Dating is not meant to be easy, even for guys that get matches..

[Oknow]

Matched with a girl. Initially got off to a great start, exchanged numbers, flirting and got onto WhatsApp. Date lined up.

2 days in chatting she asked me a question, ‘tell me something interesting about yourself’ I then said ‘I’m awesome’ in a half assed way, vibe suddenly changed and then eventually I got ghosted and blocked after I left another short answer. She told me something I responded with ‘haha’

That goes to show, it isn’t all about looks for women, I’m pretty sure, if I kept answering her questions in a way she liked our date would have gone ahead as originally planned. It’s how you make them generally feel too.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

I disagree. Looks get you to the conversation. If you were ugly then there is no whatsapp conversation for you to fail in the first place.

 

[Oknow]

I disagree. Looks get you to the conversation. If you were ugly then there is no whatsapp conversation for you to fail in the first place.

that’s not the point - looks is important but chat is even more important

 

[doubleindemnity]

Looks are everything. There would be no story here without the looks. Of course, people you find online are a bit more sensitive to this chat nonsense and every chat you have is a chance for you to mess up and get found out. But bald guys get what you get as soon as they say "hello" or "good evening". Bald guys get in shape, use their best photographs and run out of people to swipe in highly populated cities.

 

[Capone]

that’s not the point - looks is important but chat is even more important

What would your reply be now in hindsight?

 

[doubleindemnity]

What would your reply be now in hindsight?

There are always just two choices. Or three if you count not answering. That's sincere or cocky. He would have just said something sincere. This stuff isn't complicated. Have hair, and have fun with a romantic interest and it's all good. This stuff is much simpler than all the dating overthinkers make it out to be.

 

[Oknow]

What would your reply be now in hindsight?

replied, tell her something interesting about myself then ask her to tell me something interesting about herself. Probably not give a closed response afterwards ‘haha’ either

Keep on communicating in that way.

 

[Oknow]

Looks are everything. There would be no story here without the looks. Of course, people you find online are a bit more sensitive to this chat nonsense and every chat you have is a chance for you to mess up and get found out. But bald guys get what you get as soon as they say "hello" or "good evening". Bald guys get in shape, use their best photographs and run out of people to swipe in highly populated cities.

you and others are so fixated on looks that you have completely missed the point of this thread.

You have guys on here that think that the only thing you need going for you is to be a Chad to get an automatic bang, when clearly building emotional intimacy is just as important

 

[doubleindemnity]

you and others are so fixated on looks that you have completely missed the point of this thread.

You have guys on here that think that the only thing you need going for you is to be a Chad to get an automatic bang, when clearly building emotional intimacy is just as important

How is it just as important when one of them is essential and the other evidently is not? Hair and looks win every single time. I didn't want to believe it but it's true.

I'm a bald loser reading the thread so the only point that I can get from the thread is "I am not bald and I got a match on a dating service." I shouldn't have even read further than that.

 

[Oknow]

How is it just as important when one of them is essential and the other evidently is not? Hair and looks win every single time. I didn't want to believe it but it's true.

I'm a bald loser reading the thread so the only point that I can get from the thread is "I am not bald and I got a match on a dating service." I shouldn't have even read further than that.

well hair and looks didn’t stop her from blocking / unmatching me

 

[doubleindemnity]

well hair and looks didn’t stop her from blocking / unmatching me

But they allowed her to do it. Without the hair, nobody would be able to block you because nobody would match you. Your point is not getting across because bald guys see things completely differently to you. A bald guy would feel very lucky to have 1 match/phone number in 3 months and so he would think very carefully about every message that he sends.

 

[Oknow]

But they allowed her to do it. Without the hair, nobody would be able to block you because nobody would match you. Your point is not getting across because bald guys see things completely differently to you. A bald guy would feel very lucky to have 1 match/phone number in 3 months and so he would think very carefully about every message that he sends.

They allowed her to do what ?
Being attractive and having hair?

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

But they allowed her to do it. Without the hair, nobody would be able to block you because nobody would match you. Your point is not getting across because bald guys see things completely differently to you. A bald guy would feel very lucky to have 1 match/phone number in 3 months and so he would think very carefully about every message that he sends.

I think it depends of how do you manage to look while bald. If you try to grow out f*****g NW5 then it shouldn't be a f*****g surprise that no one wants to match you lmao, although if you shave/buzz your head and have better looking clothes (I do not mean more expensive) and get in shape then I think you will be okay. Just to let you know, after buzzing people tell me that NOW I am in my peak appearance. The worst thing is to wallow in your misery

 

[doubleindemnity]

I think it depends of how do you manage to look while bald. If you try to grow out f*****g NW5 then it shouldn't be a f*****g surprise that no one wants to match you lmao, although if you shave/buzz your head and have better looking clothes (I do not mean more expensive) and get in shape then I think you will be okay. Just to let you know, after buzzing people tell me that NOW I am in my peak appearance. The worst thing is to wallow in your misery

I've seen it first hand that having a good head shape, dressing well doesn't change much. What Norwood are you now with the buzzed head?

 

[Oknow]

I've seen it first hand that having a good head shape, dressing well doesn't change much. What Norwood are you now with the buzzed head?

lol this is not the point of this thread!

fucks sake

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

I've seen it first hand that having a good head shape, dressing well doesn't change much. What Norwood are you now with the buzzed head?

NW3 with diffusing head on whole top. Of course head shape and dressing well will change things because with good style you will at least look presentable so it will not be an embarassment to go out with you lmao. If you dress well people will treat you better, so at least give it a try (after shaving or buzzing)

 

[Feelsbadman]

dating sucks unless youre good looking and/or wealthy

 

[vondoom]

What would your reply be now in hindsight?

“horny?”^^

 

[vondoom]

lol this is not the point of this thread!

fucks sake

for him that is the purpose of every thread^^

 

[Oknow]

for him that is the purpose of every thread^^

and he wonders why he’s single