Cute girl, bald guy. I know examples in real life but here's one from Instagram

[mgill]

They like when u have good muscle building genetics/insertions whwn u r below avg in that its cope
Only genetics matter

there are other reasons to lift weights though-health, fitness, stress relief, as a hobby. these are the reasons i do it since if it were merely to attract women i would have given up a long time ago. i do agree that without the height, face & hair genetics being ripped alone is not going to help to attract women as they will take a tall chad with a dad body over a jacked manlet every time.

this also highlights the dichotomy between men & women as an average or below average looking women can have great success if she gets in tremendous shape. i see women like this every day at the gym. personally i would be more than esctatic with my female looksmatch but since these women are so highly sought after they are always with much taller & better lookign men than me.

 

[mgill]

When you've had women practically wetting themselves over your arms and asking to touch them you know that many like a muscular body.

i wish, lol. this has never happened to me. as was said by the other poster, i think women consider a jacked manlet to be a major cope. perhaps if i had a good face it would be a different story.

 

[jd_uk]

They like when u have good muscle building genetics/insertions whwn u r below avg in that its cope
Only genetics matter

Literally no idea what that even means.

'Good muscle building genetics'. If you have a lot of muscle then chances are you have good muscle building genetics.

 

[Wolf Pack]

The point of it was because it's fair to say quite a few people here do need a reminder that being bald/balding in itself doesn't mean a life of loneliness. They make out that this sort of thing (bald guy getting a nice girlfirend) isn't possible. Can make life harder, sure...but when you have the following thread titles just on the first page of this forum alone I think it's safe to say that some need to reassess their thinking:

- Has anyone else accepted a life of being single/lonely?
- is this forum a doomer/incel forum?
- Balding young is a sign that you weren't meant for this life
- Is it better to be a beta provider or settle for trash or be lonely?
- Would you rather be given a cancer diagnosis or male pattern baldness diagnosis?

I find the replies interesting typical and interesting. All classic signs of negative or biased thinking that any psychologist would pick up on straight away. "oh but he's tall" (doesn't actually look that tall), "Oh but he's not that bald" (wtf), "Oh but nobody's mentioned he's a lawyer" (he just graduated from uni/college, so what?), "I don't understand it" (maybe need to reconsider your thinking and look around outside at other bald guys with partners), "Yeah but he wears a hat in ever photo" (a gross exaggeration).

Someone thanked me for posting it and if it helps a few people to think well maybe there's some hope then great.

As for the girl...cute is how the word I use to describe her. She doesn't dress in a way to try and be 'hot' which I actually find quite refreshing these days, and is a great dancer. She's actually professional rather than just someone messing about on instagram and was on the Voice USA the other day. Yeah her vids are supposed to be fun and stupid but she's talented. The guy in this vid is Derek Hough, judge on World of Dance alongside Jennifer Lopez and Ne-Yo: https://www.instagram.com/p/CN20VT6nN12/

Also, sorry I know I haven't replied to your last message. Life got busy as I started a new job. Will aim to.

Fair enough, if the thread is to help people, good on you! Some of those are retarded titles for sure, because I don't read the forum much anymore I kind of forget how annoying it is to see them discussions. I saw you had made a post and after our fruitful pm discussion, I decided to comment. I will say though that in some cases, people do generally have it hard but it's no excuse for those threads or copes about he's not balding/money etc. Serious noticeable baldness is almost unheard of in under 23s, so I can see how frustrated someone may be in missing out a normal fullhead life during that period even if they pull it off. Girls at that age would be very difficult, that said it's no excuse for those ridiculous titles...however, if you stack enough negatives you can see why someone would be screwed in dating -baldness, short, ugly, poor career, weak personality/mental health etc. I think a lot of the frustration stems from not being in the attractive bracket and it seems like you are from things you said, they are not from what they are posting unless it's purely a mental problem which is may be.

Of course I have no idea about the background of the users and some are older too at which stage hair is not the be all and end all unless it drastically alters your looks. Those titles mainly sound like someone living online as opposed to being mentally adjusted. I do feel that while a fullhead of hair doesn't matter for over 25s anywhere as near much as younger guys, it does kind of increase in value with all women too. Well, at least in my experience there would be a big difference being balding or not. Then there is the "feeling happy with what you see in the mirror" issue which is nothing to do with dating, women or validation and quite complex.

Ah I was talking about her face when I said cute as opposed to sexy/hot. I didn't mind her dress sense at all though I do prefer girls a little more elegant/cool (whichever) with some subtle makeup touches, peak of femininity for me. I've just seen your reply, no worries, stay well, will reply to you at the weekend probably. Definitely the guy you linked shows that all that matters is looking attractive enough and being socially and mentally normal for success in dating. But as I said earlier, baldness may not have destroyed your looks but maybe some people were wrecked by it or perhaps they were ugly and then balding on top etc. Add in bdd, personality traits/disorders and aiming for girls their good looking mates get, well they will always be unhappy. Not having a stable girlfriend/wife that you like in every way can cause loneliness for sure.

 

[czecha]

Literally no idea what that even means.

'Good muscle building genetics'. If you have a lot of muscle then chances are you have good muscle building genetics.

 

[jd_uk]

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Wtf, lol

Please tell me you don't think that's a good graphic.