You are a narsacist...Uhm no.
definitions from dictionary.
excessive or erotic interest in oneself and one's physical appearance.•
Psychology extreme selfishness, with a grandiose view of one's own talents and a craving for admiration, as characterizing a personality type.•
Psychoanalysis self-centeredness arising from failure to distinguish the self from external objects, either in very young babies or as a feature of mental disorder.
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