Has anyone else accepted a life of being single/lonely?

[Feelsbadman]

I don't have the genetics to live a bachelor/single life that stuff only works if you're a tall and handsome.

I was fortunate to have a girlfriend for a short period (half a year) a few years ago. It was a wonderful experience. I loved her a lot, but she was missing a few screws in her head. Despite being balding, short and ugly.. I knew she would of been major trouble long term. I'm over her now I only miss the sex sometimes. She is someone else's problem now.

Despite working out daily. Being a low body fat. Dressing nicely. I only match with extremely fat women and transvestites on dating apps.

I get 0 attention from females in real life.

When I go to a shopping mall or anywhere and interact with a female they never smile back and just look away.

I've accepted this was the hand I was dealt. I don't seem to care about chasing women anymore. However - I do feel that there is a negative side to this. Being with women and being intimate is part of life. When I had a girlfriend or was getting laid i actually felt happier and more motivated. Like a part of me was fulfilled and it meant i could actually focus harder on other things.

But what can you do? I guess there's people dying of cancer and born deaf and blind. Need to be thankful. But i just have to accpt it now

 

[Notdifferent]

You might find someone, a lot of it is really based on luck. I think you should stay open to finding someone but don't go chasing for it, don't make it your life purpose to find someone. There's no guarantee to find someone even with hair, in this forum hair matters a lot more than in real life. A lot of people are unfortunately doomed to life of loneliness and a lot of people feel lonely even after finding someone.

 

[Feelsbadman]

You might find someone, a lot of it is really based on luck. I think you should stay open to finding someone but don't go chasing for it, don't make it your life purpose to find someone. There's no guarantee to find someone even with hair, in this forum hair matters a lot more than in real life. A lot of people are unfortunately doomed to life of loneliness and a lot of people feel lonely even after finding someone.

i'm ugly/short women hate ugly/short men
but i'm ok now i just accept it and you're right if it happens it happens

 

[SaveTheMane]

Accept a life being single/lonely is not the same as accept to die as a virgin

 

[Notdifferent]

Accept a life being single/lonely is not the same as accept to die as a virgin

What do you mean?

You can buy sex but not love.

 

[vondoom]

easy... you try to get one, really accept it that you wont, date someone who is attracted to you...
the issue is the same as usual with you people, of course you could date and have a gf, just not the one you think you are entitled to... same story every time...
three choices is a lot...

 

[Derelict]

Pretty much, i will never be in a relationship, never have been and i will be 32 soon. Guess there is nothing i can do about it really at the end of the day, i would love to be in one though but i doubt it will ever happen.

 

[Feelsbadman]

easy... you try to get one, really accept it that you wont, date someone who is attracted to you...
the issue is the same as usual with you people, of course you could date and have a gf, just not the one you think you are entitled to... same story every time...
three choices is a lot...

What do you mean?

I don't have high standards at all.. many of my friends even laughed and said my ex girlfriend was ugly.


Secondly, why date someone who isn't attrcted to you? who will be attracted to your money or coz u hve a house or something? ud rather just be lonely then a fake attraction.

 

[vondoom]

not talking about standards here, but if you match with someone, someone is interested, so dont be like “nobody ever wants me”.... also if you got a match, you must have swiped right, too^^

thing about attraction is, i do understand what you are saying, of course you dont want to date someone you are not attracted to... so does the other side... men dont want fatties usually, women dont like baldies usually... we all know that here...

a lot of women are actually attracted to someone who has cash... its one way to secure a partner, even though of course you think shell cheat and just take your money and blabla...

there is no solution to it anyway, you can just be as good as you can and maybe it works out, or it doesnt... and that goes for everyone in every aspect of life... go bang a fatty, maybe its not that bad^^

 

[Marcaronii]

Just pray that tsuji will release hair cloning and we will be free from this curse.

 

[Norwoodcel]

Dating apps do not work for average or even above average men.. Just because you only match with trannies does not mean you're ugly..

Only very good looking men get any action on dating apps

 

[doubleindemnity]

I have accepted it and so far I am trying to see the positive side. There is more time and energy to focus on things that really are satisfying in life, such as music, books, and art. Without a family, you have a very good chance to retire early and might feel wealthy 10-20 years down the line.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Dating apps work only for top 10% of men. Average or slightly above average is not good enough in 2021. This is not 2008 guys.

This is why I'm flattered that some girls give me their time of the day on those apps. Especially when most guys say they get nothing. I have a couple shortcomings (average height, no Instagram account) but other than those I fit into every criteria that's considered conventionally attractive, yet I still can't match with every girl I want.

 

[Hangin'on Hair]

What's wrong with extremely fat women?

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Lots of things.

 

[I wont lose this]

Nah love doesn't even exist, only the benefits in return is real in every relationship. A woman loves no one but herself, every woman that approaches men only because she is looking for seeds with good genes so that she can have good children that will be feeding her for the rest of her life. So they only "love" you when they can have something in return, either money, materials, or life supports.

BS. Love is a subjective concept, so I neither agree nor disagree with you. However, saying this

only because she is looking for seeds with good genes so that she can have good children that will be feeding her for the rest of her life. So they only "love" you when they can have something in return, either money, materials, or life supports.

is total bullshit. Get rid of this incel mentality

 

[Norwoodcel]

Dating apps work only for top 10% of men. Average or slightly above average is not good enough in 2021. This is not 2008 guys.

Damn i remember the good old days of 2008 and websites like faceparty and Zoosk..
I remember meeting some hot girls back then and fking them..

Back then online dating was very niche, female inboxes were not getting absolutely battered like they are now.

 

[Notdifferent]

Nah love doesn't even exist, only the benefits in return is real in every relationship. A woman loves no one but herself, every woman that approaches men only because she is looking for seeds with good genes so that she can have good children that will be feeding her for the rest of her life. So they only "love" you when they can have something in return, either money, materials, or life supports.

Every human is selfish by nature, you have to get something out of the relationship or it's not worth it. Love exists but it's a chemical reaction in the brain and it wears off quite soon. Men are evil and fucked up the same way women are. You're saying this like it's some red pill sh*t but it's just common knowledge.

 

[INT]

Nah love doesn't even exist, only the benefits in return is real in every relationship. A woman loves no one but herself, every woman that approaches men only because she is looking for seeds with good genes so that she can have good children that will be feeding her for the rest of her life. So they only "love" you when they can have something in return, either money, materials, or life supports.

That's how you want to talk about your mother?

 

[Will Be an Egg in 5 years]

I accepted lonliness a looong time ago. What I dont accept is being a BALD loner.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

I'm not bald at all but I have been in a dry spell for 3 years. I'm grateful that I had my high school and college years where I had a healthy dating life. My only fear of balding is mostly regarding to my poor self esteem and self image issues. But if I never got married or dated again I can at least live with it because I feel fulfilled sexually and I think sex is kinda overrated now anyway.
So it is what it is. I think I can be the best version of myself with hair. I tried just shaving it (bro) and I looked like a mutant so I wouldn't be happy if I had to see that in the mirror every day.