friends with hairloss and how well they are doing

[seb]

LOL.It is not shallow if a woman doesn't like a man with no hair on top of his head.A human being is supposed too have hair on their head.Socially,asthetically,visually etc,being bald is downright strange.My head looks like a freshly circumsized penis...Who is going too find that attractive.I certainly wouldn't if I was a woman.
99% of the time when you see a bald/balding man with a woman,they had met BEFORE he went bald/receeded.In time she will realize she can do better and finish the relationship,thats not being shallow on the womans part,thats wanting a more socially acceptable partner.

 

[s.a.f]

Meanwhile in HPM and Sebs world ....

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[HairPieceMan]

bullshit.

there was a report they did on short men dating

http://www.google.co.uk/#sclient=psy-ab ... 41&bih=677

if you find the written artical, somewhere they said they made a 5 6 man a doctor, champion skier, super rich, loves kids and still most women said "he's too short" no matter how "social" he is or how "cool" or how much money he has.

that level of shortness is a HUGE and REAL dealbreaker for a good 90% of women.

as far as pre-maturely balding goes, when it comes to young women well that's up for debate but it sure will be a negative, height is a real problem and every guy would rather drive a crap car and be 6 0 at than a ferari and be 5 4 and be "more social", end of the day your way too short for a good 90% of women, youll have to find some 5 0 women that never wears heels and doesnt mind the height of the man that much. will be FAR harder that life than being 6 0 and being a "loser" because you are on minimum wage, really no one cares that much.

and besides, how does being on minimum wage make a guy a loser, i dont think that makes a guy a loser, that's lame to think that.

but in context of women being 6 0 and earning £20K a year is better than being 5 4 and earning £60K a year, your off the radar for most women before you even open your mouth at that height ("too short for me") ,as shown on the 20/20 report.

in fact there was one guy who was 5 3 on the report and NO WOMEN would touch or be seen with him socially no matter if he was a millionaire or something.

 

[seb]

Not a bald man in sight,I wish that was my world.

 

[seb]

Being short is worse than being bald IMO,Although both are crippling in their own individual way.

 

[s.a.f]

If you want to believe that the its your choice to waste your 20's as I did. But the many bald guys out there with freinds and G/F's who actually enjoy their lives just prove my point.
90% of bald guys are not sat at home every fri/sat night.

 

[HairPieceMan]

bullshit again.

i went to a club one night and i noticed a distinct lack of bald guys versus say the street, that would imply a good 95% of the real life bald guys are not enjoying a full social life in the bars/clubs.

now im not saying bars/clubs are everything, but if there not comfortable there are they comfortable in other social situations, i think not.

 

[HairPieceMan]

If you want to believe that the its your choice to waste your 20's as I did. But the many bald guys out there with freinds and G/F's who actually enjoy their lives just prove my point.
90% of bald guys are not sat at home every fri/sat night.

then why did you spend all that time and money getting transplants in your early 30s when you could have just been fully bald at 25 until death and have lots of friends and good looking girlfriends.

obviously you are part of stay at home bald guys just like me, dudemon etc.

how can you fight for baldness not being a problem when you yourself refuse to embrace that life socially.

 

[s.a.f]

If you want to believe that the its your choice to waste your 20's as I did. But the many bald guys out there with freinds and G/F's who actually enjoy their lives just prove my point.
90% of bald guys are not sat at home every fri/sat night.

then why did you spend all that time and money getting transplants in your early 30s when you could have just been fully bald at 25 until death and have lots of friends and good looking girlfriends.

obviously you are part of stay at home bald guys just like me, dudemon etc.

how can you fight for baldness not being a problem when you yourself refuse to embrace that life socially.

Because I'm admitting that the problem lay more with me than with the hairloss.
Hairloss is'nt/was'nt my only issue it was just the killer blow that finished off any chance of me living a normal life. I was already halfway to being a social recluse before the hairloss struck.
What I'm saying is that having the view that hairloss = social unaceptability is more damaging than the hairloss itself. A bald guy who gets out there and gets on with life is going to achieve more than a insecure guy in a wig and shoe lifts.
I'm not saying that going bald is nothing it is a handicap in terms of attracting women on looks alone. But I dont know anyone who would shun a guy just for being bald.
A bald guy who does'nt let if effect him will do ok.
Look at a guy like UCman everybody on here thinks that he looks ok as a bald guy, nobody would look at him as a anything other than a normal guy who just happens to be bald.
And there are plenty of young guys joining this site who are allowing it to devestate their lives when it need'nt.

 

[HairPieceMan]

but it does though.

what happens if you have a GF when you are 18, then at 21 she sees you but, OH NO, your horrendously balding.

i had a similar-ish situation of that myself, it was the worst feeling ever, she had that "I have crossed you off the list" look about her.

and yes people are SHOCKED to see this about 2 decades earlier than socailly expected, because i went sly soo fast people kept asking me why i am have no hair, and if i was loosing my hair etc.

it was a bit stupid because people didnt watch me go bald in the traditional sense, i got rid of my hair really quikly in my balding pattern.

 

[HairPieceMan]

oh and i call bullshit on the whole "doing better without the hairpiece", that is a load of rubbish, i would do terribly with no hair,and do well with hair.

you really think if you had a stronger mental attitude you would do better than being insecure and getting your transplants.

you keep harping on about the problem being your mental attitude, and yud do better to accept it rather than give yourself hair by wig or transplant, so my question is do YOU think youd do better if you just were bald and pretend to be happy than try to fix it and be insecure.

why not develop that mental attitude TODAY, and shave off your stitched in hair, re enter society because at the end of the day, the problem is within you, and you'd do better if you embraced it.

go ahead, i am waiting.

 

[Primo]

HPM you really do talk a lot of jazz sometimes...

The common theme that runs through all your posts seems to be that a slick bald head on a young man = socially unacceptable.

All you seem to do is mock sly guys illustrating how awful they look with stupidly extreme, unrepresentative examples of wacky looking sly rock stars who look nothing like your normal sly guy on the street.

Do you really think a hairpiece is anymore socially acceptable to non hair loss sufferers?

The same type of lowlifes who gave SAF a hard time when he was sly are going to give it to you 10 times harder, when they realise you're wearing a piece.

Sure if you're sly you will have a harder time attracting girls etc etc, but by repelling the superficial girls who hate baldness from the outset it does make things a lot simpler, fair, honest and transparent in the dating game....

You on the otherhand are hiding one huge secret under that piece for the rest of your life, living in constant insecurity.

You're going to meet many women who seem sweet and lovely right up until the last moment when they realise you're wearing a piece, at which point they will suddenly transform into hideous, superficial b****s who find your secret hair system regime absolutely repulsive......

I think you already know this too and probably feel the need to lash out at sly guys repeatedly in order to make you feel better about yourself and the constant fear you live with...

 

[HairPieceMan]

yes but i either repulse women with my bald head or just pretend i have hair.

oh and it IS socially unacceptable to be balding in your youth.

have you not seen any newspaper articals on prince william, i saw one recently, they totally added hair to him, that guy is balding really badly these days, but they keep photo-shopping a full head of hair on him like he was at 21, even to this day when hes 27 and balding badly, all his new pictures in the local newspapers are fake added hair digitally.

they photoshop vin diesel to have a hairline in mens health magazine all the time, because people DONT WANT HIM TO BE BALD.

they fix his baldness in movies as well, even in his early 40s.

society is NOT INTERESTED in seeing young white balding guys, socially it is THE MOST jarring expereince for people to look at/socially interact with.

in fact there was a guy at my old work who was sly bald, it was really hard to interact with him, he looked so bad, funny i was bald to, i thought "i need to get out of this mess", it was really bad to see it on the receiving end, especially since we were both bald

 

[s.a.f]

After strip hair transplant's there is no going back but what I'm saying is that if any guy is letting it ruin his life the way that many on here are then he must have bigger issues than just hairloss alone.
Why are there so many bald guys out there living good lives having girlfreinds if its the social death sentance that you seem to imply?
And despite now being a Norwood 1 and 5'8" in a wig and lifts how well are you doing with the ladies?

 

[s.a.f]

yes but i either repulse women with my bald head or just pretend i have hair.

oh and it IS socially unacceptable to be balding in your youth.

have you not seen any newspaper articals on prince william, i saw one recently, they totally added hair to him, that guy is balding really badly these days, but they keep photo-shopping a full head of hair on him like he was at 21, even to this day when hes 27 and balding badly, all his new pictures in the local newspapers are fake added hair digitally.

they photoshop vin diesel to have a hairline in mens health magazine all the time, because people DONT WANT HIM TO BE BALD.

they fix his baldness in movies as well, even in his early 40s.

society is NOT INTERESTED in seeing young white balding guys, socially it is THE MOST jarring expereince for people to look at/socially interact with.

in fact there was a guy at my old work who was sly bald, it was really hard to interact with him, he looked so bad, funny i was bald to, i thought "i need to get out of this mess", it was really bad to see it on the receiving end, especially since we were both bald

What about the fact that they also photoshop even the hottest female celebrities in every magazine? They slim them down to size 0 and inflate their breasts ect ect.
Does that mean that every woman out there who does'nt fit this catagory is going to have no life with no guys interested in her?

This is the real world not a Hollywood movie there are bald guys in their 20's everywhere, sure they may be the minority but their not social outcasts and freaks like you claim. Maybe they dont get the 10's but then again hardly any NW1's do either.

PS I dont see any photoshopped pics of Wills anywhere, just do a google image search and you'll see him bald as ever. :dunno:

And I work with a few bald guys and they're just guys who happen to be bald this 'people cant talk to them' theory is laughable.

You make it seem like all bald guys should be rounded up and sent to live in concentration camps where they wont bother the rest of normal society.

Maybe they should also do the same with gingers or people with zits, sticky out ears, people who wear glasses ... None of these people fit the media's socialy acceptable list either.

 

[HairPieceMan]

well im just getting into a club/social life now, in a few months i plan to be chatting up the ladies fluently, but i have been to a club or two and getting used to it, funny there was one bald guy in a club last week, but every other guy had hair so i felt bad for him, because i am the same, hiding in my wig, but is it that big a deal, when 100+ young males around me have hair? i don't think so, its not as if i'm faking a massive thing, just a basic social thing.

i thought about contacting an old gf of mine who liked me with hair, but who knows, i know she will hate me bald, because she isnt 50 and all that.

tbh i dont know what's going to happen, but at least i will look normal/age appropiate for the next two decades.

on wills it was a local newspaper shot i saw last week, perfect NW1.not even a hint of hairloss. he was standing beside his wife.

 

[HairPieceMan]

lol there is nothing wrong with zits, or ginger hair.

they are socailly acceptable.

but white guys with no crown, is NOT socially acceptable, unless they are senior citizens.

a 15 year old white boy can have zits,
can a 15 year old white boy have no hair

NO

can a 25 year old white young man have zits, yes
can a 25 year old white young man have no hair, NO

not unless he's a senior citizen.

 

[HairPieceMan]

ok its socially acceptable but its not the norm, you will get A LOT of discrimation for being bald at 25 vs 65.

people will look at you with a question mark above their head "young, white and bald"?

SOCIAL PARIAH.

you are a social target

 

[s.a.f]

well im just getting into a club/social life now, in a few months i plan to be chatting up the ladies fluently, but i have been to a club or two and getting used to it, funny there was one bald guy in a club last week, but every other guy had hair so i felt bad for him, because i am the same, hiding in my wig, but is it that big a deal, when 100+ young males around me have hair? i don't think so, its not as if i'm faking a massive thing, just a basic social thing.

i thought about contacting an old gf of mine who liked me with hair, but who knows, i know she will hate me bald, because she isnt 50 and all that.

tbh i dont know what's going to happen, but at least i will look normal/age appropiate for the next two decades.

on wills it was a local newspaper shot i saw last week, perfect NW1.not even a hint of hairloss. he was standing beside his wife.

Are you saying that this bald guy was being shunned? and only 1 bald guy in a whole club, was it under 21's night?
A woman putting on abit of lipstick and mascara is a basic social thing a man glueing a wig to his head is not.

No offence but from the image I get from your posts and the insecurities you have about yourself I cant see you getting women in 2 months or even 2 years time. Not until you become comfortable in your own skin.

 

[HairPieceMan]

this is coming from the guy that actively ignored women when he was 25 + bald, then got transplants in 30s and now is feeling ok to get girls.

fact is, you and I are the same, afraid of presenting ourselves to females without a good head of hair.

you ignored females bald, as did I.

having a full head of hair and being young is a basic social thing, its what we do when we are young

young = attractive, vitality, hair

old = balding, saggy body etc.

ok i know im faking it with wig, but in this day and age its the only option, i said having hair is a basic social tool, not how i managed to obtain the hair.

also id rather fake hair dating, than be balding and think its ok to date girls balding in my youth, the very social idea of that is insane, because im not old. im young,simple as.

i have no choice.