I think it's really you who is missing the point and if you're not going to read the points of others you're really the "delulu" screaming to himself to cope. Rather than actually discussing.
99% of people balding, alopecia is always a net negative. Balding men or women, children, elderly, even dogs, cats and other animals, parrots you name it. If your brain knows there was supposed to be hair and there's not because clearly there's a defect. It's always seen as negative in the mind. Maybe tolerated but negative nonetheless. Arguing otherwise is really the "delulu" you are.
Patchy, thin, brittle, stringy, balding just doesn't look good or healthy to anyone. Again it's tolerated. But no one in their right mind would ever call it attractive and healthy looking.