How Can I Cope With Self Hatred/loathing? (advice Needed)

[Captain Rex]

Diffuse thinning is the worst type of hair loss amongst men. That or DUPA.

It looks the worst too. I wish I had a receeding hairline like most regular balders do. Easy fix.

Diffuse thinning you are fucked.

i wud like to introduce you to my two good frnds.
Toppik and Dermatch

https://www.toppik.com/

https://www.dermmatch.com/

u cud atleast give it a try my frnd.

note - dermmatch isn't washed off like toppik and it can easily sustain windy environment.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I've spent the week looks maxing - I've dermarolled my wrinkles, I've whitened my teeth, I've lost 3lbs, I've started using tans beds 12 mins a week. This is all about improving what I can.

My problem is that I am a selfish sod that wants to attract the nubile 20-25 year olds - but to them I am invisible because their are far prettier 21 year old twinks who I cannot beat.

I do okay with average looking 30 year olds but I selfishly want more. I guess I'm a greedy f***.

What i'm doing is looksmaxing and then I am going to play the numbers game on tinder and find myself a beautiful young woman (I'm going to try at least).

I'll let you know if I do it in a few weeks.

 

[Baldhurts]

I've spent the week looks maxing - I've dermarolled my wrinkles, I've whitened my teeth, I've lost 3lbs, I've started using tans beds 12 mins a week. This is all about improving what I can.

My problem is that I am a selfish sod that wants to attract the nubile 20-25 year olds - but to them I am invisible because their are far prettier 21 year old twinks who I cannot beat.

I do okay with average looking 30 year olds but I selfishly want more. I guess I'm a greedy f***.

What i'm doing is looksmaxing and then I am going to play the numbers game on tinder and find myself a beautiful young woman (I'm going to try at least).

I'll let you know if I do it in a few weeks.

Hope you do.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Hope you do.

Cheers, man. I've been feeling a little down these past few weeks and I need to take as much control as I can.

 

[shookwun]

I've spent the week looks maxing - I've dermarolled my wrinkles, I've whitened my teeth, I've lost 3lbs, I've started using tans beds 12 mins a week. This is all about improving what I can.

My problem is that I am a selfish sod that wants to attract the nubile 20-25 year olds - but to them I am invisible because their are far prettier 21 year old twinks who I cannot beat.

I do okay with average looking 30 year olds but I selfishly want more. I guess I'm a greedy f***.

What i'm doing is looksmaxing and then I am going to play the numbers game on tinder and find myself a beautiful young woman (I'm going to try at least).

I'll let you know if I do it in a few weeks.

Only way to looks max is through hair restoration, orthodontics, plastic surgery and weight lifting.

Rest is cope

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Only way to looks max is through hair restoration, orthodontics, plastic surgery and weight lifting.

Rest is cope

Yeah, I'm decent shape already. Hair looks ok with toppik.

I think the tan helps a little because my skin was a little blotchy

 

[CopeForLife]

Only way to looks max is through hair restoration, orthodontics, plastic surgery and weight lifting.

Rest is cope

Savage.

 

[davesmith420]

tfw I've been looks maxing in an attempt to win over my oneitis

tfw it will never work because I'm too ugly to begin with

 

[Baldhurts]

tfw I've been looks maxing in an attempt to win over my oneitis

tfw it will never work because I'm too ugly to begin with

Says the NW1 with 500 tinder matches.

 

[davesmith420]

Says the NW1 with 500 tinder matches.

The dog in my main picture was what probably got me most of the matches tbh

Half of the message I got were "WOW I Love your dog *insert emojis*"

 

[Baldhurts]

The dog in my main picture was what probably got me most of the matches tbh

Half of the message I got were "WOW I Love your dog *insert emojis*"

You should be able to line up those matches for dates and meet ups for drinks. If they swiped you they found you attractive to begin with.

 

[Baldhurts]

^^^^^ Brb two S.L.A.Y.E.R's pretending to be incels. You guys are hysterical, spewing up #COPE in reverse. BRB #ANTICOPE

 

[davesmith420]

^^^^^ Brb two S.L.A.Y.E.R's pretending to be incels. You guys are hysterical, spewing up #COPE in reverse. BRB #ANTICOPE

P.S. Could we maybe not talk about Tinder for once? Some of us are trying to cope here.

I don't know I have something wrong with me

I have all the signs pointing to me that I'm considered "attractive" and "desirable." Number of Tinder matches, the attractiveness of girls I've hooked up with, etc but I never believe it.

 

[Baldhurts]

I don't know I have something wrong with me

I have all the signs pointing to me that I'm considered "attractive" and "desirable." Number of Tinder matches, the attractiveness of girls I've hooked up with, etc but I never believe it.

 

[davesmith420]

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Lmao. I'm a grad student in a program that is mainly female dominated. I hear about the kinds of guys that the girls are getting with/going on dates with (way more attractive than I'll ever be) and it makes me realize my true place on the "food chain."

 

[Baldhurts]

Lmao. I'm a grad student in a program that is mainly female dominated. I hear about the kinds of guys that the girls are getting with/going on dates with (way more attractive than I'll ever be) and it makes me realize my true place on the "food chain."

Those guys are called

CHAD
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[davesmith420]

Those guys are called

CHAD
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Exactly. I might as well just cut my balls off and keep my hair as is well I still can.

 

[Baldhurts]

Exactly. I might as well just cut my balls off and keep my hair as is well I still can.

Aim lower bro. Go for the girls that Chad doesn't want.. the 4.5-5 girls. 60% of the time it works every time.


Ron burgundy approved.

 

[davesmith420]

I've been slamming quite a few gin and tonics maybe if you're lucky I'll post a picture of myself so you guys can tear my aesthetics apart and give me advice.

 

[Baldhurts]

I've been slamming quite a few gin and tonics maybe if you're lucky I'll post a picture of myself so you guys can tear my aesthetics apart and give me advice.

I'm already half way through my 26 of JD.