How Can I Cope With Self Hatred/loathing? (advice Needed)

[JohnsonDDG]

Im Italian. she has no excuse. Thats just gross.

Not that she has hair thats just DNA but that she did not kill those follicles by now. Zap them.

of course thats a horrible impression, you cant get passed some things.

i was on a first great date that the guy was gorgeous but he used my bathroom after dinner....for 45 minutes. i was so turned off.
Another guy a first date he drank too much and puked...the smell...i was so done.

Lip hair stubble dark and thick enough you can notice it on a first date??? Run because wtf does she have going on UNDER her clothes. its not just visually gross it says something about her grooming and carelessness.

Its just dirty and manly looking.

Thanks. Its quite nice to hear a woman tell me that

I felt so down after the date because I had such high hopes.

 

[hairblues]

Thanks. Its quite nice to hear a woman tell me that

I felt so down after the date because I had such high hopes.

no dont, that is very weird to me and like i said i am a brunette italian.
It's not that she gets hair its that she left it for her date to see and know about it...like did she brush her teeth? its just weird.

 

[EvilLocks]

You like older guys anyway so it won't be a problem. Just stay fit and take good care of yourself. You will always be attractive if you can do that. For me the most attractive thing about a women is if they are in great shape.

Okay..

 

[DoctorHouse]

Okay..

She is not in great shape. But point well taken.

 

[Baldingat188]

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Your hair looks amazing man. I have similar type of hair cut but not with that density

 

[hairblues]

She is not in great shape. But point well taken.

she is also like 70. i did not think we were talking about senior citizens lol.

 

[hairblues]

@DoctorHouse off topic but remember Bo Derek was married to the older man

now she is married to a younger man...just weird how it flipped. I would not want to date younger not more than a few years it would be weird to me. Not looks but just life experience.

EDIT never mind they are only 5 years difference...i guess she got famous really young and him older..thought huge age difference.

 

[Baldhurts]

@hairblues

Rate Robbie Lawler. Also, if same interests and had good job would you date?

 

[hairblues]

@hairblues

Rate Robbie Lawler. Also, if same interests and had good job would you date?

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I dont know who he is but from pics he is attractive.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

@hairblues

Rate Robbie Lawler. Also, if same interests and had good job would you date?

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for me he is a 7 but I think for women who like their men macho then he is a 8.5

 

[Xander94]

LoL at people's problems here : "I didnt get to get laid with 8s or 9s so I'm unhappy". What about us balding young incels you wouldnt last a minute as one of us.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

LoL at people's problems here : "I didnt get to get laid with 8s or 9s so I'm unhappy". What about us balding young incels you wouldnt last a minute as one of us.

I think we all want to sleep with attractive women.

Most of us on here can sleep with 4's and 5s - its not boasting - its more of an admission.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I sometimes feel like there are two competitions on this forum: there's one set of guys who are trying to make themselves sound like the biggest slayers on this site and then there's the other group who want everyone to know they are the most unluckiest guys on this forum.

I'm in the middle - neither a slayer nor a loser. Just an ordinary guy.

 

[Baldhurts]

I sometimes feel like there are two competitions on this forum: there's one set of guys who are trying to make themselves sound like the biggest slayers on this site and then there's the other group who want everyone to know they are the most unluckiest guys on this forum.

I'm in the middle - neither a slayer nor a loser. Just an ordinary guy.

I agree with this, and that's why I have said I'm not a slayer at all. I would also think I fall into the middle as well.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I agree with this, and that's why I have said I'm not a slayer at all. I would also think I fall into the middle as well.

Nah, while you're not a slayer you are way above average in looks.

But the thing is, you could be a slayer with ease.

 

[Dante92]

I sometimes feel like there are two competitions on this forum: there's one set of guys who are trying to make themselves sound like the biggest slayers on this site and then there's the other group who want everyone to know they are the most unluckiest guys on this forum.

I'm in the middle - neither a slayer nor a loser. Just an ordinary guy.

You fool! There are no shades of gray, only black and white!

 

[SmoothSailing]

I sometimes feel like there are two competitions on this forum: there's one set of guys who are trying to make themselves sound like the biggest slayers on this site and then there's the other group who want everyone to know they are the most unluckiest guys on this forum.

I'm in the middle - neither a slayer nor a loser. Just an ordinary guy.

Yeah me too, @Baldhurts problems seem petty to me whilst @Dante92's scare me, as that's where I will be if I go NW3+.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Yeah me too, @Baldhurts problems seem petty to me whilst @Dante92's scare me, as that's where I will be if I go NW3+.

I'm not sure - I've got noticeable hair loss and not in the nw2 club but I can still get dates with average looking women (maybe below average).

Once you lose more hair you will find that you can still date if you want to (so long as you have an average face). Its just that the calibre of women will probably go down (because you go down on the looks scale).

Its unfortunate but its not the end of the world.

 

[Dante92]

I'm not sure - I've got noticeable hair loss and not in the nw2 club but I can still get dates with average looking women (maybe below average).

Once you lose more hair you will find that you can still date if you want to (so long as you have an average face). Its just that the calibre of women will probably go down (because you go down on the looks scale).

Its unfortunate but its not the end of the world.

See? You belong to one of the "set of guys" you mentioned. You simply won't admit it.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

See? You belong to one of the "set of guys" you mentioned. You simply won't admit it.

Haha I'm hardly a chad because I've had a few average looking girl-friends.

Honestly, I'm pretty normal and just bummed out about my changing appearance.