How Can I Cope With Self Hatred/loathing? (advice Needed)

SmoothSailing

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JohnsonDDG said:
I'm not sure - I've got noticeable hair loss and not in the nw2 club but I can still get dates with average looking women (maybe below average).

Once you lose more hair you will find that you can still date if you want to (so long as you have an average face). Its just that the calibre of women will probably go down (because you go down on the looks scale).

Its unfortunate but its not the end of the world.
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Nope, for me it's all over if I get worse than NW3. Well until I get a transplant.

I've average now, I can just about get average skinny girls with a lot of effort.

If I'm bald it will either be fat chicks or no one. In fact I don't even know if I could get fat chicks bald. I've a massive head, already had a massive forehead before I started balding.

It depends on a number of factors, you might be average now and average as a NW3. But you're lucky if that's the case.
 
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SmoothSailing said:
Nope, for me it's all over if I get worse than NW3. Well until I get a transplant.

I've average now, I can just about get average skinny girls with a lot of effort.

If I'm bald it will either be fat chicks or no one. In fact I don't even know if I could get fat chicks bald. I've a massive head, already had a massive forehead before I started balding.

It depends on a number of factors, you might be average now and average as a NW3. But you're lucky if that's the case.
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You can get fat chicks and 5s as a nw4, trust me.

Life isn't over - it just becomes a worse, but you still have good days that make it worth staying alive.
 
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JohnsonDDG said:
You can get fat chicks and 5s as a nw4, trust me.

Life isn't over - it just becomes a worse, but you still have good days that make it worth staying alive.
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I'm not sure what your point is. Believe it or not there's some NW1's who can't get 5s. So I'm not sure why you're having a hard time believing that I couldn't with an NW3.

For some guys baldness can have a huge impact on their attractiveness.
 
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No. You cannot just generalise like this. Admittedly there are other factors in play for me besides just baldness, but I legitimately went from banging a 8-9/10 to getting turned down by 3-4s when my hair disappeared. I went from a thin but serviceable NW2 to a slick NW6 in less than a year, didn't have the head shape for it and my aesthetics just plummeted. I also acquired a pretty severe facial disfigurement. I was a 7-8 prior to hair loss. I'm now around a 3. I couldn't sleep with a 5 if I paid her.
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Isnt your case an exceptional case?

Didn't you say you were disfigured?

I did say that for an average looking man being a nw4 meant you could still get 5s.
 
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sh*t man maybe is it worth a try wearing a wig for a while. if just to get laid by the kind of girls we all were used getting before. no long term relationship bs, just fun.

this f*****g hm technology cant be that long away
 
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sh*t man maybe is it worth a try wearing a wig for a while. if just to get laid by the kind of girls we all were used getting before. no long term relationship bs, just fun.

this f*****g hm technology cant be that long away
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Raul Meirelles don't need no wig ;)
 
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DBW said:
No. You cannot just generalise like this. Admittedly there are other factors in play for me besides just baldness, but I legitimately went from banging a 8-9/10 to getting turned down by 3-4s when my hair disappeared. I went from a thin but serviceable NW2 to a slick NW6 in less than a year, didn't have the head shape for it and my aesthetics just plummeted. I also acquired a pretty severe facial disfigurement. I was a 7-8 prior to hair loss. I'm now around a 3. I couldn't sleep with a 5 if I paid her.
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if your gonna pay to sleep with a girl, dont pay for a 5, pay for a f*****g 10 man

seriously tho, it sucks to hear your still suffering with this disfigurement. hope something can be for you mate.
 
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I have more quality hair on my sack then DBW has on his head.



:D
 
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DBW said:
No. You cannot just generalise like this. Admittedly there are other factors in play for me besides just baldness, but I legitimately went from banging a 8-9/10 to getting turned down by 3-4s when my hair disappeared. I went from a thin but serviceable NW2 to a slick NW6 in less than a year, didn't have the head shape for it and my aesthetics just plummeted. I also acquired a pretty severe facial disfigurement. I was a 7-8 prior to hair loss. I'm now around a 3. I couldn't sleep with a 5 if I paid her.
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Dam that is scary to lose that all in a year . I'm also thin nw2 ... I'm hoping the big 3 will maintain for me

I agree that not everyone can get average girls after hairloss . I beleive I would go from 6 to a 2/3
 
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Baldingat188 said:
Dam that is scary to lose that all in a year . I'm also thin nw2 ... I'm hoping the big 3 will maintain for me

I agree that not everyone can get average girls after hairloss . I beleive I would go from 6 to a 2/3
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It's a fucked up situation.

Lose our hair, lose our looks, lose the girls.

Use finasteride and pray you don't get a limp c***.
 
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