Hairloss turns me into a big pussy

[ginald]

well my hair started to thin out in my early 20's. by 30 i was totaly bald on top & it just killed me. i feel i missed out on a lot of my youth because of this & nobody understands what i went through. as hair loss sufferers. nobody knows our pain other than us, nor can they understand it. so easy for an outsider to make comments about how it shouldn't matter isn't it? even after all the surgery i feel a part of me died never to return. i just have to pick up the broken pieces & move forward....

it amazes me to see that a man in his thirties (maybe older) who's been bald for some time now is still deeply affected by it.

is it really that traumatic an episode to go through?

well....it was for me also so i guess i'm far from being odd in that respect.

still hate it now, 20 years on!

 

[saturnsc2]

well my hair started to thin out in my early 20's. by 30 i was totaly bald on top & it just killed me. i feel i missed out on a lot of my youth because of this & nobody understands what i went through. as hair loss sufferers. nobody knows our pain other than us, nor can they understand it. so easy for an outsider to make comments about how it shouldn't matter isn't it? even after all the surgery i feel a part of me died never to return. i just have to pick up the broken pieces & move forward....

it amazes me to see that a man in his thirties (maybe older) who's been bald for some time now is still deeply affected by it.

is it really that traumatic an episode to go through?

well....it was for me also so i guess i'm far from being odd in that respect.

still hate it now, 20 years on!

i hate the bald look, always hated the bald look, & i'll hate it until i die... i can't think of a single thing i despise more on this earth than balding. i hate it with all the hatred i can muster...

 

[s.a.f]

well guys the way i look at it is some women are just going to have to get used to the fact that most men lose their hair to some extent, so if women only go for full headed hair men, there's going to be a shortage of men in the world & many single women, so if the rest of them want a man, they will just have to go for a man with hair loss, either that or be lesbians, or die lonely, it's their choice!

When women are in their teens and twenties or even thirties and are looking for a partner/future husband/mate, the vast majority of men the same age will have a full head of hair. Maybe some of these men will go onto thin or receed later in life, but the fact is as bald men we are at a slight disadvantage, as I think most women would be more attracted to a man with a full head of hair than a baldy.

 

[s.a.f]

well my hair started to thin out in my early 20's. by 30 i was totaly bald on top & it just killed me. i feel i missed out on a lot of my youth because of this & nobody understands what i went through. as hair loss sufferers. nobody knows our pain other than us, nor can they understand it. so easy for an outsider to make comments about how it shouldn't matter isn't it? even after all the surgery i feel a part of me died never to return. i just have to pick up the broken pieces & move forward....

it amazes me to see that a man in his thirties (maybe older) who's been bald for some time now is still deeply affected by it.

is it really that traumatic an episode to go through?

well....it was for me also so i guess i'm far from being odd in that respect.
still hate it now, 20 years on!

Man this is depressing,
reading these posts makes me wonder if I'm going to be 40/50+ and still having trouble coming to terms with the impact of hairloss.

 

[saturnsc2]

well guys the way i look at it is some women are just going to have to get used to the fact that most men lose their hair to some extent, so if women only go for full headed hair men, there's going to be a shortage of men in the world & many single women, so if the rest of them want a man, they will just have to go for a man with hair loss, either that or be lesbians, or die lonely, it's their choice!

When women are in their teens and twenties or even thirties and are looking for a partner/future husband/mate, the vast majority of men the same age will have a full head of hair. Maybe some of these men will go onto thin or receed later in life, but the fact is as bald men we are at a slight disadvantage, as I think most women would be more attracted to a man with a full head of hair than a baldy.

i agree that men with hair get the advantage, but a lot of men have bald heads & thinning hair at a young age these days. a LOT! i always read on other sites especially this one: http://www.baldrus.com/guest_book/guestbook.php about how guys shave their heads & all of a sudden women flock to them. i don't know if i buy all that but i will say this, i think a person looks better shaved than having the bozo the clown look if ya know what i mean. the shaved look was never for me & i always fought baldness, but i'm curious if some of you guys here who are sick & tired of the fight would shave their heads & then see if they get the women like the guys on the bald site claim they do. feel free to post your updates right here if that works!

 

[saturnsc2]

well my hair started to thin out in my early 20's. by 30 i was totaly bald on top & it just killed me. i feel i missed out on a lot of my youth because of this & nobody understands what i went through. as hair loss sufferers. nobody knows our pain other than us, nor can they understand it. so easy for an outsider to make comments about how it shouldn't matter isn't it? even after all the surgery i feel a part of me died never to return. i just have to pick up the broken pieces & move forward....

it amazes me to see that a man in his thirties (maybe older) who's been bald for some time now is still deeply affected by it.

is it really that traumatic an episode to go through?

well....it was for me also so i guess i'm far from being odd in that respect.
still hate it now, 20 years on!

Man this is depressing,
reading these posts makes me wonder if I'm going to be 40/50+ and still having trouble coming to terms with the impact of hairloss.

well that's up to you. in my case i was always made fun of because of that. hell even my own mom would call my father "baldy" when they would argue. i guess if somebody tells you something enough over & over again you start to believe it. i was always "taught" that being bald is undesirable, ugly, makes ya look old, ect., so it's no surprise that i despise the look even later in life. i got the transplants, & if i didn't i would have that bozo the clown look & i don't know if i could live like that. too embarrassing for me to cope with. i know being bald or having hair loss isn't any of our faults, & always wondered why we are treated like it is our faults. people would always say things to me like "wow, your hair is thinning" why did you take after your father" i mean, o.k. so i'm losing my god damn hair! what the hell am i supposed to do? anyway, i guess that's one of the reasons i got the surgery as i always felt pressure to look my best, & their remarks didn't help at all. i know having hair loss isn't something we should be apologetic for, but people make you feel that way. i would never tell an overweight person they are fat, ect. i wish people would wouldn't make fun of people with hairloss. i bet if people never made fun of each other, sites like this wouldn't exist, nor would insecurity & everybody would be happy, but NO! i guess i'm too naive to think that could ever happen in this world....

 

[IBM]

well guys the way i look at it is some women are just going to have to get used to the fact that most men lose their hair to some extent, so if women only go for full headed hair men, there's going to be a shortage of men in the world & many single women, so if the rest of them want a man, they will just have to go for a man with hair loss, either that or be lesbians, or die lonely, it's their choice!

That's why there are unhappy couples. I would be very unhappy if i marry a girl that i dont like.

People must have some responsability in choosing their partners. If all people had this responsability there would be less population in the world things like hunger, lack of resources, violence in youth, lack of education would be lower.

But no. People have to be bunnies and reproduce without care and love.

That's why i decided to not have kids if i dont find a women that i really love deeply.

 

[Guest]

well my hair started to thin out in my early 20's. by 30 i was totaly bald on top & it just killed me. i feel i missed out on a lot of my youth because of this & nobody understands what i went through. as hair loss sufferers. nobody knows our pain other than us, nor can they understand it. so easy for an outsider to make comments about how it shouldn't matter isn't it? even after all the surgery i feel a part of me died never to return. i just have to pick up the broken pieces & move forward....

it amazes me to see that a man in his thirties (maybe older) who's been bald for some time now is still deeply affected by it.

is it really that traumatic an episode to go through?

well....it was for me also so i guess i'm far from being odd in that respect.
still hate it now, 20 years on!

Man this is depressing,
reading these posts makes me wonder if I'm going to be 40/50+ and still having trouble coming to terms with the impact of hairloss.

well that's up to you. in my case i was always made fun of because of that. hell even my own mom would call my father "baldy" when they would argue. i guess if somebody tells you something enough over & over again you start to believe it. i was always "taught" that being bald is undesirable, ugly, makes ya look old, ect., so it's no surprise that i despise the look even later in life. i got the transplants, & if i didn't i would have that bozo the clown look & i don't know if i could live like that. too embarrassing for me to cope with. i know being bald or having hair loss isn't any of our faults, & always wondered why we are treated like it is our faults. people would always say things to me like "wow, your hair is thinning" why did you take after your father" i mean, o.k. so i'm losing my god damn hair! what the hell am i supposed to do? anyway, i guess that's one of the reasons i got the surgery as i always felt pressure to look my best, & their remarks didn't help at all. i know having hair loss isn't something we should be apologetic for, but people make you feel that way. i would never tell an overweight person they are fat, ect. i wish people would wouldn't make fun of people with hairloss. i bet if people never made fun of each other, sites like this wouldn't exist, nor would insecurity & everybody would be happy, but NO! i guess i'm too naive to think that could ever happen in this world....

excactly. when you hear something often enough or see it or feel it often enough, you gona believe it. thats some law of the human psychology.

but you know what. you can use that. i use it. but in a positive way. tell your self often enough that baldness is cool and attractive and you gona believe it. BUT, there is a big BUT, while you do that, explain it. that means, next time when you see a bald guy with a hot chic tell yourself, baldness is attractive because that bald guy got a hot chic and he is bald, so it must be attractive. tell yourself that over and over again. if you just do it often enough and do it with reasons and explain it often enough to yourself with examples, you re gona believe it.

i did that with my hair too. im using kerasome (somethink like toppik) and i got problems with it because i always wondered what people would think about it. so i told myself over and over again "nobody cares about your hair" and "nobody cares that you use kerasome" . then i thought about it and yes, noone mentions it. noone looks on my hair. and even my mom says it looks good. so hey, "nobody cares about your hair". that helped me a lot. im now more confident and dont always wonder about what people think about my hair. if i come in a situation where its critical, when i start again to wonder what people think about it, i tell myself, "nobody cares about your hair". and i think about the fact that nobody looks at my hair and im fine again. even what helped me a lot was, even when someone wears a good hair system and someone sees that he wears a hair system, it doesnt matter. the person wont care, because it looks good. and thats the same with my kerasome. nobody cares. thats a fact.

and a fact is, nobody cares about baldness. and baldness may be beatiful. especially there are women who think baldness is beatiful. tell yourself that over and over again. over and over. dont stop. never stop. sometime you re gona believe it and then you are cured.

i hope that helped you.

 

[tembo]

saturns, so how did your transplant turn out and what medications worked for you over the years (at least temporarily)? Thanks.

 

[Nathaniel]

i hate the bald look, always hated the bald look, & i'll hate it until i die... i can't think of a single thing i despise more on this earth than balding. i hate it with all the hatred i can muster...

Balding is definetely not the thing I hate most about this planet but it ranks up there in the looks department. I f*****g hate the bald look. I do not want to go bald! I will fight this sh*t until the end.

 

[saturnsc2]

saturns, so how did your transplant turn out and what medications worked for you over the years (at least temporarily)? Thanks.

see my pics. i like the results, but i still wish i had more hair still. see my transplant pics in this thread. the only drug i tried is 2% rogaine which did nothing for me whatsoever. they didn't have the 5% out yet back then. i tried many shampoos & other lotions & potions over the years that were all scams, but i didn't know it back then.

 

[saturnsc2]

i hate the bald look, always hated the bald look, & i'll hate it until i die... i can't think of a single thing i despise more on this earth than balding. i hate it with all the hatred i can muster...

Balding is definetely not the thing I hate most about this planet but it ranks up there in the looks department. I f****ing hate the bald look. I do not want to go bald! I will fight this $#iT until the end.

agree! keep on fighting & i hope your fight is successful!

 

[s.a.f]

i hate the bald look, always hated the bald look, & i'll hate it until i die... i can't think of a single thing i despise more on this earth than balding. i hate it with all the hatred i can muster...

Balding is definetely not the thing I hate most about this planet but it ranks up there in the looks department. I f****ing hate the bald look. I do not want to go bald! I will fight this $#iT until the end.

agree!

I hate it too but I also hate the stigma that seems to go with it.

 

[saturnsc2]

i hate the bald look, always hated the bald look, & i'll hate it until i die... i can't think of a single thing i despise more on this earth than balding. i hate it with all the hatred i can muster...

Balding is definetely not the thing I hate most about this planet but it ranks up there in the looks department. I f****ing hate the bald look. I do not want to go bald! I will fight this $#iT until the end.

agree!

I hate it too but I also hate the stigma that seems to go with it.

well that's a big reason why i also hate it in addition to making you unnatractive.

 

[Guest]

saturn, bald you looked better. now you look like you had a bad toupee on.

 

[Guest]

do you have strip scars? because if not i would suggest to shave it.

and read my other post i wrote before. it s important for you.

 

[saturnsc2]

saturn, bald you looked better. now you look like you had a bad toupee on.

opinions vary....

 

[saturnsc2]

do you have strip scars? because if not i would suggest to shave it.

and read my other post i wrote before. it s important for you.

ya i have the typical ear to ear thin line scar under the donor hair. can't see it though & why in the hell would i shave it after i spent almost $20.000! besides i think baldness is ugly & wouldn't shave it no matter what...

 

[Guest]

saturn where are your pics so i can see them?

thanks.

 

[saturnsc2]

saturn where are your pics so i can see them?

thanks.

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