I think all of your comments are off-target and at odds with politeness.
So passve aggressive comments like Janey's crazy and needs a psychiatrist now. Well, of course, I have been working with a psychiatrist for six years now and that won't ever stop. Not to mention that bludgeoning someone to try to get them into theory comes from the egotism of the person making the statement. Sol needs to get a f*****g grip. Why would you write several emails about the person and stir things up again. Literally neither Janey nor Will has interest in you nor bothers to rebut.
If you can point to any pseudo-science endorsed by Janey, I will gladly retract it. The truth is that you can't because Janey always wrote in legalese hedging her bets. Everything I advocated was similar to Bridgeburn and completely within the standards and notions of MtF HRT practice. Even for a transgender person, I know a lot about HRT which was apparent. Ask Tato if what I said was based on pseudo-science; it was clearly not. I have never tried to convince anyone to do HRT for hair and indeed the opposite, I was arguing that all of us take the notion of non-trans people taking estrogen far too lightly. Yes, everyone in this rude could probably benefit from professionals. Figuring this stuff out, risk and probability-wise is far from apparent.
So no need to hound someone already complying with therapy and even medication requests and requirements. I dispute none of that and I have no goddess-damn idea what the f*** I am. I know I either am trans or was trans and I am proud of that. This is hard to; not easy.
Let poor Will write something that is long and rambling at least before you tar and feather them. With respect to the other contention, well things are not always straightforward in life. I never have wanted to or tried to use the transgender communities' good name nor state anything but the most general propositions. As Will I claim no normative precepts. I am not working to impugn transpeople but rather to impugn people like my myself who might not be transgender from manipulating themselves into going on HRT just for hair.
I have never like John DeFool. I hate his stupid avatar and I hate his wretched failure and I hate his lack of manners. That being said, I might have instead of dropping an F bomb merely mentioned that what he had said really hurt my feelings. I truly came back to thank Bridgeburn and then all of the ruckus is what delays my logging off.
To the insensitive person who mentioned my looks or Janey's. You have no idea what you are talking about. People who were "chads" in high school know. Because the major effects of HRT mirror youth, and because of beard removal, most of us look far younger. My mirror perceives a youngish face that can currently pass as male and as female with minimal adjustment by while also not appearing stereotypical about any aspect.
So yes, I saw lots of women naked all during my life and they were excited to have me see and mostly came to me. I know full well how I look in terms of being a 57 year old male with a four year younger ex-wife. I am not saying that I am Brad Pitt or Juliette Lewis anymore but I continue to be attractive both as male and female. Conventionally speaking, Janey has a great ***; that's factual more than contextual. In her wig with makeup, Janey has male suitors and female suitors. It's fun. My tits are amazing; again there's pictorial and anecdotal proof of that so there's no point in being objectively rude and of wrongful opinion about Janey. She is ruthless related to her own looks, clothes, makeup and well-being. I see every flaw but I also have big clear mirrors and I am an autogynephilic. Nobody tell me that for 57 years old, thinking I am younger, I mean, plenty of guys would bang me but it just doesn't interest me unless someone begs me. I am asexual which is protective of me from various facets of XY interactions especially with the police.
Janey at the end, yes, tried to get kicked off on purpose because she felt stuck. The second issue is that no, HairLossTalk.com had nothing to do with her charges being dropped; that was all Janey's doing. What it had to do with is that normally Janey would have checked herself into a residential therapeutic center for a couple of weeks or a months so as to dissipate her manic state. Here Janey just didn't take that step and her mania did appear objectively alarming because it was. She feared jail and losing the children permanently.
Neither Janey nor I are into politics. I respect all transpeople and advocate for their rights and always will. I am retreating a bit because it's in my family's best interests and I honestly don't care if I can't wear tights and skirts anymore, well not much.
So, I have no pretension nor interest in hanging out. Been there, done that. I coached my score of people and it's enough and I know what I know and I have peace since my sh*t works in the post-season like Billy Beane's. My hair is agonizingly slow in front but it has all already filled in so it's just a matter of six to 12 months of patience. Within my parameters, should I ever choose to present as female, Janey is quite easily "whipped into shape" and probably needs little more than some filler. If I got a female facelift, I would intuitively pass. At this point though, I might not want to feminize any longer if that's even possible. I think that a person can get SRS and still not be trans if they do so privately. I note the following in that Lucifer remains a Wiccan and Pagan ideal of beauty and celestial beauty but also androgyny and so does Janey after all:
Just as every cop is a criminal
And all the sinners saints
As heads is tails
Just call me Lucifer
'Cause I'm in need of some restraint
So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politeness
Or I'll lay your soul to waste
Hecate preserve us all,
Janey