How Can I Cope With Self Hatred/loathing? (advice Needed)

[davesmith420]

I'm already half way through my 26 of JD.

Cheers brother

 

[hairblues]

I don't know I have something wrong with me

I have all the signs pointing to me that I'm considered "attractive" and "desirable." Number of Tinder matches, the attractiveness of girls I've hooked up with, etc but I never believe it.

you sound like you are a little timid with women from your chats you posted.

 

[DoctorHouse]

I've been slamming quite a few gin and tonics maybe if you're lucky I'll post a picture of myself so you guys can tear my aesthetics apart and give me advice.

Dave, you have a perfect NW1 so you are off to a good start. You said you were going to post it if Fred did. And I told you to go first. What happened?

 

[davesmith420]

Dave, you have a perfect NW1 so you are off to a good start. You said you were going to post it if Fred did. And I told you to go first. What happened?

Lmao maybe I'll direct message you one if I'm feeling #risky

 

[DoctorHouse]

Lmao maybe I'll direct message you one if I'm feeling #risky

I have BDD so I am going to find all your flaws that your BDD missed.

 

[davesmith420]

I have BDD so I am going to find all your flaws that your BDD missed.

I posted pictures of myself on Lookism once so I already have the hard facts of life known

 

[Baldhurts]

I posted pictures of myself on Lookism once so I already have the hard facts of life known

500 tinder matches










500....























500..







You are a Chad/slayer

 

[DoctorHouse]

I posted pictures of myself on Lookism once so I already have the hard facts of life known

I am sure they rated you alot lower than most people would.

 

[davesmith420]

View attachment 48326 f*** it here is me, edited out my eyes

 

[DoctorHouse]

View attachment 48326 f*** it here is me, edited out my eyes

I can you see you attracting alot of Justin Bieber fans. You are on the other end of the spectrum of BH. I am sure most people don't believe you are as old as you are.

 

[davesmith420]

I can you see you attracting alot of Justin Bieber fans. You are on the other end of the spectrum of BH. I am sure most people don't believe you are as old as you are.

BH? And you're right about the age part, people always triple check my ID whenever I buy beer, I usually wear my hair down in an old Justin Bieber fashion to high my forehead.

 

[DoctorHouse]

BH? And you're right about the age part, people always triple check my ID whenever I buy beer, I usually wear my hair down in an old Justin Bieber fashion to high my forehead.

BH is Baldhurts. In that photo you forehead looks small. You have that Michael J Fox thing going on for you.

 

[shookwun]

people still think matches mean anything in 2017

I am still waiting on the conversion, and relation between 100s of matches, and actual dates that you chaps have been on.



100s of matches, a few dates.


seems legit.



(only 'slayers' around here are @zircon, and @WhitePolarBear. They tend to actually go on dates)

 

[shookwun]

Savage.

just shaved my face, and arms



Looks MAX in 2017

 

[rclark]

I posted pictures of myself on Lookism once so I already have the hard facts of life known

Seriously, I would only post pictures of my scalp here.

I would never show my face here. That's just me.

 

[Rudiger]

Why on earth would anyone choose such an odd angle for a picture to put up? I don't even know what to make of it.

 

[hairblues]

it is a bad angle but he's very cute and sweet looking.

most well adjusted 18-23 women should be into him.

he is catching them but he cant reel them in.

 

[DoctorHouse]

it is a bad angle but he's very cute and sweet looking.

most well adjusted 18-23 women should be into him.

he is catching them but he cant reel them in.

I think if he grew some stubble, he would attract more women. In my area, stubble and beards are very popular among guys his age. Hairblues, remember in our generation, clean shaven was very popular? Now its not.

 

[hairblues]

I think if he grew some stubble, he would attract more women. In my area, stubble and beards are very popular among guys his age. Hairblues, remember in our generation, clean shaven was very popular? Now its not.

no my generation was the era of the soul patch and sensitive pony tail men. lol

 

[hairblues]

@DoctorHouse how old are you?