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Anyway check out that guy's personal Instagram, he has a hat in every pic. Cute girlfriend or not, he's still insecure about his bald head and hates it
Cute girl, bald guy. I know examples in real life but here's one from Instagram
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yeah thats not what i was trying to say lol...
but you know the people who are overly funny, to distract or whatever (of course non-bald people do that, too)...
i still say they are either the funny and emotional type, or hardcore thug...
to each their own of course, i wouldnt like either...
exactly! i said it a hundred times before, gf, being married, old, young, it doesnt matter... there are people who dont give a sh*t, but if you mind, you will mind no matter what...
i was concerned before my gf (was actually pretty open about it with her), i am concerned while i got a gf...
im older than where most of you people draw the line, trust me, everyone who says “yeah im okay with balding after 30”, you are not... you might be at 70...
That's just not true. Taking his 12 most recent pics, he is not wearing a hat in 6 of them, then one is of his graduation (so obviously wearing a hat), one where him and his wife are both wearing hats/coats in cold weather and two pics aren't even of him. Leaving two pics with hats, taken on the same day.
People on this forum are desperate to make the outside world fit their own world view.
His post wasn't accurate though (see above). The guy isn't wearing a hat in many of his pics. And anyway, someone wearing a hat doesn't mean they are trying to hide something. Perhaps they actually like wearing them too.
im not bashing the dude at all, but it somehow looks like he prefers wearing hats because he lost his hair...
yeah a few like wearing hats, i used to be one of them, well on and off and before i started loosing hair...
also somehow not so nice: start wearing hats, or change your hairstyle somehow and people suspect you are balding, women especially...
i think i hear women talking about men going bald like every second day in one way or the other^^
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No I will not be okay with balding at 70. I want to hairmaxx and immortalmaxx to 175 with perfect density NW1.
Thing is, in your first sentence you're doing exactly what you complain about others doing in your last paragraph (I.e. suggesting he sometimes wears hats because is bald).
I don't really see it personally as like I said in the post above he's actually not wearing a hat in many of his pics. If he was wearing one in every pic (as someone here falsely claimed) then I could see your point.
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Yeah cool and I want a billion bucks
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He has a few pics without a hat on but more pics with a hat than without one.
Just look how many pics he has where he wears a hat and his girlfriend or other people next to him don't.
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Really don't see the point of such threads unless one needs this form of reassurance, that people look beyond looks and fall in love, naturally. Obviously there are unfortunate cases where a guy is getting used by a girl for other reasons, but they look a happy couple from a quick check I did. Also some users are hard core coping if that is not bald lol, it is and he looks more than fine. I do believe he is insecure over his hair though due to the hat pics but he did the right thing and shaved it. Literally unless a guy can look close to a fullhead with a funky hairstyle, better to shave/buzz than appear unaesthetic and balding. He looks sharp and it suits him, which wouldn't be the case for me, I would look hideous. Actually I think he is fair bit better than her despite the hairloss which I think someone mentioned, he's good looking and a nice full beard without going over the top.
I would say she is cute I guess (not my type though) but not actually hot/sexy, maybe as my gf is considerably hotter but even without her I wouldn't change my mind on that girl, she's kind of plain. Amazing though, how much attention girls can get if they put themselves fully on show on Insta or anywhere, yet most girls will only gravitate towards guys they know in real life and get obsessed with one or only a few in their lives. The insta thing or even Tinder for very pretty girls is just for validation and boosting their followers, most even have long term boyfriends they met through their social circle or don't even bother to invest so much time in that and live their life.
Ultimately if you're good looking without hair, hair don't matter much although quite a lot of girls may discard the person purely for not being a fullhead. If one is not attractive (hair or no hair), it really comes down to finding a girl looking beyond that and/or wanting to settle.
I would say she is cute I guess (not my type though) but not actually hot/sexy, maybe as my gf is considerably hotter but even without her I wouldn't change my mind on that girl, she's kind of plain. Amazing though, how much attention girls can get if they put themselves fully on show on Insta or anywhere, yet most girls will only gravitate towards guys they know in real life and get obsessed with one or only a few in their lives. The insta thing or even Tinder for very pretty girls is just for validation and boosting their followers, most even have long term boyfriends they met through their social circle or don't even bother to invest so much time in that and live their life.
Ultimately if you're good looking without hair, hair don't matter much although quite a lot of girls may discard the person purely for not being a fullhead. If one is not attractive (hair or no hair), it really comes down to finding a girl looking beyond that and/or wanting to settle.
way to go
yeah of course i do that... experience mixed with personal experience and i wasnt even proven wrong^^
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b**ch he literally looks better with a shaved head than this nw4 sh*t on his head lmao
the thing saving the bald instagram guy is his height. take away 6-8 inches and he goes from having a cute girlfriend to being a lifelong incel. this is the absurity of our society-there is no way to have success in relationships when one is genetic garbage.
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Ova for garbagecells
He doesn't even look tall.
The point of it was because it's fair to say quite a few people here do need a reminder that being bald/balding in itself doesn't mean a life of loneliness. They make out that this sort of thing (bald guy getting a nice girlfirend) isn't possible. Can make life harder, sure...but when you have the following thread titles just on the first page of this forum alone I think it's safe to say that some need to reassess their thinking:
- Has anyone else accepted a life of being single/lonely?
- is this forum a doomer/incel forum?
- Balding young is a sign that you weren't meant for this life
- Is it better to be a beta provider or settle for trash or be lonely?
- Would you rather be given a cancer diagnosis or male pattern baldness diagnosis?
I find the replies interesting typical and interesting. All classic signs of negative or biased thinking that any psychologist would pick up on straight away. "oh but he's tall" (doesn't actually look that tall), "Oh but he's not that bald" (wtf), "Oh but nobody's mentioned he's a lawyer" (he just graduated from uni/college, so what?), "I don't understand it" (maybe need to reconsider your thinking and look around outside at other bald guys with partners), "Yeah but he wears a hat in ever photo" (a gross exaggeration).
Someone thanked me for posting it and if it helps a few people to think well maybe there's some hope then great.
As for the girl...cute is how the word I use to describe her. She doesn't dress in a way to try and be 'hot' which I actually find quite refreshing these days, and is a great dancer. She's actually professional rather than just someone messing about on instagram and was on the Voice USA the other day. Yeah her vids are supposed to be fun and stupid but she's talented. The guy in this vid is Derek Hough, judge on World of Dance alongside Jennifer Lopez and Ne-Yo: https://www.instagram.com/p/CN20VT6nN12/
Also, sorry I know I haven't replied to your last message. Life got busy as I started a new job. Will aim to.
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