HPM - living the dream?(Whatever happend to) thread

[ChrisW1980uk]

i have not indicated that i have any social issues, you just said that out of no where, I also don't see how money has anything to do with that, and im not obsessed with money, i just said i don't want gold diggers in my life and called you poor cause you called be a socially inept virgin that stands no chance even if im NW1 6 0 with x y z attribute which i found somewhat harse.

and yes you did say and claim i was socially inept f*sake, no doubt you'll edit what you said, but it was 100% implied and out of nowhere just because I said i said under 5 7 is a big danger zone, and you try to comfort me at your 5' 3" ness.

if this is all true then try this for a social experiment, hollow out your shoes so you drop 1", shave 100% sly bald and go visit your current gf and see how she reacts.

oh no its ok, you just need to improve your social skills, then its like you were the NW1 you were yesterday.

come on, get real, see how your logic falls back on you and fails.

I've only edited posts where I've made a typo. I made my socially inept comment after you said "whatever short stuff", which coming from someone who seems to suffer so much angst over other people commenting on his height, is odd. Hence my "social issues" comment. You now acknowledge that I tried to comfort you. But you told me nothing I could say will change your mind, that your mindset is fixed. That is a bad attitude to have in life, and will not win you many friends.

Why do I need to be 5ft 2? I can't hollow out my shoes as I don't use lifts, I wear flat shoes. As for being shaved bald, my gf knows about my hair issues, medication etc. Do you think she got together with me because of my hair? Really? Why do you keep saying I'm a NW1? I am socially skilled which has helped me overcome some of my physical shortcomings (no pun intended). I'm not complaining I can't get the women I want, that's what you've been saying. I haven't complained about my hair, as I've managed to catch it in time.

 

[Beingbaldsucksass]

I need to change my avatar cuz its misleading, saying I have good facial features, first I wish my face were actually clean like a normal person, it's full of marks and red cheeks from saboreha. I am NOT good looking I maybe look average with grown hair but without I look terrible.

and Chris let me tell you social skills means ****, I have many, I am a very funny guy with confidence, girls don't give a **** about that I was rejected so many times despite being the most nice, funny, full of joy you can imagine, but when Im around a taller guy with zero hairloss and I mean an a**h** with 0 personality and the most ****ty additude you can think off I am nobody, All the attention goes to them. And the majority of those guys are assholes, and it's simple because when you get the attention just by looks a personality is just a bonus, but they don't need it really.

 

[HairPieceMan]

no you can hollow out the 1" platform so when you walk in shoes its like you're walking without shoes, that is nice your gf knows about your "hairloss" that at the moments looks FINE so it's not impacting yuor life if your "hairloss" situation is minimal at best, but im saying you need to shave bald and watch how society/women react to you then you know what it's truly like, but what im saying is YOU are claiming its my lack of personality/social skills that is the problem, when you know fine well you have a problem on your hands if you go sly.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Once again you ignore half of what I've written... why do you keep saying I'm a NW1? Do you think my gf got together with me because of my hair? If you answer those questions, I'll respond to what you've said

 

[HairPieceMan]

Chris doesnt know yet beingbaldsuckass, at least I've went bald before and seen how women look at me (when i say bald i mean NW6 not NW1.5 and my GF knows I'm on meds and the rest of the world has no idea im "receding" type balding) supposedly relating ,

nothing "cataclysmic" has happened to chris for him to know what it's like to truly go bald, and there is plenty of stories of guys in relationships with girls and they go bald and the women leaves him, no doubt chris mr "social skills" will come to the rescue with his tree huger advice, and if you disagree with him you're dubbed a socially inept virgin looser and even if your 6' 0" NW1 or whatever your "problem is" that can be rectified with social skills.

 

[Beingbaldsucksass]

Chris you should read previous posts here, there was a guy, 3 years in relationship, his fionce left him because of his hair loss (she even addmitted) i dare you to shave your head WITH A RAZOR, and see the reactions from sociaty

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

So I'm now Norwood 1.5 and not one. I've lost half a point on the scale in about 20 minutes. At this rate I'll be NW6 by the morning!

How do you know nothing cataclysmic has never happened to me? Now who is making assumptions? Let me put it this way HPM, has your current path got you the women you want? You say you haven't been with a woman for 3 years, is that right? I had a 4 year drought, because every time I spoke to women I was dour and depressing, turning the conversation round to my falws. My logic was that if they knew what they were getting, there would be no nasty surprises. Guess how far that got me...

PS you still haven't answered my questions

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Yeah and then I could spend the next 2-3 years growing my hair back to a length that covers my big forehead etc. Plus then it could show the weird crest I have on my head from being delivered with forceps No thanks. Notice you never came back with any other pictures BBSA. You aren't bald, you have a receding hairline going from your avatar, hence me asking if there were any other pictures.

 

[Beingbaldsucksass]

So I'm now Norwood 1.5 and not one. I've lost half a point on the scale in about 20 minutes. At this rate I'll be NW6 by the morning!

How do you know nothing cataclysmic has never happened to me? Now who is making assumptions? Let me put it this way HPM, has your current path got you the women you want? You say you haven't been with a woman for 3 years, is that right? I had a 4 year drought, because every time I spoke to women I was dour and depressing, turning the conversation round to my falws. My logic was that if they knew what they were getting, there would be no nasty surprises. Guess how far that got me...

PS you still haven't answered my questions

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Yeah and then I could spend the next 2-3 years growing my hair back to a length that covers my big forehead etc. Plus then it could show the weird crest I have on my head from being delivered with forceps No thanks. Notice you never came back with any other pictures BBSA. You aren't bald, you have a receding hairline going from your avatar, hence me asking if there were any other pictures.

There are in previous pages, I'm on iPhone now so I can't upload, but I really don't care of showing myself even when I am very close to bald now because my temples are thin and takes time to grow after an haircut. Let me tell you, the horror that I exprienced in those 2 weeks since going sly is unimaginable, starings, insults, people cursing at me with no reason, you have to exprience it yourself first, just shave it compleatly, make a little test the hair will grow back anyway, just do it to see the truth, but shave it with razor after haircut, don't be scared.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

There are in previous pages, I'm on iPhone now so I can't upload, but I really don't care of showing myself even when I am very close to bald now because my temples are thin and takes time to grow after an haircut. Let me tell you, the horror that I exprienced in those 2 weeks since going sly is unimaginable, starings, insults, people cursing at me with no reason, you have to exprience it yourself first, just shave it compleatly, make a little test the hair will grow back anyway, just do it to see the truth, but shave it with razor after haircut, don't be scared.

I don't dispute that you've found it traumatic, but in the UK there are MANY men who sly and not with a NW1 hairline doing it for fashion. I've told you why I won't, I have a ridge on my skull from forceps, in addition to it taking 2-3 years for my hair to grow back to this length.

 

[HairPieceMan]

chris you know **** all of baldness, you would never step out the door sly at 22 and live a life like that for 20 years, admit it.

the **** "current path", i didn't choose to go bald **** sake, you're not even "going bald" a women would never to you "you are going bald", i don't see how you can relate.

its your thought process that people are socially inept, andyes what about the guy in 4 year relationship with girl, where is your advice for him, there isa high chance the girl you are with will leave you if you go bald and under 5 7, VERY HIGH.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

chris you know **** all of baldness, you would never step out the door sly at 22 and live a life like that for 20 years, admit it.

If I was bald at 22 then I'd HAVE to do that wouldn't I? Did you go sly for 20 years?! And I plan on living longer than 42 cheers. Ok now in the interests of dislosure, as you've got me to "admit" soemthing which is pretty apparent, how many girlfriends have you had, and how many women have you slept with? No doubt you will avoid this, as you avoid all of my questions...

 

[DannyBoyy]

All this over hair...*sigh*

 

[HairPieceMan]

who cares this isn't a pissing contest its about your opinion that its lack of social skills that is harming me/BBS or what have you, but it's total BS, no one is interested in your view point. and no one cares if your in a loving relationship, so were many people that went bald and there girl left them (and they were 5+ inches taller than them), and they have interviewed couples before and asked "what if you woke up today and your man was shorter than you" and they say "oh we'd have to split up".

so stop saying hair/height isn't important, whether is first meet, LTR 5+ years etc.

ok maybe hair matters less as you age but height remains important into middle aged years.

 

[Beingbaldsucksass]

I don't dispute that you've found it traumatic, but in the UK there are MANY men who sly and not with a NW1 hairline doing it for fashion. I've told you why I won't, I have a ridge on my skull from forceps, in addition to it taking 2-3 years for my hair to grow back to this length.

So you just addmitted that you can't leave your hair, so stop preaching us,Your the opposite of danny, he at least do shave it but he's 6'2, you short but can't allow yourself to do it and you both love to preach me slipy, exodus and hpm that we all short balding guys.

You just addmitted you cant accept yourself as a bald man after hours of preaching about how it dosent matter and it's all about social skills

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Ah right HPM, you won't answer my questions, but I have to answer yours? How does that work? Double-teaming me with BBSA in an attempt to prove me wrong. I'm an average looking guy who is shorter than you both, that is a fact. Do you think every tall guy with good hair can get any woman he wants? That's a rhetorical question by the way. Both of you are clearly suffering from depression over you height and hair situation and I provide an easy scapegoat. If you aren't interested in my viewpoint that's your prerogative but you don't speak for all the forum do you? OK you're both goosed, no woman will ever want you, it's not your fault, life is hard etc etc. Obviously I've been the luckiest man alive to not suffer the way you have.

It's obvious I can't accept myself as bald. Firstly I'm not bald. Just as neither of you are as short as I am. If I could accept hairloss, I wouldn't have found this site years ago and wouldn't have started treatment. So that's something of a moot point. It's hardly a revelation now is it?

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PS HPM is hardly socially noticeable as bald, as he wears a wig for goodness sake!

 

[DannyBoyy]

"Do you think every tall guy with good hair can get any woman he wants?" another good point i have also said this many times.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

DannyBoyy, nobody cares what I think and I don't know what I'm talking about, so what I say can't possibly have any merit.

 

[HairPieceMan]

wait, wth are you 32 years old?

christ man, IMO "the impact of hairloss" sub-section is for guys that are SOCIALLY NOTICEABLY PRE-MATURELY balding (19-35), you'll be 37 and the world has no thoughts that your balding.

congratulations for leading a life of a full head of hair 19-35.

you are the troll.

im not answering your "pissing contest" questions because it bears no relation to the discussion, just admit your views are somewhat skewed claiming height to not be a problem with social skills, yes you are not genetically bald but for a social test why don't you just make yourself bald and improve on social skills, or move to Netherlands where the male average is 6 0, see how things go there, just read some social skills book.

 

[DannyBoyy]

I love who ever goes against HPM and some others here are called trolls...i just love it.

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DannyBoyy, nobody cares what I think and I don't know what I'm talking about, so what I say can't possibly have any merit.

Lmao i know dude trust me i been where you are now and just like me you are now called a troll...de ja vu.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

wait, wth are you 32 years old?

christ man, IMO "the impact of hairloss" sub-section is for guys that are SOCIALLY NOTICEABLY PRE-MATURELY balding (19-35), you'll be 37 and the world has no thoughts that your balding.

congratulations for leading a life of a full head of hair 19-35.

you are the troll.

im not answering your "pissing contest" questions because it bears no relation to the discussion, just admit your views are somewhat skewed claiming height to not be a problem with social skills, yes you are not genetically bald but for a social test why don't you just make yourself bald and improve on social skills, or move to Netherlands where the male average is 6 0, see how things go there, just read some social skills book.

Wow, you're an observant one aren't you? Took you that long to notice the 1980 did it? You won't answer my questions, as you know the answers will validate what I'm saying. Of course it's relevant, I'm not the one boohooing into my wig that no women will want me am I? You don't learn social skills from a book dear child, but I'm sure an intelligent well read man such as yourself knew that already.

I didn't realise that you were now a moderator/admin HPM congratulations to you as well. Now where does it give the description you gave for this part of the forum? You trolled ME with your "poor" comments which you were disappointed didn't work and now you don't mention. I tell you what, get in your little town car, and come on a night out in Chester with me, I'll be the shortest guy there so you can feel superior, and I'll even let you call me "short stuff" all night. What do ya say?

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They don't like it, because I in some ways prove that height isn't the handicap they make it out to be. yes it's harder being short, but not impossible. This is why they've given me a virtual hair transplant and I'm now a Norwood 1, because then it shows I can't understand how tough it is. My life has been a bed of roses with people falling in love with me because of my hair *yawn*