friends with hairloss and how well they are doing

[seb]

Whats the point of worrying about a few lost follicules then...Infact whats the point of anything if this meaningless life is all there is.

 

[s.a.f]

why what have they done, fuked up their career for girls, and how did they, what did they do?

Geezus, have you ever read a newspaper? Or do you just look at the pictures of celebrities?

These were men who ran countries who had power and authority. Men who could govern the way millions of people lived and spend Billions. With this lifestyle comes immense priveledge that even movie stars and celebrities dont get to experience.
Can you imagine what it takes to get to this position? and despite all this they could'nt stop themselves from going after w****s for the thrill of it. And when it gets found out their reputation is finished and they're careers are over, because the public dont want to see these men as being susceptable to the basic urges that all men have.

 

[HairPieceMan]

and @saf you are being vain.

why not just be bald at 25 and date overweight women.

then your love would be real, instead of leading some fantasy where you have great genetic hair and you are with a girl you like but im guessing you woulnd't be with that girl without you're expensive transplant job.

so hair is a form of vanity for a man, come on we all know if we are balding we are heading into the undesirable category of dating which means below avg looking women or large women.

fact is your life is fantasy, a lie for females.

you and I are not too disimilar, we are all slaves.

 

[s.a.f]

Whats the point of worrying about a few lost follicules then...Infact whats the point of anything if this meaningless life is all there is.

Well exactly this is what happens when people get hung up about everything. Trying to make the most out of what you have. You can sit around moping or get out there and do your best. Basicly you've got to put everything in perspective.

 

[seb]

Can I still mope whilst doing my best?

 

[s.a.f]

and @saf you are being vain.

why not just be bald at 25 and date overweight women.

then your love would be real, instead of leading some fantasy where you have great genetic hair and you are with a girl you like but im guessing you woulnd't be with that girl without you're expensive transplant job.

so hair is a form of vanity for a man, come on we all know if we are balding we are heading into the undesirable category of dating which means below avg looking women or large women.

fact is your life is fantasy, a lie for females.

you and I are not too disimilar, we are all slaves.

But I'm admitting to all that, I had major insecurity issues which led to me thinking the way that you do.

Whats the major difference with women now compared to when I was bald? Not much really its just that before I was too insecure to even consider anything other than freindship.

Yes I know I must be vain or insecure to have done the hair transplant's. I know the problem is with my way of thinking my insecurity and my perception rather than with reality and society.

 

[s.a.f]

Can I still mope whilst doing my best?

You might suprise yourself one day, I think you'd achieve more in all areas if you had a less negative outlook.

 

[seb]

True,but then again I wouldn't be the essence of who I am as an individual,thus going against the grain of what I am,always have been,and always will be,a miserable bast***. I know you will say you can change,but we are creatures of habit.I think(certainly in my case),that there is some truth in the saying,"happy being unhappy".

 

[Michael84]

Yeah, judging from the opinion of the most of the local posters, the world spins around ladies only.

A week ago I met my ex class mates from the university. There were 5 of us. They all had very fine and thick hair like many years ago, nothing changed. I was even surprised by this fact because they are all 25 (I am 27) and all are NW1 without any signs of male pattern baldness like they were many years ago. Except me. So, I was waiting for the moment when someone would mention my hair, although I tried to forget about it and have some fun.
And it finally happened, and I was explained by one of my friends that the hair was thin on top. Others asked him to stop talking about it and it sounded like if I was dying of cancer and it was a bad manner to mention it. I appreciated my friend's attention and after that the evening was partially ruined.

 

[seb]

I dont believe its vain too want the best for yourself,as long as you are doing for YOURSELF,not for validation from society.In this case in point,wanting hair(which is a natural compound) is not being vain.Now desiring a flash car,wanting too rich etc IS vanity.

 

[gascoigne]

Ah, both Seb and HPM have same opnions as me, but there is a problem when it comes to agreeing in direct comunication. Young bald guys are in big trouble when attracting young girls, and that is just a truth. For ones who are not lazy, read some of the facts in my topic "Trough the eyes of girl".

 

[HairPieceMan]

yes but im vain/insecure as well.

anyone that sees me with some decent looking girl in her 20s knows i wouldnt stand a chance without my hairpiece becuase id be horendously balding if i grew my natural hair out.

i guess im lying to ensure i dont end up with a crap life.

its akin to a homeless person that manages to find shelter somehow but its all a marage and he is still out in the cold, its a fantasy but it feels real, to feel young with a full head of hair, to be with a "good" looking girl (i admit im vain), the basic dream 98% of the young male adult population have for granted ( a full head of hair and a chance with a good looking girl), but us pre-mature male pattern baldness people simply dont have.

or a short guy that moves to indonisia so he -in persepctive- grows 4 inches.

arguably i could take all my money, move to a poor country and buy 12 18 year old wives and be done with it, it woudln matter if i was balding, or short. and in fact BOTH.

lets keep in mind saf you are 5 9, me 5 4.5 (164cms), just keep that in mind before you judge me on the lifts. another layer of insecurity? perhaps, but what would YOU do in that situation, probably the same as me.

its another option.

but some men are crazy when it comes to girls, like take mail order bride, some guys do that sh*t, pay £20K and these guy are 5 10 NW1s and look great but for some reason claim they cant get girls.

so it doesn't suprise me that young balding guys are wearing wigs these days, or shoe lifts if there like stupid short like me 5 5.

its all crazy sh*t, and baldness fucks us over its really easy to say "its cause im balding she doesnt like me" its not that out of the ordinary and is a perfect logical/emotional conclusion to come to since MOST guys in the room have a full head of hair, and likely all her bfs in the past arent balding since she is young and he is young, yet YOU are not young because your balding in your youth and its really strange and not normal in the dating world at all.

 

[slipy]

SAF-One of my goals is too build my business up too a viable,reputable level.
Regarding you stating this is the only life.I hope not,I am holding out for a better exsistance beyond this physical,materialistic,self-absorbing one.

And forget about ascending to heaven or some other ridiculous idea, when that spark of life is gone you are dead and whats left here is just a rotting body. 40 yrs ago you were nowhere, you did'nt exist and thats the exact same state you'll be in when your life is over. - The world will still go on without you.

how the f*** can you state that so surely? you can't know that for sure? i believe that soul doesn't die with the materlistic body and were only here to learn but i don't claim it because i don't know the truth, neither do you.

 

[s.a.f]

Something you have to realise though is that people soon get used to things. If you want to be able to pick up a stranger at a bar in 10 mins then yeah you have to have the whole package when it comes to appearance but you'd be suprised how many guys cant do that.

Many guys meet their partners socially through freinds ect and even if you're bald people soon get used to you as being bald. It might be the first thing they notice whenthey first see you but when they get used to you they get used to that. And they dont see a young bald/short/fat guy they just see the person they know.
And as its been mentioned on here before how much do you think people are taking notice of those around them. How much do you think anyone really cares about what you look like you're just another person.

 

[s.a.f]

SAF-One of my goals is too build my business up too a viable,reputable level.
Regarding you stating this is the only life.I hope not,I am holding out for a better exsistance beyond this physical,materialistic,self-absorbing one.

And forget about ascending to heaven or some other ridiculous idea, when that spark of life is gone you are dead and whats left here is just a rotting body. 40 yrs ago you were nowhere, you did'nt exist and thats the exact same state you'll be in when your life is over. - The world will still go on without you.

how the f*ck can you state that so surely? you can't know that for sure? i believe that soul doesn't die with the materlistic body and were only here to learn but i don't claim it because i don't know the truth, neither do you.

Well there is zero evidence to back up anything else. You could just aswell claim that we all go off to care bear land.
I'd rather go on logic than just believe ancient stories that have no actual evidence behind them.

 

[HairPieceMan]

lol carebear land.

but in all honesty i disagree, i think people ARE taking note of the fact that you have pre-mature male pattern baldness in your life.

and stop comparing this crap to big ears or being overly tall or some sh*t.

no one gives a crap if someone has big ears when people look at young white men the only thing that can f*** them over is have pre-mature male pattern baldness or just being pretty ugly to begin with like in high school but that's pretty rare and even then they still look age appropiate in their 20s.

 

[seb]

Hpm-My heart goes out too you,you are really messed up.I mean that sincerely.

 

[s.a.f]

People are too preoccupied with themselves, the fact that you're bald does'nt really matter that much to them. No one is going to obsess about your lack of hair but you.

 

[HairPieceMan]

bullshit.

people are taking note of the fact that bobby charlton and elton john are balding pre-maturely.

its "funny" to them.

stop pretending that peopel aren't looking at mens hairlines.

in fact i read an online artical that said "it seems as if the world has been watching jude laws hairline for the past decade"

yes, people are watching, and they are judging you on your hairline, and thinking negative thoughts about you as you recede into baldness, and once you enter full baldness, you are viewed as nothing but a piece of sh*t because your hairline is at the back of your head.

 

[gascoigne]

and @saf you are being vain.

why not just be bald at 25 and date overweight women.

then your love would be real, instead of leading some fantasy where you have great genetic hair and you are with a girl you like but im guessing you woulnd't be with that girl without you're expensive transplant job.

so hair is a form of vanity for a man, come on we all know if we are balding we are heading into the undesirable category of dating which means below avg looking women or large women.

fact is your life is fantasy, a lie for females.

you and I are not too disimilar, we are all slaves.

Very, very nice.