How to be considered HOT when bald....

[EvilLocks]

So if we post 3 photos of that guy, one with him sickly skinny, one with him obesely fat, and a last one with him like he is there, you don't think the last one would be an improvement on the previous two? You don't think that in lets say a survey of 1000 women, more of them would find him attractive in the last photo than in the previous two? Although that guy is way overboard I think and it is too much.



Of course your face matters the most. And your hair. I've said that in my previous posts, there's no question about that. And maybe it is "painting a pig" as you say, but it is STILL better than doing nothing.

Of course most women would prefer the muscular guy over a sickly skinny or obesely fat guy. But if he had a normal male body, not sickly skinny or fat, but normal, I think most women would choose that guy.

 

[I.D WALKER]

Too many extreme hypotheticals here. It's beginning to smack convoluted revolution.

 

[Dench57]

Of course most women would prefer the muscular guy over a sickly skinny or obesely fat guy. But if he had a normal male body, not sickly skinny or fat, but normal, I think most women would choose that guy.

Okay let's not focus on extremes, like that photo of that guy or skinny/obese people.

Let's forget about personal preference, I'm talking in the broadest possible terms, across society, of what the average woman will find attractive. I would argue that the average woman would prefer a man that works out - not a gym freak - but toned, well defined, good frame. Rather than a "normal" guy with no definition, no abs, slight belly fat, which is most guys where I come from.

 

[swingline747]

One picture is better than a thousand words to counter your argument here:

Is it still an improvement nonetheless? I don't think so. Your face matters the most. The rest is just painting a pig, and women will see it that way too. Overcompensation.

Sorry if it sounds harsh but I feel that's the reality. The gym rats would like to think working out like crazy will give them a shot with women who found them repulsive without muscles.

The truth is, these women will still find them repulsive even with their stellar body.

I'm not saying everything is over for you if you don't have conventionally attractive face. But you should just find the women who want you, and yes they might not female models.

But then again, if you're not hot yourself, why would you expect hot women to go for you? Because of your astounding confidence and huge body? That's not how women operate unfortunately.

They look at your face and decide if they want to sleep with you in a heartbeat. The rest is just commentary and mental masturbation.

yeah that guy does not have a great face at all. Perhaps its his doofus smile and weird pose tho.
Either way look at it this way
if he was a scrawny or out of shape balding weird face guy he be lucky to attract perhaps this.


his working out will pay off more than not with attraction. Perhaps he'd now land something like this.



sure the face is not great but her body is slamming. Get my point Im making. Im also not trying to say either or is socially or morally better, Im just working with what I find attractive which is a good body.

 

[EvilLocks]

And you would be wrong. Women just don't give a f-ck about muscles.

I've had a lot of women telling me they would rather have a guy with a normal body.

Because muscular men were crushing them in bed and their heavy muscles pushing on them wasn't comfortable.

I think most women would prefer somebody like David Beckham's body, not overly muscular but well defined and fit. Of course David Beckham also has a great face and hair though. As for me I prefer the normal male body over the huge hulk body. But I know girls who like them huge as well.

 

[Dench57]

And you would be wrong.

Let's agree to disagree then, we're obviously not going to change eachother's mind. Nearly all women I have spoken to say having a nice body is a bonus. I will always believe having a nice physique is better than not having one.

 

[I.D WALKER]

Assuming he's into women in the first place, it is less likely that this guy will improve his odds of procuring classically attractive women. However I strongly suspect he will favorably improve the quantity of conquests. In other words; more less attractive women will probably find him a little less unattractive.

 

[sjbuk]

I think most women would prefer somebody like David Beckham's body, not overly muscular but well defined and fit. Of course David Beckham also has a great face and hair though. As for me I prefer the normal male body over the huge hulk body. But I know girls who like them huge as well.

you gotta be kidding me. Good looking face imo but ****looking body.

 

[Dench57]

I think most women would prefer....not overly muscular but well defined and fit. As for me I prefer the normal male body over the huge hulk body.

This is all I'm saying. Well defined and toned. The vast majority of women would prefer that over both normal (undefined), skinny, fat or huge hulk body.

 

[EvilLocks]

you gotta be kidding me. Good looking face imo but ****looking body.

Not kidding. I think he has a great body.

- - - Updated - - -



How can you say this is an ugly body?! I don't get it.

 

[Dench57]

Err, yeah. I'd be very happy with that body.

 

[Wolf Pack]

I think most women would prefer somebody like David Beckham's body, not overly muscular but well defined and fit. Of course David Beckham also has a great face and hair though. As for me I prefer the normal male body over the huge hulk body. But I know girls who like them huge as well.

Yes exactly and that involves working out. It goes something like this face and good hair is like 90%. 10% is the body. Girls definitely discuss muscles, maybe not Hulk Hogan style, but some muscle. There was a 40 plus doctor I knew who was good looking but also pretty jacked. Girls were attracted to his face AND body.

It's all to do with masculinity: Good thick hair, face and strong body.

Some resistance training also is good for the musculoskeletal system which is why it is now standard advice for healthcare in the UK along with cardio.

I don't do it for girls though. I do it because I like having some muscle. Girls that are attracted to you will appreciate it more too. Fact.

I wrote a while ago about a colleague who is like 3/10, tall but ugly and fat. He dated a similar girl. Where is the attraction there? There are all kinds of reason people end up together for good or bad.

But looks, thick hair and build are key for a more all rounded look.

 

[Wolf Pack]

Err, yeah. I'd be very happy with that body.

Saw your earlier post. Definitely go for working out as it's your wish. There will be some benefit, mentally and physically. How much depends on other stuff, but you may enjoy the whole process.

Because I am half greek I have a yellowish skin type, I know what you mean about pasty Brits though! We need more sun.

- - - Updated - - -

This is all I'm saying. Well defined and toned. The vast majority of women would prefer that over both normal (undefined), skinny, fat or huge hulk body.

And that kind of body requires some training, by toned you really mean small amount of muscle and lean build.

Some people have this physique naturally. My Afro-Caribbean mate has not worked out in many years and has that body with a 6 pack too. It's his natural mass.

 

[xetudor]

Lolz @ guyz saying world class athletes have a ****ty body. Dudes, the human body performs best when it isn't depleted. That ripped look that shows your muscles is hard to maintain unless you have excelent super human genetics.

You can train all you want. You can't just take off your shirt and look like Hugh Jackman as Wolverine. The dude had a personal trainer and all the "help" he can get. He also stopped drinking fluids for 36 hours before to look this ripped.

He probably trains hard all the time but when he wants to live his life he looks normal. Nothing to write home about. Just the standard fit man.

 

[I.D WALKER]

They don't call it high standards for nothing. Most of us just aren't there or never will be there. Baldness is probably always going to find us wishing we were standing pretty somewhere over there while we remain stuck here stranded and trying our damnest to deny it.

 

[sjbuk]

Not kidding. I think he has a great body.

- - - Updated - - -

View attachment 34352

How can you say this is an ugly body?! I don't get it.

Because his body looks like a breadstick, a thin breadstick at that. Dench and Wolfpack have it about right, women go for a bit of muscle in my experience although not too much, a bit like height but again not too much depending on the woman. Too much height or muscle are as bad as too little depending on her preference and all the other attractors.

 

[I.D WALKER]

I think for now John Lennon put it best: Fame is All You need.

 

[EvilLocks]

I think for now John Lennon put it best: Fame is All You need.

I think I can put it better: Hair is all you need.

 

[I.D WALKER]

I was referring to aging privileged full heads like Beckham. Hair makes everybody look better with fame even better.

Now I'll spare everyone by not breaking into Give Hair Piece a Chance.

 

[couldbebetter]

I'm screwed then. Skinny, pale and can't grow much of a beard. Ah well.