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Honest question men,
How would you feel if your girlfriend gained 50 lbs in the first two years of a relationship?
How would you feel if your girlfriend gained 50 lbs in the first two years of a relationship?
How To Cope With Hairloss If You Are In Relationships?
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This is how it is at my age (21). I sense irony in your post but I may be mistaken since English is not my mother tongue. Hope you're not. In case you're ironic you're a naive f*****.
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i would feel single
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If she don't lose it, it's ending. Unless the platonic side is at least an 8, and I feel I could get another girl (unlikely lol).
Dann it would be tough call
I sure as f*** wouldn't dann cry at the sight of her. Goddamn that's a disgusting thing to do
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Duh baldness is ugly and it sucks
That's why we are here
But Jesus Christ you act like it's some crime for a girl to be with a baldie. You must legit think baldness is a moral defect eh?
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I don't. Many people do think it's a dealbreaker and a signal of poor hygiene or other bullshit (not all). lol. Don't be this passive aggressive.
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Ok just making sure then. Sorry it sounded like YOU thought that. You need to be clear about that because the implication definitely seemed to be there
You guys need to not let society get you thinking baldness makes you have less worth as a person. Definitely f*****g difficult though
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@WhitePolarBear originally posted it. Found it
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskTrollX/...s_my_boyfriend_is_losing_his_hair_and_i_cant/
However, he's shaved his head twice before. And I've reacted really badly. He didn't tell me he was going to, but I showed up at our apartment after work and he was completely bald. I burst into tears and he couldn't come near me unless he was wearing a toque because I would hysterically cry. He had to sleep with the stupid toque. I have no idea why I care so much about his hair. He's gorgeous no matter what.
HELP! I need to be able to cope with this. I'm already feeling anxiety and panic. I would like to be able to be near him without going into hysterical tears
It's hard to blame her. Imagine waking up one day and your girl was fat.
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lol i can't help but find this image hilarious
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Yea It'd suck to have your gf suddenly become fat but I sure as hell wouldn't do all that!@WhitePolarBear originally posted it. Found it
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskTrollX/...s_my_boyfriend_is_losing_his_hair_and_i_cant/
However, he's shaved his head twice before. And I've reacted really badly. He didn't tell me he was going to, but I showed up at our apartment after work and he was completely bald. I burst into tears and he couldn't come near me unless he was wearing a toque because I would hysterically cry. He had to sleep with the stupid toque. I have no idea why I care so much about his hair. He's gorgeous no matter what.
HELP! I need to be able to cope with this. I'm already feeling anxiety and panic. I would like to be able to be near him without going into hysterical tears
It's hard to blame her. Imagine waking up one day and your girl was fat.
That's fucked up
I dont even wanna read the comments. I bet they'll all condone her behavior just because she is a girl
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No, they'll tell her it's not the baldness bothering her, it's really probably something about his behaviour, maybe he's no longer confident, so they're no longer compatible, but her mind is zeroing in on the baldness because she's a good woman and she feels guilty.
What this proves is that she's a strong, beautiful and loyal woman who deserves better.
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I am convinced that I am of similar 'human' worth of any other 21 years old. I am also aware that humans are hard wired into thinking bald+not old is (unconsciously) upsetting and wrong. Hell I too do have some strange feelings when interacting with NW4+ people of my age. Many rationalize this feeling with things like: 'bald is caused by poor hygiene/bad diet/sedentary life/masturbation/stress so this is why I feel weird when interacting with a NW6 19 years old'. It's hard to accept that a thing so upsetting socially is genetics-based. This sh*t is widely discussed across the forum and it's extremely complicated. Pure reason tells us that balding has no effect on personal worth. Instincts (especially feminine ones) tell us otherwise.
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I'd advice you not to read this from the comments then:
heatherdazy:
Hairdresser here. Rogaine can and will maintain the existing hair. The hard part is convincing a man to use it before he really needs it.
orange_teapots (OP):
Does it really? I have always kind of written off the hair loss stuff as not great. Like, there's that weird spray on hair which would be worse. I will see if he's open to it. Thank you!
heatherdazy:
Hahaha. Rogaine marketing execs must be failing pretty hard if there are a lot of people who lump it in with those wired spray paints.
On the even more extreme end, hair transplants look more natural than ever. Bald is definitely a choice for anyone middle class or above in 2015.
That's one of the most upvoted comments.. "Bald is definitely a choice for anyone middle class or above in 2015."
Bald is definitely a choice for anyone middle class or above in 2015.
Bald is definitely a choice for anyone middle class or above in 2015.
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loooolooooooooool Reddit blue pills. Holy crap the comments are worse than i thought!
She is gonna shave her head now too! She said "turn this into an empowering thing for us " xD. Haha he becomes ugly involuntarily, so she becomes ugly voluntarily xD.
That's so stupid. She thinks becoming uglier will improve things haha. Lol i bet its some messed up feminist thought process. "He is ugly now so I have the right to become ugly as well!"
She is gonna shave her head now too! She said "turn this into an empowering thing for us " xD. Haha he becomes ugly involuntarily, so she becomes ugly voluntarily xD.
That's so stupid. She thinks becoming uglier will improve things haha. Lol i bet its some messed up feminist thought process. "He is ugly now so I have the right to become ugly as well!"
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shaving her head seems like a genuinely nice gesture tbh
completely retarded and won't end well but sweet all the same
Like Guzam said earlier, only decent thing for the guy to do is end the relationship and enter LDAR mode. The sexual attraction is obviously dead if she can't be around him without crying
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If it just started he needs to get on meds. Either way it's not indecent for him to stay. Lol the crime of subjecting girls to your bald head
I'm about to go to slybaldguys up in here lol
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Had exactly that situation and kept the relationship running for two more years. In the end i couldn t get it up anymore.
Had sex for hours after the breakup with someone else and only then realized how bluepilled i was.
So i kind of can relate to the girl from my experience.
Its possible that he was just suddenly not her type anymore. Then again most guys can pull it off quite well, so its not really black and white.