Cute girl, bald guy. I know examples in real life but here's one from Instagram

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In that photo we have seen that hairline and we can see it. That's the point. If he were fully bald, the hairlin would be at the back of his head and we wouldn't be able to see it from the front. Or else his hair would be completely difffuse. What this guy shows us, and what we can learn, is that if a guy works on being social etc. while going bald, but before becoming bald, then he has a chance. That's something that we can all learn because most of us spent our time going bald on here asking about treatments.


NW7 with, I think, diffused donor and thinning around the nape. I have been turned down by many specialists, even ones who have worked on high Norwoods.
holy sh*t the mental gymnastics lol
 

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He doesn't even look tall.
he is a head taller than her and she appears to be in heels so he is 5'10 & probably 6'. as i said, the same man in a 5'6 body would not have a chance with women. those 4-6" additional inches make all the difference in the world.
 

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The point of it was because it's fair to say quite a few people here do need a reminder that being bald/balding in itself doesn't mean a life of loneliness. They make out that this sort of thing (bald guy getting a nice girlfirend) isn't possible. Can make life harder, sure...but when you have the following thread titles just on the first page of this forum alone I think it's safe to say that some need to reassess their thinking:

- Has anyone else accepted a life of being single/lonely?
- is this forum a doomer/incel forum?
- Balding young is a sign that you weren't meant for this life
- Is it better to be a beta provider or settle for trash or be lonely?
- Would you rather be given a cancer diagnosis or male pattern baldness diagnosis?

I find the replies interesting typical and interesting. All classic signs of negative or biased thinking that any psychologist would pick up on straight away. "oh but he's tall" (doesn't actually look that tall), "Oh but he's not that bald" (wtf), "Oh but nobody's mentioned he's a lawyer" (he just graduated from uni/college, so what?), "I don't understand it" (maybe need to reconsider your thinking and look around outside at other bald guys with partners), "Yeah but he wears a hat in ever photo" (a gross exaggeration).

Someone thanked me for posting it and if it helps a few people to think well maybe there's some hope then great.

As for the girl...cute is how the word I use to describe her. She doesn't dress in a way to try and be 'hot' which I actually find quite refreshing these days, and is a great dancer. She's actually professional rather than just someone messing about on instagram and was on the Voice USA the other day. Yeah her vids are supposed to be fun and stupid but she's talented. The guy in this vid is Derek Hough, judge on World of Dance alongside Jennifer Lopez and Ne-Yo: https://www.instagram.com/p/CN20VT6nN12/

Also, sorry I know I haven't replied to your last message. Life got busy as I started a new job. Will aim to.
i agree-hair loss alone is not a death scentence for every man. when being bald is combined with other extremely negative charateristics like being short & average or below average facially that is when it is truly over.
 

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i agree-hair loss alone is not a death scentence for every man. when being bald is combined with other extremely negative charateristics like being short & average or below average facially that is when it is truly over.
Not really anything new though to say that a guy who is 5' 6" would have a harder time in the world of dating than someone who is 5' 11". Still it's not impossible..but significantly harder.
 

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Not really anything new though to say that a guy who is 5' 6" would have a harder time in the world of dating than someone who is 5' 11". Still it's not impossible..but significantly harder.
the shorter a man is the better loking facially he needs to be to make up for his lack of height. an above average looking 5'6 man with decent hair will still have a chance. a bald, average looking 5'6 man has virtually zero chance of having success with the women he is attracted to-as i know all too well from many years of personal experience.
 

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the shorter a man is the better loking facially he needs to be to make up for his lack of height. an above average looking 5'6 man with decent hair will still have a chance. a bald, average looking 5'6 man has virtually zero chance of having success with the women he is attracted to-as i know all too well from many years of personal experience.
Sorry to hear that. I think baldness can be considered quite masculine if the guy is taller. If shorter I can see why it is harder to pull it off.
 

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Sorry to hear that. I think baldness can be considered quite masculine if the guy is taller. If shorter I can see why it is harder to pull it off.
thanks-everything is much harder for short men so going bald is just the final nail in our coffin as height is considered as the pinnacle of male masculinity. in an era where so many 5'0-5'6 women consider 5'10 men as being too short for them, being cursed with a lack of height & lack of hair is one of the worst combo's possible. as i said, as a man who has not had a single date in over 8 years i know this fact from personal experience.
 

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thanks-everything is much harder for short men so going bald is just the final nail in our coffin as height is considered as the pinnacle of male masculinity. in an era where so many 5'0-5'6 women consider 5'10 men as being too short for them, being cursed with a lack of height & lack of hair is one of the worst combo's possible. as i said, as a man who has not had a single date in over 8 years i know this fact from personal experience.
How tall are you? I'm only really like 5ft 10.5 or so but for some reason women see me as tall. Though depends where you live. When travelling in the Netherlands I felt tiny but that's because the average guy there is like 6ft 1 and many are much taller still.
 

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How tall are you? I'm only really like 5ft 10.5 or so but for some reason women see me as tall. Though depends where you live. When travelling in the Netherlands I felt tiny but that's because the average guy there is like 6ft 1 and many are much taller still.
i would kill to be 5'10 as i am a measly 5'6 and live in the US. i am ripped physically from intense weight training & a clean diet but that is meaningless without the height & face. the issue is that what women find attractive in men is entirely genetic-i.e. height, face & hair.
 

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i would kill to be 5'10 as i am a measly 5'6 and live in the US. i am ripped physically from intense weight training & a clean diet but that is meaningless without the height & face. the issue is that what women find attractive in men is entirely genetic-i.e. height, face & hair.
Hm..women definitely like muscles but i understand that a lot like or even prefer height.

Saying that, I have an old uni friend who was only 5ft 7 and he's ripped and has an OK looking wife now (they got together young though). He has very thick hair however facially isn't a good looking guy.
 

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Hm..women definitely like muscles but i understand that a lot like or even prefer height.

Saying that, I have an old uni friend who was only 5ft 7 and he's ripped and has an OK looking wife now (they got together young though). He has very thick hair however facially isn't a good looking guy.
the fact that this was a while ago (along with him having great hair) makes perfect sense as with the explosion of OLD & social media, things have gotten far worse for short men. women are not willing to settle for lesser males when they have a plethora of tall, good looking men available at the swipe of their phone screens.
 

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thanks-everything is much harder for short men so going bald is just the final nail in our coffin as height is considered as the pinnacle of male masculinity. in an era where so many 5'0-5'6 women consider 5'10 men as being too short for them, being cursed with a lack of height & lack of hair is one of the worst combo's possible. as i said, as a man who has not had a single date in over 8 years i know this fact from personal experience.
Life begins at 5‘10 and ends at Norwood 3.5
 

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Hm..women definitely like muscles but i understand that a lot like or even prefer height.

Saying that, I have an old uni friend who was only 5ft 7 and he's ripped and has an OK looking wife now (they got together young though). He has very thick hair however facially isn't a good looking guy.
Brutal hairpill
 

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Hm..women definitely like muscles but i understand that a lot like or even prefer height.

Saying that, I have an old uni friend who was only 5ft 7 and he's ripped and has an OK looking wife now (they got together young though). He has very thick hair however facially isn't a good looking guy.
Musclepill is cope
 

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When you've had women practically wetting themselves over your arms and asking to touch them you know that many like a muscular body.
They like when u have good muscle building genetics/insertions whwn u r below avg in that its cope
Only genetics matter
 
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