Hair Loss Is Getting The Best Of Me

Patrick_Bateman

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Damn, you seem to really know a lot about this girl from reading only one post. One post, son!

The assumptions you made about this, lonely, suffering girl were, quite frankly.. beyond ridiculous.

Let's just calm down and consider this girls feelings. She is probably in a terribly dark place at the moment and can't even bring herself to log on.
I hope she's eating and keeping her strength up in this tumultuous time in her life.
The last thing she needs right now is personal abuse from you, or anyone else on this supposed "support forum."

It would be in this girl's best interests if you gave her situation some thought.

Appeal to your better self, for once.
Thanks.
You are the one making assumptions. She's not f*****g lonely, read her f*****g post. And this time try giving it some actual thought. She gets hit on all the time (writes blah blah blah after), she recently broke up with her bf (writes lol after).

"Terribly dark place"?????? Are you f*****g kidding me? She has regrowth on minoxidil, she'll be back to a fullhead in a few months. The only problem she has ever faced is solved. Chads bedroom is the only dark place she's in.

She's not logging on because she probably forgot she even made the post. When your life is filled with positive validation you tend to forget that you complained to people who would love to have your "problem".

Consider her feelings? I actually did, you should have seen the post I originally typed out. I'm just the only one daring to not suck her dick, the post wasn't mean. It was just the only one facing the facts and not sucking up.

Are you really trying to shame me into feeling sorry for this female, who's basically living the dream? f*****g lol. She hasn't even replied to your fedora tipping. Give up, she won't be having sex with you for being nice.
 

sunchyme1

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Oh yeah the Innocent ones and naked are kind of good, but there is lots of sugar and preservatives. Green smoothie and fruit smoothie are not the same thing :D
Maybe I will go full Christian Bale and try the : 1 coffee, 1 apple, water diet soon!
Or, I could accept my celibate fate and go full Macaroni and his f*****g delicious pretzel stuff:D

innocent are lovely man. green ones too! i dont like the yellow ones....tropical stuff, mango, pineapple etc yuck

lol macaroni is a beast. @macaroni have you ever had a smoothie? anything healthy ever? :D
 

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You are the one making assumptions. She's not f*****g lonely, read her f*****g post. And this time try giving it some actual thought. She gets hit on all the time (writes blah blah blah after), she recently broke up with her bf (writes lol after).

"Terribly dark place"?????? Are you f*****g kidding me? She has regrowth on minoxidil, she'll be back to a fullhead in a few months. The only problem she has ever faced is solved. Chads bedroom is the only dark place she's in.

She's not logging on because she probably forgot she even made the post. When your life is filled with positive validation you tend to forget that you complained to people who would love to have your "problem".

Consider her feelings? I actually did, you should have seen the post I originally typed out. I'm just the only one daring to not suck her dick, the post wasn't mean. It was just the only one facing the facts and not sucking up.

Are you really trying to shame me into feeling sorry for this female, who's basically living the dream? f*****g lol. She hasn't even replied to your fedora tipping. Give up, she won't be having sex with you for being nice.
I don't feel like having sex with this girl anyway.
The condition she is in would make me feel as if I was taking advantage of her if I did reward her with sex.
It's obvious this girl is at rock bottom. She needs more then just sex at the moment.

Sex might make her feel good for a couple of hours but after that.... well, she is back living her hairlosss mental hell, day in day out.

That's why she needs the support of all the members of this forum, and that includes you.
You would really be doing this poor woman/girl.. whatever, a huge favour with a major attitude adjustment.

It's worth considering.
 

blackg

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"The only dark place she knows is Chads room", was a brilliant one :D but you are still in bad faith Pat.

That comment from him was one of the ugliest things ever posted on a support forum.

Waking up in a strange dark bedroom, regardless if it belongs to a so-called chad, is an experience I wouldn't wish on anyone.

Give it some thought.
 

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I hope @Patrick_Bateman's attitude has changed by the time I get up in the morning.
I will be checking first thing.

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Nano123

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Reading this doesn't make me feel sorry for you. It seems like you are living a privileged life of a hot young girl in university with your boyfriends, getting asked out, etc and your only struggle is having barely noticable hairloss. You're even having success on minoxidil (the weakest drug known to man), you'll be a fullhead once again soon.

I don't get it. What are you even complaining about?

Well, you don't know the whole background but let me state some facts.

1- I lost more than half of my hair's volume which is devastating even if I look OK it is not a reason for me to stop being sad about it, specially that I have to use minoxidil consistently and that isn't the best thing ever.

2- I am doing all I can do to get my hair back, I've done PRP I'm using the big 3 even though I'm a girl and I even tried topical spironolactone, and the improvement isn't very significant yet, I doubt I'll be able to be a "fullhead" because I have lots of follicles which have miniaturized to nothing.

3- I live in a muslim country and I come from muslim background as well although I identify as agnostic I chose to wear the hijab to cover up my shitty genes and I was looking forward to actually getting decent hair so I can stop wearing this piece of sh*t :) I'm self conscious about my hair now because there are places like the gym where I don't wear it and it doesn't look any good.

4- I want to be confident enough to just take it off and go out like this without being afraid of getting into elevators with other people because of the strong lights, or going to university without it because in the sun it doesn't look normal. I've been hesitant about taking such a decision for the past TWO YEARS because I stay at home building confidence and once I go out I see all the girls my age with full heads and all my confidence is shattered.

4- As for the guys, I wear normal clothes, jeans and blouses with the addition of the hijab (I don't wear traditional religious clothes), so what guys see is a good-looking girl in good shape just covering her hair, and most of them would assume that I have a full head of hair underneath because that's the normal thing. The only guy who knew about it and accepted me was my ex but we had been together for 7 years before we broke up and he didn't mind my hair loss any way.

My only complaint isn't losing hair but it's preventing me from being myself and I'm hiding behind a piece of cloth afraid to face the world as I am. I could get a wig but as real as it can get it'd still be noticeable and we don't have all the best options where I live, toppik is great but I don't have the time to shampoo it out of my hair everyday and style it, I study and work a part time job, my whole 7 days are occupied. You judged me based on the little information that I gave but with all the facts laid down it isn't a fun ride for me neither it is for any of us
 
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